2114 - Age Inappropriate (s1e5) "Reality Check" with Keisha

0:00Hey everybody, welcome to Pink Shade. It's Monday. It's Milk Monday. It's my last or Monday. It's Mother Issues Monday. Getting thing to add, Keisha. No, okay. No, nothing to add because ridiculous starts with the letter R so nothing. Oh my god, there's something this week that was so disturbing to me but you probably know what it is and I'll tell you when we get there. So let's get started. Age and appropriate is the show that we're talking about guys. Season one, episode five, which means three to go. You're ready to go. And then maybe this episode is Reality Check. Okay, which is why

1:02they're all doing it so they can get a reality check. Like a check. Check, check, like we have to write a number. Yes, good one, good one. So we're going to start with Drew and Janet. Now I sent you Janet's website that I found. It is giving Latisha, call your boss, baby boss bitch boss. I don't think Janet does any kind of a scammer like Latisha. You never know. I mean, she looks legit but that looks like every girl in Galveston County who all of a sudden decides they want to do taxes. It is the same template. Yeah, it's not a smart me to what her to do about taxes. It just doesn't let a leg come in through with a high heel. Does not make me think, you know what? That's my tax gallery

2:02there. Maybe she were selling lashes or something like that or like, hose or little lot or something. Yes. My money. My money. No. I'm going to need you to have a calculator or something at your goddamn hand. You want to do my taxes. Well, Janet is she's 60 now and she's with Drew who's 40 and I this week started getting a Airbnb vibe from their house. I was wondering if you were going to look in her house and there's nothing nothing personal in this house. Not one thing. And she seems like the type of person who would have a poster size photo of her first. Well, I'm sorry, not just one. Several poster size photos of herself, her and Drew. She just gets off that vibe and there was nothing. No photos. So it's the day after the party and Drew wakes up and says, after the whole lower deal last night, I slept on the couch. So we're to believe

3:07this man slept in a velour sweatsuit. Yeah. Yeah. Come on now. Come on. You took on that beer to rent a velour anything. It is skin tight that would not be comfortable to sleep in. You would be sweat in your ass off. So she walks out and he's like, where are you going? She's like, just remember, you know, boss babe, hashtag boss bitch. I'm leaving. And he says, where are you going? And she goes, after last night, you act like nothing happened. But listen, we saw them have this one little interaction with this girl, Kendra, who was a plant. And now we're to believe that they didn't speak for the rest of the night and she's mad at them and he had to sit on the couch. I assume that she may have spoken to him just so people wouldn't think something was going on. She was pissed the entire time because she's 60. And she continuously lets us know that she's 60 and it was her birthday. It was her birthday and she turned 60. It was indeed her 60th birthday party. It was milestone. It was a milestone. It was her day.

4:13And she was bugging. Oh, you're so right. So she walks out and he's like, where are you going? And she goes, you know, you're checking like nothing happened. And he goes, I did not know that girl. It she says, well, you were not respecting my feelings. It was supposed to be all eyes on me. And you let this happen. It was a milestone birthday. You didn't grab the mic. You didn't make a speech or even give me flowers. And you know, we see the purple when she had the mic and she looked at him and he said, give it to six. There was no reason for her to say anything. Why do you have to give a speech at a birthday party? Thanks for coming. So nice. Thank you all. I'm going to take a shot. And then why did he have to get? She had this grand birthday party. What the fuck was a bouquet of flowers from HB? You're right. I don't get it. And you didn't give me flowers. And he goes, okay, so you're saying I ruined your birthday. He says,

5:13I had all the intentions of giving a speech, but I was trying to keep the flow of the party going. And he says, I feel like you're just going back to the past. Now here where she's talking in the driveway, did you notice that had to blur out her nipple? Well, I thought she accidentally pulled down part of her dress. I didn't, although so it was a nipple cover up. I thought it was a bra. Okay. Well, they blurred it, whatever it was. So let me to believe it was an apple. And he says, I'm trying to do things differently now. And he goes, we've been together five years married. And she says, well, your actions speak louder than words. I don't get what he did. She's taking it out of raw person because he's like, I don't know that girl. And I kind of believe him. I think she knows more about the girl that he does. Totally. Yes, I think she knows the girl and notices her around, but he doesn't know. Yeah. She's so short. She how could even see her.

6:15So for talking head, she says, I wanted that milestone birthday to be special. I don't want to be a babysitter for my husband. He needs to be the leader of the house and protect me at all costs. Just stop bossing him. He's not your bodyguard. Do you want to be your husband, your son or your bodyguard? You're giving him too many jobs. That's true. That's true. So I'm talking to you. He's like, I'm shocked. I can't believe she's acting like this. Like I can't believe it. I also can't believe I slept in a velour sweatsuit. Yeah. I can't believe you bought a velour sweatsuit. That's part of his clothing line. I'm sure. I tell you what, it better not to seducing on the ass. He just unstitched those letters and he was like the Drew collection. Yeah, exactly. So now we have Janet's friends come over. We got Dr. Lexi again and Natalie. And by the way, when you look up Janet's website, if you look up Dr. Janet Jackson Gordon, she's also a doctor. No explanation as to how or why. So then I went to LinkedIn to see where she did, in fact,

7:20at her medical degree or her PhD. And it just says she got her undergrad from like University of Tennessee. Where she gets that doctor doctor. I mean, I think you could just nowadays you literally could just put DR in front of your name. Oh, okay. I mean, who's gonna stop? I mean, I think who was a model? My angel did the same thing like it was Dr. Ma, but she wasn't a doctor. I now listen, they'll soon speak ill of my angel. I do think she had some sort of like doctorate in poetry or it was bestowed upon her by a university. Okay. You know, so again, you don't have to actually do the work. But who bestowed it upon Janet? That's what I want to know. She did. Oh, okay. Because it doesn't say it in her bio at all. Because she's not. And you know, in 1999, Janet was bestowed an honorary doctorate by Georgetown

8:21University, just like something. So you would know, but it doesn't say it. And now she's doing taxes. She knows it all. She's not doing taxes off it. Okay. If you guys don't know, we're talking about, we're talking about Latisha from Love at your Lockup, who's about to have a baby, but has been sentenced to like 40 years in prison. And I think her husband's gonna end up doing 50. I mean, horrible. Okay. So, but she's a tax expert. So Natalie and Dr. Lexi. And Natalie also has decided for this meal she's going to put her boobs completely out to the world. Where were they going? No, where they were sitting in the Airbnb. Why were they dressed this way? Why was Dr. Ashley trying to represent that neck tribe? This is Dr. Lexi. Now Dr. Lexi last time we also saw had the big afro. And I just think she's extra. And I think she gets like she says, I'm going to be this culture today. I'm going to be that culture. I tell you what, I'm not going to wear necklace that when I turn

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12:32He told you. Yeah, he's made a cordial. Yes. I mean, if this girl is as crazy as Janet Sessi, she might have acted a fool had he ignored her or been true. Yeah, me too. I just, and now they're gassing her up about something that really didn't make any sense. Lexi says, you know, it is his job to protect you and not to let another woman disrespect you. And Natalie says, all I want is to be sure her heart is protected. And then they're like, and he didn't even give a speech. I know I even gave him my opportunity. I turned with the microphone. He said, give it to me. He didn't even give me a speech. I mean, I was like, okay, I don't understand. I would not want to be at anyone's birthday party if someone just handed me a mic. Yeah, like, yeah. And like he said, he goes, I've given you a speech for every event ever. And she was like, it was my milestone 60th birthday. I mean, he's not the best man. He's not the maid of honor who needs to make a damn speech. At the end of the night,

13:35he's a husband. So she says, you know, I love Drew, but I won't be willing to accept this if it goes on any further. So basically, he needs to never speak or make eye contact with another woman. Even a waitress. Even a waitress. It'll be like, my buddy will order for me. I'm not allowed to look right at you. Yeah, he's going to get sick of that shit real quick. All right, let's talk about our favorite couple Kent. We're to your part now. So it's not fast forwarding. Stop fast forwarding. We're to Jay Ann and Kent now. Which one didn't say a lot of Kent this episode? No, that was good. So Jay Ann, by the way, I have been told by Kent and also somebody else that she is 30, not 33, where I got 33. I don't know. It could have been. Well, her mom was still in her teens, which she had her. Her mom was still 17, not 15. So anyway, the point is this. The girl is 30,

14:40not 33, which by the way, it doesn't make it look better for Kent. It makes look worse. But anyway, she's 30. Has three kids. So she's walking with her mom. They're going on a picnic and they're talking about how beautiful Hawaii is. I mean, my God, everywhere you go in Hawaii, that's what it looks like. Yeah. That's the kind of place where you go and you go, I could go totally live here. You could just, it's up in Jay Ann. Right. Well, she wants to be where her family is, but it's so beautiful. I've only been there once, one time for nine days. And I was like, I'm never going home. Bucked him kids. This friend lives there. She's like, I'm never coming back to living the States. They were tired there. I mean, just incredible. So I'll get your Amazon packages, like in a day or two there. By the way, Hawaii is also the States before somebody corrects us. We know that. You said, you said, you said she's never coming back to the States. Oh, I'm Damaylin. Damaylin. Damaylin. Yes. Because God, oh, so we're like, we're mellow you a man.

15:44We're sitting you a globe. And it is gorgeous there. So they're sitting there. And she tells her mom, I haven't talked to Kent since dinner. And you know, he doesn't want me to go back to Philippines because he's afraid of what happened to him before with the girl from Vietnam and the baby will happen again. And mom says, you need to try to talk to him calmly and convince him to agree. And I think that sometimes we have seen a little smattering of they are able to talk calmly. A smattering. But then it always turns bad. And they both do it. They both do it. So she says, I've tried to convince him, but he says it's also about money we can't afford the trip. He made so many promises to me that he did not keep. And mom says, he made you, he just made you into a baby maker. He said, um, and she says, he knows I have no money. So I can't go to the Philippines. And mom says, once you get a job, you'll have the power to stand up to him. And then she says,

16:48you know, I never had to rely on Jay and dad. I had a business and I worked very hard, but I see myself in Jay and getting married really young to an older man. So we're sort of getting the story, but I still quite don't quite get it. It was a lot of like, okay, I get it. Then it was like, okay, what? What? Yes. Yes. They say stuff that makes you say, wait, wait, but you just said, but I wondered the she have access to the bank account. Oh, I think not. Because she makes the same like she does not know. I think it's not okay. Yeah, I don't think she should have to ask him for money. She shouldn't say, hey, I need to go to the grocery store. Can I? How does she go to the grocery store? She can't drive. She can't drive. He drives her everywhere. It's awful. So, um, she get to get an Uber and drive herself off like to the airport if you didn't watch out. So the mom says, remember, Sonia is 47. Mom says, what I feel about Jay and husband is that he manipulates her and he's very similar to Jay and his dad. He was almost 11 years older than me.

17:55So she was pregnant at 17 with a 28 year old man if you want to do the math on that. Which here is against the law. Here is against the law. I don't know what it is. I'm going to look a these ladies like their men older. I will say that. Age of consent in the Philippines. Um, a legal age of consent for sexual activity in the Philippines is 16 years old. Okay. And this is from the, this is from the global platform for child exploitation. Um, but children who are 13 years old can engage in sexual activity with somebody no more than three years older. So if you're 13, it's okay if you're having sex with the 16 year old. 16 year old. And if you're 16, you can do whatever you want. Um, again, I would like to you guys to know this is coming from a website called Global Platform for Child Exploitation. Okay.

18:56So, um, believe that there. So this one was 17 pregnant with a 28 year old man. And she continues on and says, I had no money and I had to be subservient because I had no money. So I think what she's trying to say is she then started a business and got independent. So she didn't have to rely on him for the money, right? Yeah. But when she was 17, she had this baby. So, Jay and says, I wish I wish I would have gotten to know him better before. And the mom says, but you had a good life in the Philippines and we were able to provide everything you needed. And we thought when you moved away, you would have a really good life. And I feel sad for you because you didn't. And you're not able to really enjoy your life. I thought he would treat you like a princess, but that is not the case. It's kind of makes you wonder. It's like, okay, so she had this great life in the Philippines. Why was she? Because here's the thing. And I know people say, I go too hard for Kent. It's not that I go too hard for Kent. I mean, I think he's,

20:01I'm not even sure what the right word is. But I think, again, people keep forgetting this is transactional. They both wanted something out of the deal. So they use each other. And I'm not just going to say, well, I'm on the girls side because she's a girl. Well, no, she wanted to get here. She used him. He wanted a baby maker. So he used her. But why did she have to lead the Philippines of life was so good there? Well, I don't think life was so good there. I think mom was like, you had all your basic needs met. You could have a job. You could leave the house if you wanted to. You could go to the grocery store. You could have autonomy. And I think that here, she is a baby maker. She feels like a nanny. And she doesn't ever seem to do anything unless he says we're going to dinner. We're doing this. So I think her. And I think some of this put off for the show. It could be. It could be or their TikTok or whatever their fucker tried to promote. Yeah. But you know, she says I feel like a nanny. I feel like I've wasted six years. I gave him all my 20s.

21:04But I don't know if I'll give him my 30s. So I looked it up. They've been together since she was 24 and he was 55. So I feel like they met. They met in the mall devs or something. Or he were there to big money, right? Yeah. And then he goes to the Philippines and says, I want to marry you. I want to bring you home. Let's let's do it. And the parents agreed because they thought, okay, great. She's going to have this great life. And she'll come back twice a year and visit us with the kids. Ah, girls, you got to get stuff and writing before you agree to it. And so she does have a beautiful home and three great kids. She does. But she's not the nanny because they're your children. And therefore you do have to take care of them. Yes. But I think that her point is like, you know, it'd be nice if I could just leave the house and have a friend or, you know, just join a mom scraper or just anything, you know. So it happens when you married an old man like he's, oh, he doesn't figure you have to go out and have fun. You know what I mean? He works and he works in the

22:07house. And he works in the house. Yeah. Or just looks at YouTube and the house, whatever he's doing. Okay. So talking head, Jay and says, I feel my mom's sadness for me. And I don't regret my kids, of course. I love them so much. But I regret that I have let him disrespect me. And I regret that I did not speak up for myself. I know in my heart I can do better. And if it doesn't change, I'm going to have a hard decision in my life. Okay. So that I think, I think she explained it well here. You know, she's sort of let this go on too long. And she didn't put her foot down. She didn't get anything in writing. And you know, all right. So today's the day the mom Sonia is leaving. So she's been there two weeks, I guess. And you know, she's saying, my my kids will miss my mom so much. And I'm going to miss being able to speak them out on language. So Kent comes in and is like, Hey, girl, thanks so much for coming. It meant so much to Jay and that you were here. Come on, lady. And Sonia says, my advice, he's just so smiley. And Sonia says to Kent, my advice,

23:12really, take care of your family and your wife. And he says, I'm trying. I'm trying. He doesn't know what that means. I mean, he thinks it's just I provide the home. Here's a house. You have clothes. Yeah. That's what he thinks it is. I mean, they may need some mayor's therapy. Yes. I think so. Yeah. He's just an old man. This is what all men did. This is what he's like, I mean, he's just like the age of my sister as husbands. But he asks like, if they don't, they don't have a problem. Yeah. He acts old. And if you in a few years when we're still podcasting in Davis 61, I'm going to say, remember when you were saying Kent was an old man and now my husband's that same age. It doesn't matter when Davis at age, it'll matter when you're 61. Right. We have to be like, oh, don't far me. Sorry. Don't far me. It's the one and old. Let's hope I'm retired. Okay. All right. Okay. So the talking to his son, he says, the things I

24:16saw were a concern. I feel that Jay and has no freedom. Yeah. And talking to Jay and says, my mom is really sad seeing this relationship that I have with my husband. She doesn't want me to experience what she had to. Back when my parents were together, I remember it. It was only bad things. So my mom understands everything. She's been through it. And I feel like my life is all his. And I'm just here and I have nothing for myself. I think what she needs to sometimes when you feel like you're trapped, you're not as trapped as you think you are. You know what I mean? You feel like all the walls are closing in. I mean, she's on TikTok. Why does she start like a mom's group from where she is and that, you know what I mean? Like, hey, you guys, let's meet up or you can come to my house or I can come to your house. Like, there's ways that she can go about getting out there. I think she just, I think she just is brainwashed. We need to find her TikTok because we see a lot of clips of his of his TikTok. We see a lot of clips. I don't know if we've seen the eclipse of her

25:21TikTok. If we did, I forgot. So somebody sent those to meet. Not you can't. Somebody else send those to us. Jay is TikTok. And then we'll see her perspective and see how much control she has over her own phone. That's what I'd like to see, you know. He probably gave her a flip phone. Or she can't do shit with it. Oh, God. So the mom in the car, you know, she's sitting in the car saying goodbye and the mom says, you have to be brave about this. He shouldn't be the only one who gets his way all the time because that is what happened to me. I was always the one just following along and nothing came of it. Before the sake of you, I did it. We endured and she cries and says, I remember everything and I don't want you to end up like me. You have no money. You're sad. You're hurt. Nothing good's going to come for this. And Jay and says, but it's for the kids right now. So it feels like the dad was a little bit like physically abusive too. Because she keeps saying,

26:25I remember everything and you're like, yeah. Yeah. So Jay and brings Rosie back to the house and they all wave and he's like, tries to like put his arm around her to do like the happy family. And she just puts his arm down to touch me. He just does not know how to read a fucking room at all. I know. And she's so sad too, you know. And so he says, what were you talking about me? And they walk up the stairs. She says, you don't want to know. And he's like, yeah, I think he's not picking up on the fact that she said, maybe give her a gift. Like do something nice for her. But he thinks, I did this. I don't want to hear you mouth anymore. Shut up for the rest of the year. But how about like, could you research the the cheapest time to fly to the Philippines if it's all about money? And then book a ticket like six months in advance. And you're literally getting the very best deal you possibly can. And then say in six months, we're going to go. You know, you want to shut the fuck up now? Well, all right. We do see in a preview that they go somewhere. Hope it's the Philippines.

27:28Okay. So I mean, we see her goes somewhere. So yeah. Let's move on to Kai and Brooke. Now, we did find out this week that Kai was married before to an influencer who passed away sadly from cancer. But that was his wife. And they were like influencers together. And then the she passed away, which is terrible. But they people have pictures of them on the internet. But his name wasn't Kai. It was like, I told you that wasn't his name. Yeah. But I think Brooke is her name. But I think he changed his book. Big old Teddy Brooke. It's Mama. It's Mama. They say they so much bad. Beb. It's almost as bad. You don't watch. But on 90 day fiancee, we've got Shay, who's from Paduka, Kentucky, and Analine, who's from the Philippines. He's like, by my, my, my, because he's such a redneck, you know, he's like, hi, vibe. We're going to be

28:33a mic test movie vibe. And she's like, okay, babe, I'm going to make this movie. He's like, all right, vibe is smooth. It was good. Bye. Stop. Oh my god. It's so gross. It's such a, it's just this gross. Okay. So here we go with the babes. So we see Brooke pull up into a parking lot, just and want to, this is in a sexy room. Give a fuck. This is twice. Girl, you're seeing this woman in a car with lingerie on girl. Short, short, short change when you get there. It's Florida. What if her car broke down? She was someone was surely pull over. They're going to do some professional photos today. And we see the hilarious because he's like, I'm going to take these pictures. Oh, they're so sexy. And the production crew from WeTV walks up and like helps him use the camera, which was so funny. They're on first. She take the lid. Oh, the camera. Yeah. Yeah. No, I don't know what the fuck he was doing. Because he was like, oh,

29:34I'm going to try to use him a new camera. Now, oh, it's all, the screen's all black. You got to take the love. I don't get it. Yeah. So they talk about, she's posing in, you know, whatever. And they talk about how great it was to talk to his family. And we see a lot of photos. And she's like, okay, daddy, I got this outfit too. What do you think of this outfit, daddy? It's enough with him calling you mommy without you calling him daddy as well. Yeah, it's a lot. So she is putting on a new outfit. He goes, oh, I'm going to blast a Diplo in this bitch. She goes, what's a Diplo? I think she was serious. No, I think he, they totally planned that. I think he probably said, said to production, do you guys like Diplo? I'm going to put it on. They're like, say that and see if she knows what it is. Okay. All right. Because there's just like really random that he said Diplo of all the people. Right. Right. Yeah. Um, so they send a note like a voice

30:35video out to the subscribers like, guess what guys? I know you missed us. But we're back making content for you. Mommy is back, baby. Love your mommy. And those soft subscribers are so happy. Those five subscribers are like, they're bad. That one. We hold it in and all this time. Now, I'll let it all out. Yeah. And if I get Diplo in the background. Oh my god. So sexy. Um, so the next day she's sitting on the bed in the he walks in and he goes, hey, babe. And she says, hey, babe. And then she says, babe, we need to talk. I saw you post, you posted some of the photos that we took. He goes, yeah, she goes, babe, those things that you posted are so explicit. You can't post those. That means people won't go to the other page. Just to explicit. He's like, she's right. And he's like, no, babe, they'll get people to go. She's like, no, they gotta want something, you know. Yeah. Um, then her son, um, Zachary, who's 20, he calls and goes, hey,

31:40mom, we haven't called in a bit. I wanted to check in. She's like, hey, babe. And he says, uh, yeah, I just wanted to tell you like my leases up. And I could I move in with you guys for a bit so I can get money saved up before I get into the apartment. She's like, oh, you know, I'm sure it's okay. But let me talk to Kai. When do you need to know? Say hi, Kai. Hi. I'm so awkward. He's like, hey, hey, it was awkward because they don't talk. Hey, my friends, my buddy, right? Um, so in our talking head, she says Zachary's dad was her second husband. And he died a few years ago. And Zachary's been through a lot, um, her, the dad dying and then you seeing all of her failed relationships. Now, isn't this guy her fifth husband? Mm hmm. So since Zachary's dad, this is the third time she's been married and probably six other relationships in between. Mm hmm. Where's Zach? Too much. Yeah. Too much. And then she really digs

32:47it in by dating this guy. And now he's she's going to be like, guess what else I'm doing? You thought medical sales were wear a tab, but no. Uh, it's going to be bad. So if talking to you had Kai says, yeah, Zachary cut us off and didn't even attend our wedding. So, uh, I haven't spent much time with this guy. Like, I don't really know him. Well, so you listen to Diplo. Maybe you guys go to do this together and we can be keen. So they get off the phone and they're like, whoa, like that's big. And he's like, dude, and she's like, babe. And then she goes, but you know, like that is my baby. And he goes, yeah, that'd be a huge change for our lifestyle, like in our business. I mean, I guess he goes to work so we could do our content while he's at work. And she goes, and we're just going to have to have that conversation with him. If you made him tell his mom, then you're going to have to tell your kid who's 20. Okay. Yeah. And she might as well go ahead and expect the worst.

33:47Expect the worst. So he goes. So Kai goes, do you think he's going to like me? She goes, yeah, babe, what's not to like? She's got like, you smoke weed all the time. He'll love that. That's fine. Yeah. Um, and she says me and your mom are the same age. How would you feel if she was dating somebody your age? And he goes, uh, I would punch a holder while that would not be cool. Okay. There you go. There you go. There you go. And then he's like, it's going to be a lot, but let's do it. Okay. Zachary's going to move in. Now we get a scene of Kai and he's his even more loser looking for Enchon. All I say is these two like coming out of a fucking van and nothing but smoke comes out. Totally. It is. I want to pick on each other. Babe, babe. You're a master. The fucking turtle from Finding Nemo. Do hi. Yeah, little man. Yeah. Oh my god.

34:53To me, I wrote this is like Beavis and Butthead. It is. Oh, bro. Oh, oh, oh. So they sit and talk and Kai says to Sean that he talked to his mom like that was intense or she loves me. Whatever. It doesn't matter. And he says, you know, our business hit a wall because we couldn't do any content. So I took her for some professional photos and that was awesome. It was going to be awesome. And you know, those were not professional photos. You just went to a professional studio, but your high-ass was still the photographer. Right. Right. So and then, man, listen to this. She got a call from her son Zachary, but she knows Zachary. Like he cut it. He cut us off when we got engaged. But now like he wants to move in. I don't know, man. He's like 20 or like 21. Man, he doesn't even like me, man. Like somehow we got to tell him what his mom does. Like, oh, man, bro, I got to make a good first impression. I hope I don't say some dumb shit. Well, you might want to put a muzzle over your mouth because just about every other

35:59word you say is pretty much dumb shit. God, like we got to like make a good impression while telling him like, Hey, I'm making milk content with your mom online. Oh, bro. Oh, man, this poor kid. He deserves better than this. And Kai goes, I don't see any way this is going to go well. And then Sean says, cheers, my brother, bro, is the camera going to leave so we can smoke weed. All right. We're going to end with Vick and Caroline. Now this is the scene that I was upset by when they are in the car driving. How old did you think she looked in the car? She looked about 13. Okay. I said she looks like 13 years old instead of 18 years old. And what was with the stuff that she kept doing with her pants and arms? I'm like, are we speaking dinosaur too? Like,

37:07what was she doing? She's a frail little wee thing. She's a tiny little thing. And the fact that she in the car has the seatbelt on, I could not get over. If anybody in the world, not one human would ever say, this is a couple that's, and this is father daughter. Would they accept the fact that she was dressed like a cat lady? Yes. Right. Right. She has on. She's just like she's going to the more matured. Okay. Yeah. So she says they're headed to therapy. And she goes, I don't even know if Vick believes in therapy, but right now our priority should be our relationship not working on apartments. So they meet Anisa, Ay and I say Anisa, the therapist. I love this therapist. She actually seems like a real therapist. She does. Because sometimes we're like, who's friend is this?

38:10Who's friend just put DR in front of their name for this scene? Like, yeah, I think she really Yeah. I did too. So Caroline says, my problem is, is he's at the bar and he works so much. It makes me feel dismissed and not important and not chosen. And Vick says, yeah, we're good during the week, but the weekend rolls around. She gets jealous of me being at the bar. And you know, a couple of weeks ago, I was dead asleep, dead asleep, and she started screaming at me and woke me up. I was like, that's got it happens. Enough. But why did he have on those mustard yellow Nike's with that suit? His style is atrocious. He had on suspenders with the skinny black tie. It's like he's the member of an 80s new wave band. I don't understand what he's doing. I don't get it. And it does not make him, I think he thinks it makes him look younger. No, he didn't. It ages you and makes you look stupid. It makes him look like he's stuck in the 80s with

39:13the style. So she says, well, I had told him, hey, there's this girl that helped my ex cheat on me. And she keeps following you and unfollowing you, which is weird. So I said, just block her. She's trying to get your attention. And then I was on Facebook and I popped right up. This girl was suggested to me to be a friend and you have mutual friends and it's Vick. And he goes, I don't know how that happens. And she goes, you don't even know this girl. He's like, I'm 50. I don't even understand Facebook. Like, what are you talking about? She's too young to be screening his Facebook, like counting his friends and think, like, get out of it. This is too much. This is this is way toxic toxic toxic toxic toxic. So he says, you know, I try to do nice things for her, for her birthday. I took her to Disneyland. That's the appropriate. Yeah, that's within her age group.

40:13Yes. Yes. When he said that, to Disneyland, to Disneyland, for her birth. Yes. Yeah. She goes, and then he exchanged Instagram accounts with our waitress. And he goes, yeah, her family was from the same town Italy as mine. And we got into pizza talk. It's like, hey, if you're ever in wherever they live, come see us. It gets a pizza. And she's like, I don't want to get pizza with this stranger. And she goes, and the girl was younger than me. And she says to him, you know, you're not my child. I should not have to talk to you in a gentle parenting way. And he says, you're not real weird, man. He got real weird. And he goes, you're not my child either. You're like a raving lunateck. I mean, that's questionable because he may be her dad. We just don't know it yet. And he says, I know. And he says, do you think this is productive?

41:16And they go, no. And and he says, okay, so imagine another couple, just another couple. One is anxious, Caroline. The other is avoidant, Vic. So in this conflict, what would the anxious person need? And he says reassurance. And then he says, yes. And Vic goes, yeah, I mean, I think an engagement ring would do it. But I feel like we're in this vicious cycle. And she goes, what? She goes, I feel like you're dangling in front of me. Like, this is something you could get, but you have to behave. We've been together for three years. And engagement rings should not even be part of any equation having to do with them. Because that was signify a potential marriage. And they should not even be thinking like that. No, absolutely. No, it's going to get hurt. Yeah. Physically, maybe. Yeah, that's what I was saying. Yeah. And she says, I mean, you've already known me for three years. And he goes, your behavior is worse recently. And it's a 21-year-old

42:21girl child. How dare you? She's 24. Oh, she's 24. She's 24. That's what she was 21. We correct. So Anisa says a lot of smart therapy words that I'm not going to go through, right? Yeah. But says you need to, I'm going to give you these things to think on, which was like, you know, you and I both said this whenever you go to therapy and I haven't been in years, but whenever I would go, I'm going Monday. Yeah, whenever you, whenever you would go, even if you think I've got nothing to talk about, like this is a waste of time. You do. You always leave with like one thing and you're like, okay, that gave me something to think about always. That's how it should be. Yeah. You talk, talk, talk. You're like, I'm so boring and I talk too much in this person. And then you'd be like, okay, that was something to think about. So in the car, he goes, you know, that went better than I thought. I'm glad that I went. I feel, I feel better. Do you feel better? Is she goes, so are you willing to work on some of the things that we talked about? And he goes, yeah, your issue of being jealous. And she goes, are you willing to work on the things that make me jealous? Like don't do

43:26the things that are going to make me jealous. Like don't follow random women. And he goes, don't give me ultimatums. And she says, what we're doing is not working. I feel like sometimes you just do things or say things to appease me. We need to take these. He does. He does. Because he's avoidant. Yeah. And she says, we need to take these lessons and use them. He goes, yeah, I think we should both take a pause before jumping to conclusions. And she goes, I need to take a pause sometimes before jumping into action. And she says, maybe I need to chill before talking to you about stuff. But maybe you need to stop doing the stuff. I think you should pause and go back home to your parents. I do too. He should try to get his first wife back. He should try to get his first wife back. Or just he doesn't need to be married to anyone. He just needs to be single and he just needs to be single. Fuck around town. That's why yeah. Because I think that's what he's doing anyway. And then just try to find a nice like 45 year old. Okay. Because you know, we, you know,

44:29we know we already has kids in this full. It's a woman. He's never going to want to have kids with her. And she's 24. Oh, boy. I don't know. He had kids. I just knew he was married. I believe in our last piece of information that we found out he had kids. Should I look it up real quick? Okay. Actually, don't know if he has kids. Okay. Kaden, our source, let us know if he has kids because I just quickly went and re-read your email and didn't say anything about kids. But he's not going to have kids with his 24 year old. I mean, okay, she better not fucking get pregnant by that guy. Okay. So then she says, you need to re-frain your thinking and put as much work into this relationship as you do a business. I put and then here's here's here's the problem. She has this mindset where she says, I've put in so much work with this for the last three years. I don't want to start over with somebody else. You are 24 years old. You have plenty of time to start over multiple times. You can do it. You're not 61. You can have three more marriages. You can have

45:34five marriages. Yeah. That's sad. That is terrible that she thinks I put in three years. I don't want to start over. Girl, where is your mother? Okay. So he says, well, I want to correct our issues and she goes, yeah, you're a she. Yeah, you've got more issues than me. So it's always like, I want to do something to fix it. Yeah, you need to do something to fix it or I don't want to do it. I don't want to be triggered. Then you don't do something to trigger me. Neither one of the takes any accountability. Any accountability. None. None. But now we see Vic hanging out at 1am at the bar. He's self filming. He's DJing. Shoot me, kill me, throw me off a bridge. Why is this old man DJing? Where is Diplo? Diplo is the real DJ. Diplo is not here. No. Diplo, say, please stop mentioning my name with these people. Oh my God. Copyright infringement. So we see him hanging out. He's self-fimming.

46:35His buddy goes, man, you should go home. And then we see Caroline and bed self-foming. And she goes, it's been two weeks since therapy. It's 1.45am. He's still out at the bar. I do not trust Vic. It's the same behaviors over and over. What was the point of going to therapy? None of this is surprising. Nope. So he's DJing. People are taking shots at the bar. He says, Daisky is a Tokyo style record bar and has the best sake in town. Did your dog hear his name? No, but I told him last night when I was watching. It's a sake. They said your name. Yeah. We see him taking selfies. You know, like, hey, come on out to Daisky. It's 1.00am. And Caroline says, I hate that he's been so much time there. He says, sorry. He says, Caroline hates that I spend so much time here. She thinks I'm hitting on girls, but let's get this straight. I've never had to hit on girls. Girls hit on me.

47:37I let the game come to me. You pay women to hit on you. No woman is just hitting on you. Please stop stop lying to us because we see your face. Now if we were all love is blind and we were honest with you, you said that. Okay, but we see you. We can see you. He looks. I wonder what he would look like if he stopped drinking and doing coke allegedly. I think he's like way younger. You know, look at younger. Doesn't mean attractive. Okay. Well, we all there like toast a big woo toast a Daisky. Caroline walks in. She flings up in the door like a mob with a roll on it. And she goes, what are you doing? And he goes, hey, girl, what's going on? And she goes, this girl is kissing you. You just posted it on Instagram. Now, obviously, they live in the apartment right above. Yes. Okay. So everybody's going to think you're with another woman. He goes,

48:39you know, Sophia, hey, Sophia's like, hey, girl. Oh, she's. And these are our customers. And she's like, I don't give a fuck. And he goes, you're for her. And he goes, hey, calm down. She goes, I don't care. I'm so embarrassed to be associated with you. Fuck you, Vic. Yes. She slammed the door and storms out. Well, I'm kind of brick or right in the brick or like, right in this. Now, this would be good for our next scene. Mom catches me out late past curfew. It comes to find me. And I'm DJing like, and I'm like, there you go. You're welcome. You're welcome. So he says to the customers, he goes, hey, guys, I'm really sorry. I'm really sorry. It's like same shit every night. Am I right? Bitches. Are they crazy? And they're like, yeah, you might need to start going home earlier. And he goes, ah, she'll get over it. And the one girl goes, maybe you should respect her boundaries. And I'm not the fact you live right upstairs. If something goes wrong down below,

49:44all you have to do is walk down the stairs and handle it. And they go, maybe you should respect her boundaries and go upstairs and go home to her. He goes, I don't want to fucking go home. Rrrrr. Shots. Uh-huh. Okay. Please break up with him. Please. Next time on Dr. Eric, he sees a pretty girl or an assistant or somebody close to his age says, Eric, you are 74 years old. What I hope this is is is is what I hope this is is his first wife. Oh, he's having lunch with his first wife. Who's like, are you fucking insane? Yeah. Oh, that will be good. Yeah. That's probably a sister. Um, Kent says my marriage could be in a bad place. You think? Really? Yeah. Um, Kent says my marriage could be in a bad place. And he tells Jan lately, I've been thinking, do I love you? Which I think means he's going to say like, so I'm going to spend the money and let you go to the Philippines. That better be what he says.

50:46Um, Drew is talking to his buddies and says, Janet has not talked to me since the party. She's mad about me talking to that shorty. Um, the people say shorty anymore. I mean, old people do. Yeah. Okay. So, yeah. I mean, she wasn't in fact short. And that's kind of what I mean. Well, she, yeah, she is short. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That's kind of what I meant. But then I realized it sound like I was being like shorty, but I really meant she was a, she had come off that way. Oh, it's okay. Thanks for being honest. Tiny, she talks to her friend slash sister. Is it her friend? Is it her sister? That's her friend. Got the same hair. Okay. Yeah. And says he still won't let me back in either one of our homes. You can let you back in your home. And the, and the friend says, you need to speak to an attorney about your options. And she does. And she does. Um, Brooke, welcome Zachary home. And they're having dinner and he says, what's your new job? And she's like, well,

51:50pull out your phone. Um, don't sit on the couch, Zachary. I'll sit on the couch everywhere you sit. Wipe it down first. Wipe it down. We know that couch is cute, but you need to put a towel down. Protect yourself. That's so gross. So gross. Everybody, that is it. We have three more episodes of the show. And then we're getting love after lockup therapy therapy. Therapy. We don't know what it's called. But it's love after lockup. It's a new therapy one. And uh, looks good to me. And that's weird because we did see some terrible news today about love after lockup. You guys, um, Amber, who we loved of Amber and puppy, who we loved and love after lockup. She was always so nice and always trying to do the right thing. She did have a drinking problem later, but she had that nice boyfriend. That she passed away. She had so many health problems. It just kept getting worse and worse.

52:53She had a stroke earlier this year. Yeah. She, she couldn't bounce back. And I think it was from the years and years and years that she said it herself of the hard drugs. And she's up with you than the drinking and yeah. Really sad to hear that because you know, we met her mom and her and her step-dab which was really her actual dad that they remarried or whatever. And of course, you know, puppy being her friend and the boyfriend and queen and queen. Oh, I loved queen. Queen spent posting a lot. Oh, well, you sent that to me because I didn't that doesn't come up on my algorithm. Yes. Okay. Well, we're very sorry to hear that because you know, there's a lot of people in love after lockup where we're like, yeah, not to price. It's sad no matter what, but when Amber, we really had ups. This is what part of she does root for. Yeah. You want so much better for them. Yeah. We really did. We really did. So our thoughts are with Amber's family and friends. And she had a lot of friends. And that's on that sad note. Everybody, please make sure you're

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