182. Start with Hello: Simple Ways to Build Community (with Shannan Martin)

Hospitality can be defined in so many different ways which makes it a very broad topic, but author Shannan Martin joins me today to talk about it and what it means to be a good neighbor. Her book Start with Hello covers how to create a sense of community with our neighbors, even if we are introverted. Shannan argues that we are all hungry for community even if we don't quite realize it, and she offers great advice on how to start creating that sense of community.

Shannan offers ways to carve out space in our lives to create connections. I, for example, try to keep Fridays open for social gatherings, and Shannan offers examples from her own life as well. She defines hospitality as the door being easy on its hinges and explains what she means by that.

Shannan also reveals what her favorite simple step is to build connection, and I really appreciate what Shannan is doing and really appreciate her time. Be sure to check out Shannan's book for more information!

In This Episode

[00:35] – Shannan Martin is today's guest!
[01:52] – Shannan introduces herself and gives some background information.
[04:24] – How can we create community if we are introverted?
[06:29] – Shannan argues that everyone is looking for community even if we don't realize.
[08:09] – How can people put themselves out there if they've gotten hurt doing so before?
[10:13] – Shannan gives an example of a friend even though they had a lot of differences.
[12:50] – What is a good first baby step?
[15:28] – I have been keeping Fridays open lately.
[18:38] – Shannan points out that we don't have to have it all together when being hospitable.
[21:44] – Shannan believes in her book but still has some anxiety.
[24:42] – What does hospitality look like for Shannan now that her kids are teenagers?
[27:05] – Shannan defines hospitality as keeping the door easy on its hinges.
[30:16] – Shannan emphasizes the importance of asking for help.

Links & Resources

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Start with Hello by Shannan Martin
The Ministry of Ordinary Places

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