#169: What It Truly Takes To Date 9s & 10s

0:00So, would you say that if a man is one of a woman that is a 10, does he also need to be a 10? I always say that, you know, if you want a quality woman, you need to be a quality guy yourself, you know? Like, you can't expect to be a third or a piece of shit and just attract like the best woman in the world. Like, you know, there's a really famous quote by Charlie Munger that says, you know, if you want success, you need to deserve success. And the world is not like such a crazy place that it rewards like a bunch of undeserving people, you know? Like, either you're going to be a quality guy or you're just going to be a lower quality option, you know? If you're a lower quality option, if you're not a premium man, you're not going to attract premium women. Unless you try to trick them or manipulate them to do so, but it's not going to be, it's not going to look good long term, you know? That's why I hate pick a partist, by the way, because pick a partist, what they do is they try to trick the girl or manipulate the girl into liking them, but he's just a facade like it's bullshit.

1:03They're just faking like a fake, they're putting on a fake mask just to attract girls, but it's not going to work long term and the girls are going to be disgusted once they see the holes in the facade, you know? And I think he's just a facade, so you don't want to be that guy, you don't want to fake it, you want to truly be a quality option. You want to truly work on yourself and improve every single aspect of your life, health, wealth, love, relationships, spirituality, fitness, everything, you know, intellectual knowledge, like everything. And once you improve these things, your life is going to get better, you're going to get better, and you're going to have better options as a result. The better you become, the better options you get. That's how it works. Thank you. So when like a guy come to you, would you say that you give a faster way to get to where you want to go? What do you mean? Is it faster to use like your system to get that result in top of maybe the guy want a day to woman, or maybe just want to improve in top of self confidence?

2:04Do you recommend to get help? I mean, I'm biased. This question is a bit biased because obviously, I mean, I've been teaching this for a while and I wouldn't be, I wouldn't have taught this for more than seven years now if I didn't believe in the power of coaching and getting help with this. So absolutely, I truly believe in the power of coaching and getting help because you only have so much like time, you know, like time is your most valuable asset. If you don't value your time, you don't value your life. And at the end of the day, look, I mean, you could be doing anything else, you could be scrolling on Instagram, you could be watching Netflix right now. But if you're watching this video, that tells me that you're the type of guy who was looking for answers, you're the type of guy who values his time. Probably if you're watching this video, you want to get something out of it and you want to improve your life. So why not shortcut the process? Why waste, you know, years and months of your life trying to figure something out that you could just, you know, pay a couple hundred dollars for and just short short in the learning curve, you know, like you could be saving years of headaches, years of just pain and humiliation just by you investing in yourself.

3:12So I think that people who love themselves enough are gonna invest in themselves and people who don't believe in themselves don't invest in themselves. So that's why I believe like, yeah, if you love yourself, then invest in yourself because that's the best gift you can give to yourself to get to your goals and get to your, get to where you want to be in life, you know. Thank you. It sounds really like if you want to get fit, just get to go to your gym and get a coach. So it would, you would be faster and yeah, and you would, exactly the gym is the best example. Like you could go to the gym by yourself and try to mess around with those weights and stuff. But to be honest, like, you know, a coach is going to help you so much is going to show you the best exercises, going to show you how to really get to your goals faster. And it's like anything you can do it by yourself, but it's probably going to be messy. Whereas if you have a coach, it's like straight to the point you get exactly what you need and you just take fucking action on the right things. It's that of the wrong things. Yeah, it sounds like you get the right information, right process and right help when you need guidance. Yeah.

4:15Have you ever had like some of your clients getting married, for instance? Yeah, I told you. I mean, I had many, many clients getting married the past few months. Actually, one of my clients, Arlan, got married recently is from Kazakhstan. And he has a beautiful, I think Russian wife, we can put a screenshot on the, on the video right now. I mean, literally I have so many screenshots of him telling me how happy he is. Because of his marriage, I'll also my clients, my client, Gervinder. Gervinder, he got married is from New Zealand as well, Ranjith as well got married. So I have so many clients who got married. Yeah, absolutely. Really happy stories to hear. And what would be your number one advice to a guy that wants to date a girl, what would be the best advice you ever give to someone? Sometimes, you know, you just got to say, fuck it. I'm going to do it anyway, even if you don't feel like it. Because at the end of the day, like your feelings are always going to get in the way. Like your, your head, your mind is always going to tell you, like, oh, it's not the right time. Oh, maybe I should do it later. Oh, maybe this girl is busy. I should an approach her. Like your mind is going to come up with so many fucking excuses.

5:19And sometimes you have to move your feet faster than your brain can think and you just have to do it. You know, you just have to initiate that approach. Fuck your feelings. Do it anyway. Just say hi. You know, when you say hi, the moment you said hi, you already won. Because you can't control what the girl is going to tell you. You can't control her reaction to you. Maybe she has a boyfriend. Maybe she's busy. Maybe she's on her period. You never, you can never control the outcome. You can only control the action of doing it. So yeah, if you if you can only control the action of doing it, just fucking do it. Just fucking approach. You know, and then you'll see at the end of the day, it's also a numbers game. If you talk to enough girls, you'll get you'll get some contacts. You'll get some numbers. Sorry. There's a lot of noise around. But I would say it's a numbers game. You need to meet a lot of women. And if you meet enough women, you'll get some dates 100%. But you need to present yourself the right way. We need to communicate your value the right way. And you'll get the right woman. So. So yeah, but I have so many systems guys like check out the links in the description as well. And I have so many things that you can benefit from.

6:23So I highly recommend checking out the links in the description right now. Thank you, Limo. Is is there anything else you would like to add or today? What I would like to add. Well, yeah, just believe in yourself, guys, because I've seen so many stories of guys who had nothing zero dates. They didn't have any confidence. And after a few months of working on themselves, their life has become completely different right now. They're able today. They're able to do whatever they want. So it's just about you're just doing it guys. You have to believe in yourself enough to invest in yourself and then just fucking do it. And if you need help, then just check out my Instagram. Yeah, if you need help, just check out my Instagram or check out the links in the description. So thank you guys for watching and I'll see you on the next video. Thank you, Limo for today. See you guys.