168: The Beliefs Quietly Running Your Life

What if the biggest thing holding you back… is something you didn’t even choose? Meet Ava. She’s successful, disciplined, and respected in her career, but lately something feels off. Deep down, she knows she wants more freedom, creativity, and alignment in her life. But every time she thinks about making a change, fear rushes in. The stable paycheck. The expectations. The pressure of being “the successful one.” She feels torn between the life she built and the life calling her forward. In this episode, Jay sits down with Dianne Allen, nationally recognized speaker, author, and host of the Someone Gets Me podcast. Together, they explore how childhood belief systems quietly shape our decisions, why intuition matters more than most people realize, and how to reconnect with the version of yourself beneath the conditioning. Notable Quotes “The moment the intention is set, then the universe conspires to assist us.” — Dianne Allen “Your ego is not your amigo.” — Dianne Allen “The time is going to pass either way.” — Dianne Allen About Our Guest Dianne Allen is a nationally recognized speaker, author of 10 books, and host of the Someone Gets Me podcast. Through her work, she helps highly driven and visionary individuals reconnect with their authentic selves, strengthen self-trust, and create lives aligned with their intuition, creativity, and purpose. Resources & Links Dianne Allen Visions Applied Website – https://www.visionsapplied.com/ Website – https://www.msdianneallen.com/ Someone Gets Me Podcast – https://www.visionsapplied.com/category/podcast/ LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/dianneallen/ Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/dianne_a_allen/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/msdianneallen/ YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOu4J24z4iz3Dskj8RIg5jQ Jay Abbasi Website – https://jayabbasi.me/ LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayabbasi/ Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/jayabbasi_/ YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/@jayabbasipodcast Get Featured on “Unstuck” Want to have your story featured on “Unstuck”? Submit your story through the link below, and Jay may choose to highlight your story on a future episode and offer you personalized advice on how to overcome any challenge. Submit Your Story Join Us Next Time On Friday, Jay takes a deeper dive into creating a meaningful vision for your life. He walks through the three key areas to evaluate so you can better understand your strengths, reconnect with your authentic self, and gain clarity on what’s next for you.