
15: Before You Spend Another Dollar on Recruiting… You Need to Hear This
About this episode
Before you invest in another camp, showcase, or private lesson, ask yourself: Is my daughter building her own path—or am I paving it for her?
In this episode, Susan helps you spot the difference between “wannabe ballers” (kids walking the golden road their parents paved) and “budding ballers” (athletes laying each brick of their journey themselves). You’ll learn the six key signs that show your athlete is ready to own her recruiting process—and what to do if she’s not there yet.
This is a reality check for parents who want to support their daughters the right way: by handing them the bricks, not building the entire road.
Chapters
00:00 – Introduction to NXT VB Podcast
03:00 – The two kinds of athletes: wannabe vs. budding ballers
05:30 – Why parents need to stop paving the golden road
09:30 – Six things to see before investing in recruiting
10:00 – #1: She watches college volleyball
10:45 – #2: She thrives in competitive environments
12:30 – #3: She’s not afraid to watch herself play
16:45 – #4: She’s open to visiting college campuses
20:00 – #5: She’s achieving her potential in the classroom
23:15 – #6: She’s excited about her future
26:30 – The reflection moment for parents
28:15 – When to pull back and let her lead
29:30 – Introducing Recruit Ready Launch
33:00 – Why clarity comes before commitment
34:15 – Final takeaways and encouragement for parents
Connect with Susan:
Check out the website: www.nxtvb.com
Follow on Instagram + TikTok: @hey.susank
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