
145. Why Keeping Score And Trying To Keep Things Equal In Marriage Doesn't Work
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So many couples keep score in their marriage trying to keep things fair, or following the 50/50 marriage model, and wonder why it only makes things worse. When you keep score, you then become competitors where there is ALWAYS a winner and a looser, instead of working together as a team.
You try to keep things equal, but it is impossible to do so. This causes resentment, imbalance and will kill your intimacy as a couple.
In this podcast episode Nick and Amy share their experiences of earlier in their marriage and how they went away from this model and why they did, and why you should as well.
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