12 Finding out the truth about ourselves, including our faults

If we had no shortcomings, we would have no fear. And our fear and insecurities are what make us so miserable. They spoil everything.

The Pathwork Guide focuses on one of the most essential—and most resisted—parts of the spiritual path: honestly seeing ourselves as we are. While many hope for a shortcut or “miracle solution” to life’s struggles, real transformation requires steady inner work.

Yet this work is neither as overwhelming nor as burdensome as we often fear.

The Guide explains that true progress begins with self-knowledge. Our outer problems are always reflections of inner distortions—faults, fears, and misconceptions that remain hidden unless we actively seek them out.

Simply trying to be a “good person” is not enough. Without awareness of our inner state, even good actions can lack authenticity and fail to create real change.

A key step is learning to observe the Lower Self—the part of us that resists growth, hides behind excuses, and distorts truth. By becoming aware of how it operates, we begin to loosen its grip. Practical tools include self-reflection, writing down our insights, and inviting honest feedback from others—practices that require humility but accelerate growth.

This path also teaches that fear is as limiting as any fault. Both block our capacity to love and to perceive truth. By facing them directly, we reclaim our inner light.

Ultimately, this work becomes the foundation for a richer, more meaningful life. As we align with truth, we unlock greater clarity, vitality, and genuine peace.

Listen to Bones
Read Bones, Chapter 12: Finding Out the Truth about Ourselves, Including Our Faults
Read Original Pathwork^® Lecture: #26 Finding One’s Faults