
About this episode
In today's episode, we're talking about 5 things that secure couples do really well to build safety, intimacy and connection in their relationships. We'll cover:
- raising important issues and knowing when to let things go
- prioritising connection, play and intimacy
- validating each other's experience rather than needing to be right
- balancing togetherness and separateness
- engaging in meaningful repair when things go awry
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