
111: Processing General Conference During/Post Faith Crisis
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In this episode Valerie and Nathan reminisce about the "good ol’ days" when they anticipated General Conference and the spiritual feasting that it involved. This podcast (111th semi-weekly session, btw ;) of reminiscing was produced mainly to help many of us make sense of the very complicated feelings we have when the first weeks of April and October roll around.
What do some of us feel? Based on their conversations with dozens of Latter Day Struggles Support Group Members…
- Many feel trauma activated within our bodies due to past (and the anticipation of future) spiritually and psychologically damaging sermons that condemn us and our friends and loved ones.
- Many feel frustration over what feels like ongoing blindness to the pain of individuals and families in faith crisis feeling unseen, unheard, and misunderstood.
- Many feel invisible at the ongoing underrepresentation of the female gender in a church that proclaims gender equality but does little to display this in doctrine or practice.
- And then there is grief. Grief at the memory of when General Conference used to mean simplicity, sweet rolls, and maybe bingo games. This memory feels like life in another dimension altogether. It was certainly back in another stage of life and spiritual development.
Val and Nathan share thoughts and feelings about the growing pains of transitioning from a relationship between the compliant and slightly frightened child [our old selves] relating to the overly protective authoritarian parent [the institution], to their present relationship, which they insist becomes like one between two adults relating to each other from a place of discernment, choice, and candor.
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