102. Is This My Intuition or My Attachment Style Acting Up?

Is this your intuition… or is your anxious attachment getting activated?

In this episode of Speak Honest, I answer a listener question that so many self-aware women struggle with. You’ve done the work. You usually feel secure. And yet, in a new connection, something feels unsettled. Not dramatic. Not chaotic. Just off. Together, we break down the difference between intuition and anxious attachment, what secure attachment actually feels like in real life, and how to stay curious instead of turning on yourself when those feelings show up.

You might want to listen if:

•  You thought you were secure but dating someone brought up anxious attachment
•  You struggle to tell the difference between intuition and attachment activation
•  You feel pressure to decide quickly whether to stay or leave a relationship
•  You tend to judge or shame yourself when anxious attachment shows up
•  You want to make more grounded, secure decisions in dating and relationships

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DISCLAIMER:  Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for acc...