Modern Love
For more than 20 years, the Modern Love column has given New York Times readers a glimpse into the complicated love lives of real people. Since its start, the column has evolved into a TV show, three books and a podcast.Each week, host Anna Martin brings you stories and conversations about love in all its glorious permutations, dumb pitfalls and life-changing moments. New episodes every Wednesday. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. You can also subscribe vi...
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Why I Always Dreamed of Being a Sister Wife
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E. Jean Carroll’s Vibrant Sex Life Ended 30 Years Ago. She Wants It Back.
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Nic and Olandria on What the ‘Love Island’ Cameras Missed
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Bridget Everett Says a Best Friend Can Be Your Greatest Love (Encore)
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Where Did All My Male Friendships Go?
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The Kind of Pain She Wanted
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How to Stop Asking 'Are You Mad at Me?'
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Reneé Rapp on Blurring the Line Between Bestie and Lover
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How to Keep Love Alive, With Rob Delaney of ‘Dying for Sex’
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Let Mel Robbins Share Her 5 Tips for a Healthy Relationship
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‘The Interview’: Ocean Vuong was Ready to Kill. Then a Moment of Grace Changed H...
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To Share or Not to Share? How Location Sharing Is Changing Our Relationships
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‘Materialists’ Director Celine Song Believes in Love at First Conversation
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Open Your Heart and Loosen Up! Therapist Terry Real’s Advice for Fathers
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First Love Mixtape: Side B (Encore)
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First Love Mixtape: Side A (Encore)
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Friends for 16 Years. Lovers for One Night.
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Why Boys and Men Are Floundering, According to Relationship Therapist Terry Real
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A Mother’s Fierce, Extravagant Love (Encore)
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Miranda July Knew Exactly What She Was Doing
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You’re Probably Thinking About Boundaries All Wrong
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Gen X? More Like Gen Sex.
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Let Yourself Rage With Poet Laureate Ada Limón
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My Brother Has Schizophrenia. This Is How I Love Him.
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I Got Addicted to Love and Came Out the Other Side
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How I Decentered Men and Learned to Center Myself
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How to Get Talking Again, With Lucy Dacus of boygenius
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If You Want This Kind of Love, Don’t Expect It to Be Easy
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Carrie Coon on What Being Worthy of Love Really Means
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Why Gossiping Could Help Your Love Life
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How to Fall (and Stay) in Love
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He’s Gay. She’s Straight. They’re Newlyweds.
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That Time I Bought My Husband’s Girlfriend a Burial Plot
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Neko Case: ‘If I Didn’t Yell the Truth, What Good Was I?
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Hank Azaria’s Advice for Overcoming Codependency
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Finding the Magic, Just in Time
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The Appeal of the Smaller Breasts: From ‘The Daily’
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Your Worst Dates Ever: With Joel Kim Booster
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Dating Apps Suck. A.I. Clones Are Making Them Even Weirder.
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Three Powerful Lessons About Love (Encore)
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Thanksgiving With My Wife and Girlfriend
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He Saved Me. Now It Was My Turn to Save Him.
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Bridget Everett Says a Best Friend Can Be Your Greatest Love
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My Dad Is George Lopez. We Healed Our Relationship With a Sitcom.
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One Last Conversation, With the Help of A.I.
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Amelia Dimoldenberg Can Teach You How to Flirt
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Andrew Garfield Wants to Crack Open Your Heart
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Were We the ‘Fat Couple’?
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Myha’la’s Relationship Advice? Get in a Fight.
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Gillian Anderson Wants to Hear Your Sexiest Fantasies
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