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Dear Shandy

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine

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Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance.Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, non-judgmental & honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership...

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Episodes (934)

Q&A! Number Ratings, Double Dipping, and Did He "Hit It and Quit It"?

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Oct 28, 20211:21:53pending

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 2 | Basketball Bonding, Bad Spelling, and Rumors Swirling

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Oct 27, 20211:21:05pending

LOVE FEST! 100 Foot Wave's Garrett and Nicole McNamara on "Knowing" and Never Se...

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Oct 21, 20211:20:57pending

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 1 | If You Want To Make ABC Laugh, Tell Them About Your P...

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Oct 20, 20211:13:15pending

Should I Hold Out For Long Distance To End, Or Let Go And Enjoy Singledom? Help!

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Oct 14, 202157:57pending

Breakup Bootcamp: Rewiring Your Heart with Amy Chan

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Oct 7, 20211:10:39pending

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Finale | Breakups, Offscreen Makeups, and Proposals—...

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Oct 6, 20211:00:57pending

Q&A! Everyday Annoyances, Early Stage Doubts, and Whether Or Not White Lies Equa...

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Sep 30, 20211:19:53pending

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 10 | Ivan-Gate, Conspiracy Theories, and Memory L...

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Sep 29, 20211:23:17pending

LOVE FEST! Jasmine Lorimer & Eric Johnson on Italian Accents and Love Languages

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Sep 23, 20211:31:57pending

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 9 | Couples Get Serious As A *Literal* Storm Brew...

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Sep 22, 20211:12:05pending

My Boyfriend Just Can't Get It Right With Gifts—Help!

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Sep 16, 202155:57pending

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 8 | Comeuppance, Universal Hypocrisy, and Palate...

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Sep 15, 20211:15:53pending

It's Our 1-Year Anniversary! A Special Q&A For Our Listeners, The Shandies!

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Sep 9, 20211:10:01pending

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 7 | A VIP Party, Chris, & The Betrayals Continue

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Sep 8, 20211:03:35pending

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 6 | Brendan & Pieper, Paradise's Bonnie & Clyde

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Sep 7, 20211:07:50pending

Q&A! Fairytale Fantasies, Going Backwards, and How Many Friends With Exes Is Too...

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Sep 2, 20211:11:28pending

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 5 | Becca Kufrin, Jewelry, and A "Strongest Coupl...

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Sep 1, 202154:22pending

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 4 | Strawberry Kisses, Betrayal, and Paradise "Im...

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Aug 31, 20211:03:01pending

LOVE FEST! Chatty Broads' Jess and Evan Ambrose on Growing Together and Adapting...

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Aug 26, 20211:26:32pending

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 3 | Lance Bass, Thomas, and The Police Department

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Aug 25, 202146:23pending

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 2 | Cat 4 Demi, Pot Meet Kettle, and The Value Of...

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Aug 24, 202147:00pending

Our Meeting Story Feels Serendipitous—But Am I Forcing This? Help!

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Aug 19, 20211:02:30pending

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 1 | David Spade, Kissing Galore, and "Grocery Sto...

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Aug 17, 202148:23pending

How To Attract The Relationship You Want with Tracy McMillan

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Aug 12, 20211:18:27pending

Bachelorette Recap: Finale | Terse Well Wishes, Aunt Lindsay, & A New Bachelor N...

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Aug 10, 20211:31:00pending

Q&A! Relationship Nostalgia, Decoding FWB Situations, and Coulda Woulda Shoulda

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Aug 5, 20211:17:33pending

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 9 | Greg, Greg, and More Greg (Plus Our Predictions!)

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Aug 3, 20211:27:49pending

LOVE FEST! Nick Viall & Natalie Joy on How They Met and Building Trust

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Jul 29, 20211:31:04pending

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 8 | Michael, Tear Analysis, and Men Tell All

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Jul 27, 20211:08:28pending

My Boyfriend's Close Girl Friend Doesn't Like Me! Help!

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Jul 22, 202156:30pending

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | Katie’s an Empath, Mike P & His Mom, a Heartfelt Fare...

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Jul 20, 20211:09:33pending

Relationship Astrology: Birth Chart Compatibility & Tarot Reading

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Jul 15, 20211:03:06pending

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | Hunter, "Operation WOWO", and Lose-Lose Situations

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Jul 13, 20211:16:25pending

Q&A! First Love Lasting, Friends or More, & Money Insecurity in Dating

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Jul 8, 20211:32:42pending

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | Party Crasher Blake, Andrew S. 1-on-1, & Hunter

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Jul 6, 20211:04:45pending

LOVE FEST! Katie Morton & James Rowe On Making Long-Distance Work

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Jul 1, 20211:06:50pending

Bachelorette Recap: Episode 4 | Blake Moynes & Bachelor Thomas

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Jun 29, 20211:21:23pending

In Spite Of Multiple "Wrongs", Can He Still Be Mr. Right?

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Jun 24, 20211:10:59pending

Bachelorette Recap: Episode 3 | Right Reasons™ Drama, Nick Viall's Group Date, &...

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Jun 22, 20211:12:55pending

Demystifying Your Pelvic Health & Secret Tips For More Pleasure ft. Dr. Uchenna...

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Jun 17, 20211:15:25pending

Bachelorette Recap: Episode 2 | Mike's Poem, Aaron vs. Cody, & "Right Reasons" K...

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Jun 15, 20211:04:07pending

Q&A! Texting Chemistry, He's Just Not That Into You, & The One That Got Away

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Jun 10, 20211:12:58pending

Bachelorette Recap: Episode 1 | First Impressions, Kayshia, & Our Predictions

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Jun 8, 20211:03:17pending

LOVE FEST! Ben Higgins & Jess Clarke Reveal Why Their Relationship Works & Ben's...

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Jun 3, 20211:16:14pending

My Long-Term Boyfriend Is Unsure About Marriage—How Long Is Too Long To Wait?

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May 27, 20211:16:03pending

Nikki Glaser Confesses Crush on Nick Viall, Sliding Into Matt James's DMs & Secr...

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May 20, 20211:06:39pending

Q&A! Making the First Move & Rekindling Romance From the Friendzone

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May 13, 20211:19:03pending

LOVE FEST! Sydney Lotuaco Reveals How Nick Wehby Slid Into Her DMs & Won Her Hea...

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May 6, 20211:12:26pending

Did I Miss My Proposal?!

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Apr 29, 202158:12pending
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