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Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine
Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance.Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, non-judgmental & honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership...
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Episodes (934)
Q&A! Number Ratings, Double Dipping, and Did He "Hit It and Quit It"?
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 2 | Basketball Bonding, Bad Spelling, and Rumors Swirling
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LOVE FEST! 100 Foot Wave's Garrett and Nicole McNamara on "Knowing" and Never Se...
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 1 | If You Want To Make ABC Laugh, Tell Them About Your P...
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Should I Hold Out For Long Distance To End, Or Let Go And Enjoy Singledom? Help!
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Breakup Bootcamp: Rewiring Your Heart with Amy Chan
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Finale | Breakups, Offscreen Makeups, and Proposals—...
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Q&A! Everyday Annoyances, Early Stage Doubts, and Whether Or Not White Lies Equa...
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 10 | Ivan-Gate, Conspiracy Theories, and Memory L...
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LOVE FEST! Jasmine Lorimer & Eric Johnson on Italian Accents and Love Languages
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 9 | Couples Get Serious As A *Literal* Storm Brew...
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My Boyfriend Just Can't Get It Right With Gifts—Help!
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 8 | Comeuppance, Universal Hypocrisy, and Palate...
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It's Our 1-Year Anniversary! A Special Q&A For Our Listeners, The Shandies!
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 7 | A VIP Party, Chris, & The Betrayals Continue
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 6 | Brendan & Pieper, Paradise's Bonnie & Clyde
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Q&A! Fairytale Fantasies, Going Backwards, and How Many Friends With Exes Is Too...
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 5 | Becca Kufrin, Jewelry, and A "Strongest Coupl...
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 4 | Strawberry Kisses, Betrayal, and Paradise "Im...
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LOVE FEST! Chatty Broads' Jess and Evan Ambrose on Growing Together and Adapting...
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 3 | Lance Bass, Thomas, and The Police Department
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 2 | Cat 4 Demi, Pot Meet Kettle, and The Value Of...
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Our Meeting Story Feels Serendipitous—But Am I Forcing This? Help!
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 1 | David Spade, Kissing Galore, and "Grocery Sto...
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How To Attract The Relationship You Want with Tracy McMillan
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Bachelorette Recap: Finale | Terse Well Wishes, Aunt Lindsay, & A New Bachelor N...
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Q&A! Relationship Nostalgia, Decoding FWB Situations, and Coulda Woulda Shoulda
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 9 | Greg, Greg, and More Greg (Plus Our Predictions!)
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LOVE FEST! Nick Viall & Natalie Joy on How They Met and Building Trust
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 8 | Michael, Tear Analysis, and Men Tell All
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My Boyfriend's Close Girl Friend Doesn't Like Me! Help!
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | Katie’s an Empath, Mike P & His Mom, a Heartfelt Fare...
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Relationship Astrology: Birth Chart Compatibility & Tarot Reading
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | Hunter, "Operation WOWO", and Lose-Lose Situations
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Q&A! First Love Lasting, Friends or More, & Money Insecurity in Dating
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | Party Crasher Blake, Andrew S. 1-on-1, & Hunter
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LOVE FEST! Katie Morton & James Rowe On Making Long-Distance Work
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Bachelorette Recap: Episode 4 | Blake Moynes & Bachelor Thomas
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In Spite Of Multiple "Wrongs", Can He Still Be Mr. Right?
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Bachelorette Recap: Episode 3 | Right Reasons™ Drama, Nick Viall's Group Date, &...
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Demystifying Your Pelvic Health & Secret Tips For More Pleasure ft. Dr. Uchenna...
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Bachelorette Recap: Episode 2 | Mike's Poem, Aaron vs. Cody, & "Right Reasons" K...
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Q&A! Texting Chemistry, He's Just Not That Into You, & The One That Got Away
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Bachelorette Recap: Episode 1 | First Impressions, Kayshia, & Our Predictions
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LOVE FEST! Ben Higgins & Jess Clarke Reveal Why Their Relationship Works & Ben's...
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My Long-Term Boyfriend Is Unsure About Marriage—How Long Is Too Long To Wait?
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Nikki Glaser Confesses Crush on Nick Viall, Sliding Into Matt James's DMs & Secr...
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Q&A! Making the First Move & Rekindling Romance From the Friendzone
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LOVE FEST! Sydney Lotuaco Reveals How Nick Wehby Slid Into Her DMs & Won Her Hea...
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Did I Miss My Proposal?!
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