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Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine
Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance.Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, non-judgmental & honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership...
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Episodes (934)
Q&A! To BJ Or Not To BJ, Changing Your Date's Style, & The Women's Equivalent To...
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LOVE FEST! Sarah Nicole & Shane Landry On Harnessing Jealousy & The Romance Of L...
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He Wouldn't Quit Following Racy Accounts—Was I Being Too Uptight?
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Unpacking Purity Culture With Blair Of @TalkPurityToMe
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Q&A! In Ick We Trust, "If He Wanted To, He Would", and To Kill Or Not To Kill?
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LOVE FEST! Courtney Robertson & Humberto Preciado On Instagram Vetting & Keeping...
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Navigating Romance When You Have Anxiety, OCD Or Depression With Allison Raskin
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I Think I'm In Love With My Platonic Life Partner—Help!
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Q&A! Fantasize On, Being The Other Woman, & When You Can't Find A Great Person A...
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LOVE FEST! Dave Neal & Tasha Courtney On Grand Gestures & Being Friends First
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Confessions of a Divorce Attorney ft. Nicole Sodoma
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His Words And His Actions Don't Align—Should I Reach Back Out?
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Q&A! When You're Annoyed By Your Partner's Hobby & How To Slide Into A Celeb's D...
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Bachelor Recap: Finale | Twists, Controversy, and Empathy... Oh My!
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Parasocial Relationships With Josh Peck
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My Long Distance Relationship Has Gotten Rocky—Help!
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Bachelor Recap: WTA + Ep 9 | The High-Wire Act That Is Overnights
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Our Wedding Story, Part 2 (aka Wedding Q&A!)
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Bachelor Recap: Episode 8 | Meta Language & Outdoorsy Lessons In Hometown Week
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Q&A! Returning The Ring, My BF Misses His Ex's Family, And DWI = Dealbreaker?
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 7 | Couples "Therapy" And A Villain On The Side
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LOVE FEST! Krystal Nielson & Miles Bowles On Opposites Attracting & The Fun Of P...
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 6 | Undesirable "Dates", Simmering Beef, & Marionette Strings
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Does My Fling Think I Moved For Him? Help!
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 5 | The Art of Comedy And The No-Shame-Ae Show Heads To Toron...
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Finding Purpose—With Or Without A Relationship—With John Kim, "The Angry Therapi...
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 4 | BBQ Crashers & When Shrimp Cancels Cocktail Parties
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Q&A! Whack-A-Mole Of Life, A Sexless Marriage, And Once Bad In Bed, Always Bad I...
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | Loose Lips Sink Ships, High Thigh, and The Same Ol’ Playb...
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LOVE FEST! Jacqueline Trumbull & Paul Seli On Overcoming Jealousy & The Art Of M...
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The Hunt For Red Flags
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Bachelor Recap : Ep 2 | Hilary Duff, Kissing Fatigue, & Shanae-nah
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Q&A! Annoyance Mitigation, Guys Who Don't Ask You Out, & Sh*tting Where You Eat
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | The Likeliest of Bachelors and Unlikeliest of Exits
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Our Wedding Story
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Bachelorette Recap: Finale | A Foregone Conclusion Wrapped With A Christmas Bow
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LOVE FEST! Shawn Johnson & Andrew East On Holding Kites & Persistence Paying Off
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 9 | Official ILYs, Ziplining, and Fantasy Suites
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My Boyfriend Just Broke Up With Me But Wants Shared Custody Of My Dog—Help!
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Bachelorette Recap: Men Tell All | Apologies And Missed Opportunities Galore
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Navigating Enmeshment and Setting Boundaries with Alyssa Mancao
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | Hometowns, Emotional Breakthroughs, & Punctual Profes...
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Q&A! Changing Names, Revealing FWB History, Sharing Secrets, & "Timing" Truths
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | No Tears? No Problem! A Bachelor Edit To The Rescue
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LOVE FEST! Sarah Herron & Dylan Brown's Real Life Meet Cute & IVF Journey
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | Minneapolis Is For Lovers But Especially Joe & Nayte
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My Boyfriend's Sister Is Increasingly Rude To Me—Should I Confront Her?
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 4 | Feeling Unseen, Teddy Bros, and D-List Villainy
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Truths Bombs About Egg Freezing & Fertility with Whitney Bischoff Angel
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 3 | Petulance, Poetry, and Justice
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