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Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine
Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance.Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, non-judgmental & honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership...
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Episodes (934)
Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | The Desperate Search For Ver-Zach-Y
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We Broke Up Because Of His ED But Now He's Giving Mixed Signals—Help!
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UPDATES To Shandies' Questions!
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BEST OF 2022! Our Favorite Q&As Of The Year
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Q&A! Considering Your Ex's Feelings, The Opposite Of Hate, And A Shandy Pep Talk
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My Boyfriend Wants To Open Up Our Relationship—Help!
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Q&A! Living With Mom, Mismatched In Dancing & Sending A Bad Text To The Wrong Pe...
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Platonic: Navigating Friendships With Dr. Marisa G Franco
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Finale Part 2 | Victoria, Johnny and Greg... Oh My!
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Finale Part 1 | First Comes Fantasy Suite, Then Come...
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LOVE FEST! Ben Zorn & Stacy Santilena On Going From Friends To More And Survivin...
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap Eps 13 & 14 | Andrew Has 99 Problems And Jessenia Is...
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Q&A! Venting, Mismatched TV Tastes, And Is An Old Flame Worth Revisiting?
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 12 | Rodney, A Tragedy In Three Acts
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I Broke My Ex's Heart & Think I Want Him Back—Help!
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Eps 10 & 11 | Red Flag Banquet And Boring In Stereo
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How To Manifest Your Best Life With Roxie Nafousi
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Eps 8 & 9 | Shanae 1.0 Returns While A Love Triangle...
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Q&A! Stealing Baby Names, Vocal Fry, And Refusal To Put Down The Toilet Seat
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Eps 6 & 7 | Down Goes Casey While Michael Flies Firs...
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Eps 4 & 5 | Salley Finally Lands And Also... Peter
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When, If Ever, Should I Disclose My "Number" In Dating? Help!
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Eps 2 & 3 | Suitcase Sagas And Fruit Fly Time
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Navigating Mismatched Libidos With Sexologist Shan Boodram
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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 1 | Logan Drops A Luce
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Q&A! Rom-Com Scenarios, Cringey Pet Names And Sliding Into His (LinkedIn) DMs
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Bachelorette Recap: Finale | A Breakup House And A Tino Kebab
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LOVE FEST! Kenny Braasch & Mari Pepin On Homebody Life & Age Difference Upside
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 11 | A Kafka-Esque Battle Of Semantics
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Should I Pack Up And Move My Whole Family For My Own Personal Happiness? Help!
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Bachelorette Recap: Eps 9 & 10 | Fantasy Suites, Hold The Fantasy
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2 Year Anniversary Q&A | Answering Our Shandies' Questions! - Ep 156
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 8 + Men Tell All | A Bewitching Hometown, Villains Gone M...
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Q&A! Hot For Teacher, Turning The Other Cheek, & A 25 Year Age Difference
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | A Clown Car Of Hometowns
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LOVE FEST! Blake Horstmann & Giannina Gibelli Talk DJ Life And Misconceptions
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | Did You Know Hometowns Are Around The Corner?
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My Dad Won't Stop Talking About His Divorce From My Mom—Help! - Ep 150
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | The Villain Soundtrack Is On Repeat In Belgium
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Parenthood Clarity With #ChildfreeByChoice Clarity Coach Keltie Maguire
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 4 | The Two Camps Set Sail In France
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Q&A! Farting, Skeletons In The Apartment, & Sharleen's True Feelings On Andy's W...
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 3 | All Power Struggles Lead To A Fork In The Road
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LOVE FEST! Abigail Heringer & Noah Erb On Misconceptions And Scheduled Walks
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 2 | A Villain Comes And Goes... And Comes Back Again
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My Fiancé Won't Write Personalized Wedding Vows For Our Big Day—Help!
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Bachelorette Recap: Two's A Crowd But So Far They're Still Friends
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Q&A! A First Date Venmo, Safe Sex = Equal Effort?, & A Shandy's Love Letter
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My Boyfriend Still Lives With His Ex—Help!
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Bittersweet: How Sadness Is A Superpower With Susan Cain - Ep 138
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