Wives husband but my man lover whatever

0:00Hey, this is strong for me and you're feeling out there today. I hope everybody is going well. If you're not doing well, let's find a way to get well, look well and be well. Today's topic is wife's husband, but my man. I don't know how they figured that out, but we're gonna figure it out. I mean, she claims to be the wife, but he says that she says he's her man or his man. So I mean, to my understanding, if you're married to somebody, then you are their husband. But the world will get things a little different today tomorrow morning next day, so I decided to write about it. Wife's husband, but my man, if that's your husband, where is his wife and being? Oh my goodness, that's number one right there.

1:10He takes that wedding ban on every time he leaves a house from being with his wife. I be damned. No wonder she thinks he's her man because he don't have that ban on his hand. Why do most of his plans have something to do with me? Why he always holding my hand instead of yours? If he were my husband, you wouldn't know he's my man. She's basically telling that wife, if she was the wife, she wouldn't have to wonder if he was your man, his man, or their man. She would already know. It wouldn't be no guessing game. It wouldn't be no questions asked. He would be her man, her husband, her lover, and everything else that come with that marriage as husband and wife.

2:16And if he even looked like he wanted to cheat on her, she would be in hell with a frying pan and would make sure she had control over what's happening inside of his pants. He would never call to cancel something we had plans. Your husband should be trying to understand my every thought. I mean, he shouldn't be trying to understand my every thought. He should be trying to understand your every thought. But somehow they ain't seen a little twisted. He's seen more focus on my thoughts than your thoughts.

3:17My every thought, he should be trying to understand yours. If he is your husband, you should always know where you stand. I mean, if he is your husband, you shouldn't be lost. Wonder where you fit in, wonder what's next, where you going, what's happening, what's basically going on in your life. You shouldn't have to make demands to be a part of his plans. I mean, you're going to sit down and talk to me. You're going to call me. I'm winning the next time we go now. I mean, you shouldn't have to make these demands. Are you going to sleep with me? Are you going to fuck me? Are we going to sit down and have dinner together? All these different things are called demands. If you have to ask your husband these things on a regular basis, he's probably is somebody else's man.

4:21So you have to, you should already be a big part of their lives. I mean, without accent to be a part of it, he should be willing to take you out just to dance. And another woman wouldn't get that chance. That means that other woman wouldn't have that opportunity to say, he's mine. He's taking me out. He's showing me around town. Are you sitting home trying to figure it out? Now, if he's not your husband, you can start the drama. They whip him on the beach and in the sand. Tell his wife about the plans, break his windows out and make sure he is the only one he is loving and wanting to romance.

5:24Now, his wife sits home and wonder about her husband that she already knew is my man. Yeah, that's when it sounds like it sounds like this man, her husband, he seemed to be somebody else's because he sure is not paying attention to that wife. And see, like she said, you have a ring on your finger, but he don't have a ring on his finger. You claim that you have papers, but I have the time in his mind. So, I mean, you have to think about these things. Who is right? Is it this mistress? Is it this other man? Or is that wife? I mean, this husband, he is out there breaking hearts and being with this dad and whoever and still have the name husband as a title.

6:35Or my man, so this husband, my man, my lover, my whatever, he has plans with the rest of the world. So, is he really my husband? And I don't know that I'm not the wife. That we get a good voice somewhere along the line or that we separate somewhere and time. Sounds confusing, but it's not. If you marry to somebody, then somebody should be your somebody, not somebody else's somebody, and that is life. Because we all live and we learn and we have to understand. If they tell you, you don't know what you're talking about. They're showing you just what it's all about. So, a picture is more than words can offer.

7:41To live along your life is what it is. And life is so, so, so, so, so, so real. If you got a husband, make sure that he beats a husband, not somebody that's somebody else's man. Or somebody else's chance. Love yourself before you love someone else, because life happens in an instance, with or without your help.