
Why You Keep Attracting The Wrong People (And How To Stop) (Ep 103)
About this episode
Why do you keep ending up in the same relationship with a different person?
Different face.
Different personality.
Same disappointment.
If you've ever found yourself asking, "Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable people?" this episode is for you.
In this Season 4 premiere of The Secret Formula of Femininity Podcast, Dr. Nicole Monteiro explores the psychology behind unhealthy relationship patterns, attachment styles, emotional familiarity, and why smart, successful women often find themselves repeating the same painful cycles.
You'll learn:
• Why familiarity often gets mistaken for chemistry
• How attachment patterns influence attraction
• Why emotionally available people can feel "boring"
• The difference between attraction and selection
• Practical ways to break unhealthy relationship cycles
If you're ready to attract healthier relationships and create the love life you deserve, this episode is your starting point.
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