Why Rest Cannot Wait for a Special Occasion

The first thing Vanessa felt when she finally gave herself a break wasn't relief. It was guilt. And that moment, that voice that said we don't do that, we just handle it, is exactly what this episode is about.

If Mother's Day left you with something unnamed underneath the flowers and the plans, you're not alone in that. We ask one day to carry everything we've been quietly waiting to feel, and then Monday arrives exactly the same as every other Monday.

What You'll Learn: 

✅ Why one Mother's Day cannot hold what we've been carrying for the other 364 days, and what to do with that 

✅ How inherited guilt keeps us from choosing support that's actually available to us 

✅ Three practical ways to protect your mental breaks, use your resources, and treat your own time as non-negotiable 

✅ Why rest doesn't have to be earned, saved for a special occasion, or explained to anyone

Chapters:

00:00 When You Finally Stop
00:47 Welcome and Mother’s Day Check-In
01:18 Breathing Room From Pausing
01:58 Why Moms Never Rest
02:54 Tiny Moments That Restore You
03:33 Generational Messages About Selflessness
04:44 Choosing Support Without Guilt
06:47 Mother’s Day Can’t Carry It All
08:16 Three Practical Ways to Reclaim Time
09:54 You Don’t Need Permission to Rest
10:33 Coaching Invitation and Next Steps
11:00 Guided Reflection and One Small Step
12:02 Share, Review, and Closing

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