walk and talk

Kevin Kelly invited me to walk 100 kilometers (62 miles) through northern Thailand for seven days, ending in Chiang Mai. Walking with us were ten other smart interesting people, including five other authors whose work I’ve loved for years. It’s a “Walk and Talk”.

One of the walkers lives in Thailand, speaks Thai, and made all the local arrangements, scoping the track in advance. Two of the walkers had done this many times before, in Uzbekistan, Spain, Japan, and China. The rest of us were in good hands, going with the flow of the unknown.

A sweet wild dog joined our pack halfway through, walking and sleeping with us for four days and 70km, until we brought him to a vet at the end, and found him a good permanent home.

Read the write-ups by Dan Wang, Craig Mod, Jason Kottke, and Liz Danzico, who were also on this walk, and go into more depth than I do here.

I highly recommend this activity and format. You can start one yourself. It goes like this:

UPDATE: Kevin Kelly and Craig Mod released their “Walk and Talk: Everything We Know” PDF which is much more thorough and helpful than my brief overview, below. Download it here.

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1. Choose where to walk — somewhere with lodging for 8 people every 15 km — where someone else can drive everyone’s bags from place to place.
2. Someone (local person or business) walks it all in advance to make sure it’s actually good. This person is the navigator.
3. Make a shared document of details of where to meet and what to bring, a group chat for questions, and a shared place to upload photos afterwards.
4. Invite a diverse group of conversationalists — ideally eight. Walkers send money to the local navigator to pre-pay for the lodging and meals.
5. Meet at the initial hotel for dinner and introductions.
6. Walk together for the next 6-7 days — ideally without phones — about 3-5 hours of walking per day, led by the navigator, with long breaks every two hours. Everyone naturally goes in and out of little 2-3 person conversations while walking.
7. Every night over a private dinner, the entire group has a single conversation around one subject, which the group chose the night before. Everyone stays involved in this one conversation, exploring one topic to exhaustion.

During this Thailand walk, our nightly conversation topics were:

• How do you stay motivated?
• What do you escape or resist?
• What does home mean to you?
• Shocking solutions to public problems.
• Tell us about a failure.
• Frameworks to make big decisions.
• What is your health regime?
• How do you use lists?
• What do you believe that your heroes do not?

Some people spout their thoughts as soon as they come to mind. Other people need to be persuaded to share. It helps to moderate the conversation to keep the contributions balanced.

More than half of the conversations were during the day, one-on-one, while walking or resting. It’s wonderful that you can come back to something someone said a day or two before, and share more thoughts or questions that came to you overnight.

It’s one of the best things I’ve ever done. Very healthy for your brain, body, and friendships. I highly recommend it for anyone.

I plan to host some in the future. If you know a good place to do a “walk and talk”, (see criteria #1 above), please leave a suggestion in the comments here.