Vault: She Accidentally Hooked Up With Her Boss's Ex?!

0:00The bird show I mean think about what that must feel like like that that anxiety Pit in your stomach when you realize that you just got off a date or you just hooked up with your boss's axe Mm-hmm, and you can't do anything to take it back. I mean you can't change it history What you just did and so yeah All sorts of angles probably to take it this you tell the boss you let it go. Yeah pretend it never happened Hey Jillian you're on the voice disguiser. Oh good. Hi. Morning. Morning. How are you? Good. How are you? You're okay. You're on the voice disguiser. We can't recognize your voice Yeah, thanks for pointing out the knot in the pit of my stomach. Yeah, I bet Tell us the story. How did it happen? So I went out this is last. This is past Thursday night So we went out with some girlfriends. We're just hanging out drinking I got a little tipsy we're at this bar and I met this guy and

1:00I was drinking a little bit, but I actually really did like him and I I know I did something kind of kind of Floodie, but I ended up going back to his place and hooking up with him like all the way hooking up Yeah, let's define hooking up Sleeping with him. Okay, but sleeping but not really sleeping Sleep sleep. Just so you know, I don't think that was slutty because you were buzzed So that makes it not slutty just for breath Numbers just went down by dozens All right, so you go to the bar you get your buzz on pretty good and you end up Okay, got you right so But the thing is I ended up I mean I stayed over and then I got up in the next morning and we switched numbers that it wasn't it was You know, we actually did like each other so we had we had breakfast. They left Hey, it's a courtesy move when you're doing that early morning number switch right down your name also just generally speaking

2:05Because if It's not about 10 30 in the morning. You'll get a hang up call and that's him hearing the name on your place Just so you know true All right, so continue on so anyway the next day I'm at work and I get this text from him and it's like hey, I had a really great time Hope to see you again soon and then Like right after that is the second text that says so do you know do you feel awkward at work today? And I wrote back and I was like no works cool. Why and then I didn't hear anything back from him until later that night And he called me and to tell me what was going on and I had Absolutely no idea, but this is my supervisor's ex-husband So he knew he knew that you were his ex has been employee. Yeah, I feel like I missed something here Yeah, but I have okay first of all have it's not like I just have one supervisor

3:08I have six supervisors, but how did he know that you're an employee of one of those six supervisors? Well, apparently he met me almost three years ago No Remember him I don't remember him telling me that and he never brought it up when you guys were at the bar Get your buzz off. I've never said anything Well played by him nicely done. Why complicate things with details that may take your mind off the hand Wow, that sucks. It's good for him. So were you upset with him? Were you ticked off? I was stressed out More than I mean, I'm upset that you didn't tell me because I was in this position, but then No pun intended, but then Also, I mean, I really like him I ended up going out with him again You did yeah, okay That's gonna change things here a little bit over the weekend. I went on again

4:09I was I didn't go out with him. I went out with my friends I wasn't gonna go out with him and then I ended up going off there again I really like him as we we totally hit it off and I mean how hard it's me somebody When he told you that he had met you previously was it a little bit like watching the end of the movie the sixth sense where you're like But everything oh, oh, yeah, did you remember that you met him before? No, you didn't he still had no recollection Have you asked him if is it possible that you and he talked about your mutual friend on Was it Thursday night the night of the original hookup, but because you were buzzed. You don't remember it Are you 1,000 percent certain it didn't come up Not that it makes a difference So what is the question that we're asking this morning? Do you tell the supervisor or do you not tell the supervisor?

5:13I guess we need a little history here also The supervisor and the ex were they married how long have they been broken up? They were married. They've been divorced for two years two years. Okay. No need to tell When I'm asking is am I it just Approval that I can I mean am I wrong can I still see him? And if I if I can't still see him I mean I need somebody to really Tell me that I can't there's no way that I thought that's okay. Well, is your boss over it is she moved on? I have no I don't talk to I mean I I barely work with that supervisor, you know I obviously don't talk to her about my personal life. Did she have the is she have the ability to fire you? Yeah, I mean all supervisors have that but I mean like yeah in our department Is she do you not talk to her enough that like would she be able to on Wednesday for whatever reason would she be able to call you in the Office ago. I'm sorry. We have to let you go or would it be somebody else doing that?

6:19Because you're saying that she's a supervisor but like Is she if she's not if she's not your immediate boss and she's just someone who's above you in the organization I think you're free and clear. Hey Natasha. Good morning. You're part of the virtue. Go ahead I would just say that if like he just said if it's not one of her direct supervisors It's probably not gonna come up enough for her to worry about on top of that if it's been two years I would say she's probably well over it and if she didn't even know there's no reason for her to be worried about it What I have direct soup I have more than one supervisor to and I'm not real close to any of them But something like that I would holly doubt that one of them could even that would come up and just say you're fired because of that And if they did the way that the laws are on she could come back and I mean that would be the end of that at one point or another though If the relationship evolves into something more meaningful At some point you're gonna have to say something because you're gonna end up at an office party together or a Christmas party or something

7:20And you'd want to give your supervisor the heads up that look. I don't want you to be shocked Yeah, it's uncomfortable tomorrow at the party When right in the exos It just depends on the nature of the relationship their work relationship I mean if it is truly one of many supervisors and it's the one supervisor she never sees Then what is the you know, why would she have any obligation to say anything after two years But if she is somebody that she has to deal with a lot and the woman's gonna find out some other way and it makes it awkward for the I don't know I don't know I think it all depends on the supervisor's state of mind with her divorce You just don't know though because your supervisor won't share that with you if you're an employee most of the time But if she's you know if she's over it and she's moved on and maybe she's in another relationship Then I don't think she has anything to worry about. Jillian Do you know if your supervisor is in a serious relationship with somebody else? Not that I know of but I really have no idea. Okay, Justin go ahead. You're part of the birth show, huh? Oh, hey, um, I Think she should have the other guy tell her supervisor because he was the one in the relationship, you know

8:24So you say it's the ex's responsibility to say yeah to define what's going on Maybe it depends on if they still talk or not. I mean They may not be in communication at all if they are that would be a great way to solve the problem 404741 Q100. Hey, Jill go ahead. I think that she needs to buy the the supervisor over the next time I turn over and I need to have a bit of a reunion. Oh, you're crazy. You're so That is creating drama right there Good morning, Patrick. You're on Q100. Hi. Hi, I was just wondering if there was children involved How does it sway you either way? I'm sorry. How does it sway you either way like let's say I mean I wouldn't want to My step children's parents to be my supervisor or professor That would create a problem. You're fat. There's no children. There's no history Well, I think and also if there's children, they're still in contact with each other Mm-hmm, right if they're if they don't have children then they don't necessarily have a reason to be in contact

9:25Jillian, are there any children involved in this whole thing? No, no kids Yeah, most of all I'm saying you don't have to say anything I just do think that eventually you're gonna have to have that talk before he walks in the office or It's gonna pick you up to have lunch one day or something like that and wouldn't you rather her know before it's a shock And she finds out in front of the rest of the office, but you have to remember they just hooked up Thursday and they went on one other day Yeah, I'm doing it. Yeah, yeah, so yeah, telling her now would be way jumping the gun on that, you know You haven't even gone on the date Real day. Yeah, you're just hooking up and you're drunk That's totally different last call good morning Sandal you're part of the birch show. Hi Hey, Warren it. I think that they should just keep it to themselves because they just hooked up They're not in a relationship right so when do you think it's time for you for her to pull for Jillian to pull the supervisor aside and go okay? If they decide to So if they decide to what they start dating start dating so what once it gets exclusive

10:25That's the time to bring the supervisor in on it. Yeah, pretty well, too. Okay. All right. Thank you Jillian most are calling up saying you don't owe the supervisor anything yet. You hooked up with the guy twice Everything's so exciting now. Yeah, of course you like him so much But who knows what's gonna happen over the next couple of weeks and I'm especially after seven beers Just don't screw him over because then he may call the ex-wife and say something handle it delicately But you don't know her anything just yet. Okay, okay. All right. Thank you for calling The bird show