Vault: Couples Narc On Their Spouses For Donating Too Much!

0:00Como mamá, siempre quiero lo mejor para mi familia. Por eso quiero lo mejor en mi cocina. Y eso significa solo huevos Eglance Best. No importa cómo los cocines siempre saben frescos y deliciosos y tienen más vitaminas de IE y el doble de omega 3 que los huevos regulares. Entonces, ¿por qué conformarte con menos cuando puedes tener lo mejor? Eglance Best. Mejor sabor, mejor nutrición, mejores huevos. El burcho. Vamos a la chica de la chica. Y Andy Stanley, el pastor en San de San De, dice algo en su sermón, que me preocupa en que yo nunca he hecho de una sorpresa de... Stress en un poco antes. Y yo quería preguntar la pregunta en este momento. 404-741-Q100. He hablado de la balance. Y he hablado de cómo mucho dinero que debes adonar y cómo mucho que debes para yourself y cómo todo es todo. Es todo muy bien. Money, blah, blah, blah. Y él dice que él ha hablado de antes de que una persona en el cuerpo

1:03quiere adonar mucho más de la otra persona y ha sido un gran tiempo de la sorpresa en la relación. Yo nunca he dicho eso antes de que el argumento es que tenemos mucho dinero. Puedes adonar mucho dinero a un punto donde es causando mucha fricción en la familia. Y yo quería preguntar si te escuches hoy. Y me voy a poner en la discusión, porque no quiero ser el que me voy a hacer. Mi casa quiere dar todo. Y yo siempre he dicho que no podemos. No más donar, no más cariño. ¿Dónde te llamas, Jessica? Pues, sí. ¿Dónde te encontré todo el tiempo? ¿Dónde? Yo nunca he dicho esto como un tipo de tensión en la relación antes. Porque me adoné generalmente... No, generalmente. Bueno, sí, creo que así. Me adoné generalmente speaking to... Esto es un placer. Me adoné. Me adoné. Hoy me adoné, yo no me adoné. Pretty much anyone who would ask. Oh, yeah. Pero... Whereas Jessica thinks we should donate

2:04more to select causes that we feel jointly passionate about. So she will discourage the frequent, smaller donations and encourage larger, more relevant donations. ¿Esto hace lo que hace? Es lo que hace. Sí, a least you guys are on the same page that some money should be going out. I think the way that Andy was making it sound this weekend is that there are some families that, like, one guy wants to give all the cash away and the other one is like, no. Zero. No, can't do it. But I think it depends on if you were financially strapped

3:05as a couple because I think there's some people that even if they know that they're financially strapped, they still don't think it's good for them to keep the money, you know, and take care of themselves first and give it away. So when you say that, I envision a couple who are trying to make all their payments. y entonces si alguien va a ir a algo y ha decidido, ah, si esto es bueno, eso es bueno, eso va a imprimir el karma que tenemos que hacer todo esto y las otras personas pues, bueno, nosotros tenemos que pagar el carpamento antes de que tenemos que hacer esto. Y si yo era broma, yo aún no tengo nada. Yo estoy en karma, gente. Yo hago un poco de damage en acciones que voy a intentar comprar mi camino a la Heavens. ¿Por qué la gente tiene 10$? ¿Qué haces? Hey, Sally, vamos a ir a la voz de Scazer. ¡Hi! ¡Hi! ¡I'm one of those! ¡What's one! ¡I donate too much! Ok ¡I am not a way love Andy Sandley and hurt that today and I thought he was talking to me so my face hurts bright red! Yeah it was a great sermon but I had never heard that as a source of tension before where one person has given away too much

4:09Well I've been doing it my whole life It could be I guess an illness you know you spend too much you donate too much An illness I don't know, I don't know In college I had a girlfriend who wanted to be an attorney And I gave her my tuition and didn't go that semester so she could go because she didn't have the money So it's not when I was young Wow! That is really amazing It's amazing Yeah I just like doing things for others and you know a volunteer and just do a lot and when I need to be doing some stuff at home too What is the last time you and your husband gotten an argument about this very thing? I've gotten much better so it's probably about a year ago when I was volunteering at my church I was putting on a big dinner for a fundraiser and I didn't charge anybody for it And there were about 300 people there Woah That's an expensive tap That's a big pocket

5:09That's a really big pocket Do you all have that kind of money to spend? I mean are you pretty well off? Yeah we are but we have seven children so Wow! So well if one of them doesn't eat what's a big deal you still got six healthy ones Now I think it's interesting that all the calls that are coming in are all from women Who say they give too much? They give too much and it's the guys in the relationship that are on them for giving out too much It came up before in my life when you pull out all of the paperwork for taxes And you added up from the last year and you know It's handed over to the accountant and that's when it's come up before for me And you were the one that donated too much? And it was the accountant No the accountant didn't Yeah the accountant didn't Yeah the accountant didn't care The accountant didn't care I wonder if this is purely a gender thing because there's not one guy on the phone saying

6:10I'm the one that gives too much and my wife is all over me it's all women Saying that their guys are on them Hey Brandon good morning you're on Q100 Thanks for pointing that out I appreciate that Can I say that one more time because we might not hurt you for free Let me tell you I actually think it's quite funny and ironic this morning My husband and I just had a huge argument yesterday about going to church Because he feels it's all about money And you know I'm like well you don't have to go and give money but And he says no no no no no it's all a scam it's all a scam And you know the Bible says 10% and he's like why do I have to give 10% So he says 10% is way too much Yeah he's like I'll give what I can when I can And I'm like okay that's understandable but you know you go to church And you hear the preacher and he talks and they ask for what they can But he just is very adamant I'm not giving to the church

7:10She's not the only one good morning Jennifer you're on Q100 Hi First of all can I say I love you guys Always yes say a lot Can I say it again? Oh I love you guys that's cool thank you No I was calling because unlike a lot of the other colleges You were saying you had on I actually had a friend in college What we'll call her Vicki And her dad gave his entire salary every month Back to the church where he was a preacher And his wife hated it because they couldn't pay the bill Wow Entire salary? The entire salary 100% goes back to the church I yeah yeah 100% she told me about it I guess he had a problem with it too Because then she needed money of course To pay for books and stuff in college And she had a bigger grand here for money Because the dad was giving it all back to the church Wow Wow It's something I call crazy talk Too much Rebecca go ahead you're on Q100 Hi good morning yeah I was just going to tell you a little story about basically my ex Has been some months he does not pay his child support

8:13On time or there's been a couple times where he hasn't paid at all Because he tells me he has to first pay his tithe to the church which is a 10% And he just doesn't have money that month or he's going to be late that month for that reason And how do you even argue with that? I mean you can't even feel good about Sam Well can you give a little bit less to the church and a little more to your kids? Because you sort of feel Yeah I would I would go bad about that Son of you before Son of God Thank you very much Great to check Feed your kids Do you think he's being honest about that? Or do you think he's just using the church as his excuse? No actually I do because the church got him out of his you know a lot of problems he had And addiction and stuff so he feels even more so that he owes you know owes that to the church But in the same sense his son needs food on the table I think it's ridiculous I think a man that you know takes care of his responsibilities probably is you know I think God probably looks kind of Yeah Hey the bird show