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Fierce Madison dives into the importance of keeping things fresh, authentic, and playful to attract the right partner and deepen your existing bond. You’ll discover her proven tips on dropping it like it’s hot, staying mentally and emotionally connected, and understanding why genuine confidence keeps love thriving. Plus, she reveals the must-know mindset shifts that turn casual dating into purposeful, meaningful relationships.
This episode is packed with lessons on staying true to yourself in love, building irresistible attraction, and avoiding the common pitfalls that kill romantic chemistry before it even begins. Whether you’re struggling with dating fatigue, trying to attract your soulmate, or simply want to reignite the spark, Fierce Madison’s humor and honesty give you the confidence to win at love on your own terms.
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0:00Warning, the following Zippercruder radio spot you are about to hear is going to be filled with F words. When you're hiring, we at Zippercruder know you can feel frustrated. For Lauren even, like your efforts are futile, and you can spend a fortune trying to find fabulous people, only to get flooded with candidates who are just fine. Fortunately, Zippercruder figured out how to fix all that. And right now, you can try Zippercruder for free at zippercruder.com slash zip. With Zippercruder, you can forget your frustrations, because we find the right people for your roles fast, which is our absolute favorite effort. In fact, four out of five employers who post on Zippercruder get a quality candidate within the first day. Fantastic! So, whether you need to hire four, 40, or 400 people, get ready to meet first rate talent. Just go to zippercruder.com slash zip to try Zippercruder for free. Don't forget that's zippercruder.com slash zip Finally, at zippercruder.com slash zip
1:27zippercruder.com slash zip to try Zippercruder.com slash zip to try Zippercruder.com slash zip to try Zippercruder.com Welcome, welcome, welcome, welcome to the fierce female network. I'm your host, fierce, messing, and today is Wednesday, Wednesday, Wednesday, Wednesday, Wednesday, Wednesday, baby. It is Wednesday, March 18, 20, 26, 4 p.m. on this interest standard time zone, and 5 p.m. on the eastern standard time zone. You know what I'm going to say up in here. The eastern standard time zone is a time zone that rocks my socks off honey. You know, I got to push it up today, T.L. to my home team. Must give a shout out to my team, fierce, nation, international, dog. Oh, I didn't work in team on the planet. They're based in Kenya, Zimbabwe, East and West Africa, the UK, and Germany, and my honoree, Mehman, India, Kron, but I didn't. All right, this show is dedicated, each and every episode is dedicated and remembering of Lazaria R. Mass and Mod Charlotte. Listen, listen, listen, let's go get on down with it. I'm going to tell you a little bit
2:30about the official banana daddy put the official banana daddy. Yes, and D. So let's, I got some really great stuff for you on today, great stuff for you on today. So listen, you guys, let's you guys. Let me get this going up in here, up in here, up in here. As my mom says, oh, listen, got a little news and some little, what do they say? Some announcements. Guess my announcements, oh my god. So you know, I told you guys, my mom's birthday, she's going to be turning the big 86, the big 86 on Friday, Friday, Friday, Friday. Y'all, let me see now. Her birthday is going to be on Friday, March the 20th, the big 8th, 6th, y'all. I'm so glad. Y'all remember last year, I was talking about her birthday party. Well, honey, you know, with a whole bunch of folks all up and there. I didn't tell her, but I knew I had to do it last year, because I'm like, the way I was feeling last year, I didn't know how I could even make it to be doing the dish here. So I'm glad she had a big 85 net bit surprise, because she had no birthday
3:31party. She didn't wear no birthday party. Then after it was all over with, she was all happy, and everything. And she started to cry. She said, oh, these people here for me. I say, yes, they are. Yes, they are. Then after the birthday party, she gets home. Well, we get home, she's saying, we get home. And then her building, they had a March birthday party. She runs in, she runs in, she runs in, she runs into the house, she eats a little snack, and she take her, her 9 o'clock pill. And she says, I'm not done. I'm running one of, I want to put it some more. She said, I went, I said, really? And so she says, I'm going downstairs. I had a little shindig downstairs. She gets down there in her, she's doing her little thing or outgrain, outgrain. What was that song? Love and happiness. She's up there. And I said, Lord, have mercy. And the little thing, she was dancing with the pole man, you know, pole man. He won't be out. I had to recover two days because that man does not sit down. I said, Lord, have mercy. So anyway, anyway, this year,
4:36one Friday, her granddaughter and her great grandson is coming up here to Chicago, the Chicago, anyway. And to have dinner, we're going to have dinner together and my so-called younger brother is coming up here. He is coming too. So anyway, we're going to have a little quiet thing. She don't want, she said, no, I don't want no more party. Don't do anything. Don't do this. Don't do that. So my niece, her granddaughter is coming from Mississippi. She's coming in her great grandson. So we're going to have just quiet little thing. We have a quiet little thing far. And she's going to be 86 years old. So listen then. Also, also, I'm sitting down with Dr. Rhonda Lawson, Dr. Rhonda Lawson on the 23rd, on the 23rd, on the 23rd. That's Monday, my darlings. 6 p.m. I'm talking about my first children's book with illustration. You know, it's in memory of last year, my brother, Lazariel, our man said, the book is last year. The proud papa and the bitches of the flying 18,
5:42well, the flying 18, well, I was looking for my son, but I'm not going to play my son. So listen, let me do this. Let me tell you this. So I want to tell you about the official, the official banana daddy, the official banana daddy. Have y'all heard about the official banana daddy? Have you guys heard about the official banana daddy? If you haven't, I'm going to tell you about it. Okay, so listen, let's own something that gets me excited. So I can't play the whole song, because they will come saying, we're going to do this and do that and do that. So listen, the official, the official banana daddy. Here's our own TikTok. He's building a really serious community all over there, all over there. Listen, it's going on, it's going down on TikTok for the official banana daddy. He has a community that he is building. Let me tell you about him. He streams on TikTok every day from sunny Florida, from Florida, Florida. Okay, so he's someone who
6:48loves to smile, connect and has positive energy and genuine people. He's building community where everyone feels welcome and he's so proud. He's a proud pet parent. He has two doggies and one cat. All donations go directly to his mom. His mother has a wish list of one Amazon. It wish list, because I can't afford it by nothing. You know, I can't even afford it by a piece of dirt. You know what I mean? I can't afford it by a piece of dirt. So listen, listen, listen. So all her donations are going directly to his mom's, his mom has a wish list on Amazon. It's a really nice list. Listen, I checked it out. I checked people out. I checked people out. I checked people, I checked out your toenails. Listen, I like to know who I'm dealing with and who I'm talking about. So you know, I check out your toenails. I really do. I check out your toenails. So if your toenails is not clean, I don't want nothing to do with you. So listen, listen, listen. Y'all come on now. So listen, everybody loves the brand. They say fierce. Your brand is just unreal and they say,
7:51it's just a little crazy. They all say that. So I'm used to them saying, it's all a little crazy, but they love it. They love it. And you know, I used to tell my aunt, she's ours too much. It's too loud. I said, I said, that's what they pay for. That's what they're paying for us. Oh, listen, listen. So listen, all the donations goes directly to his mom. His mom has a wish list on Amazon. She's incredibly grateful to be able to do what he loves every single day. So your support means the world to him, right? Your support means the world to the official banana daddy. And he truly wouldn't be here without those who continue to show up, encourage him and believe in what he's doing. So listen, he's having to rebuild the community. Anything that's positive and genuine and authentic, I love it. I get behind that. I get behind that. So listen, listen, listen, support the banana daddy, the banana daddy. I want to make jokes on them, but I ain't going to do that. So listen, support the official banana daddy. Somebody had to nerve. I'm going to say this though. Somebody had to know to take his name because I was looking around on a chicken. I said,
8:55I see another banana daddy. I said, I say, hey, who is this? Somebody tried to take his name. So he had to take back his name, you know. And so I truly understand, I truly get that. You know, when your name is different, it's original. You want to make sure that you're registered or either trademark or do something to protect your name. So listen, listen, I will say I'm going to be with Dr. Rhonda Lawson in her show on Monday, 6 p.m. since the standard time. And it's going to be talking about, talking about Lazio, the proud papa and the adventures of the fly in 18. So listen, so listen, you know, I can't play all of that, of course. So listen, let me tell you this. That's Soul Train. He used to love Soul Train. My brother used to love Soul Train. Everybody used to try to score a little Soul Train, but they didn't love it like a Lazio message. He was. I mean, that man liked music. You think you would think he created every song that was made?
9:58You know what I mean. So listen, he loved music so much. You would think he created every song. You would think he had something to do with every song that they is made, right? I mean, I'm talking way back in the L.P. Yacht, remember the days of the L.P.s? Now, this one, we was coming up, the L.P.s, the 45s, the 8 track player. You know what they call that thing? The confests. You know, we kept graduating, took confests to see these. You know, I'm still stuck on the CD. I think everything is still a CD. But now, you know, we got all this streaming and then carrying them. Now it's A and I. And I say, boy, they taking mama too fast. I can't move that fast. And then somebody said, well, you better keep up with something that's going on. So I'm getting in the groove with this AI. I don't like something that's finished typing my sentences. Let me finish typing my sentences. Don't finish it for me. You know what I mean? And my mother God bless her. So she asks AI everything. She's on there. And what it says? What is that? What's the answer? Tell me the answer. I'm like, she's got me doing it up in here. She's
11:02got me doing all up in here. So listen, listen, listen. I want you guys to go to TikTok. Go to TikTok. Go to TikTok and visit the official banana daddy, the official banana daddy. Listen, listen, listen, listen, listen. I got some music for you. I do got some music. I got to get them up out of here. Okay. I got to get them up out of here. So listen, this is Mr. Propane. Love Mr. Propane. Y'all check this out. Mr. Propane. He don't fight, baby. Mr. Propane. Mr. Propane. He don't fight, bro. He don't fight. He don't fight, baby. Oh, yeah! Go and take the higher! Oh, fire! I'm so addicted to you You, you, you
12:06I'm still addicted to you You, you, you I'm still addicted to you She's got that fine skin to her I can stand a minute with a little hand at every nailist's world Got you in the flesh and don't ruin your world Even in my dreams I'm feeling for your girl and the kids on you As soon as I see my pride, this is a treasure hunt You buy it, I'll explore Search every prayer, it's like I'm on a tour Find a hideout ticket, I throw a world on a business guide Indiana Jones, can I be the way to help your mind escape? Don't worry about the things to try to hinder fake You never overtake what God led to create You and for you all You are my shining star In space falling, can I be the rocket? I know I'll take you far I'm down for you, I was bound for you I'm looking for you Get up, put you in my jaw I'm a butterfly, I'm a butterfly You the for you all I'm addicted in this love field And I'm walking break this curse I never leave your side So I guess I'm like your purse On a daily you do medicated
13:07So I guess you're like my nurse I relapse on another daily basis And I know for you that hurts Got your people me where it works I struggle most trying to earn you So I'll take you far And you You You I'm still addicted to you Get up, put you in my jaw I'm a butterfly, I'm a butterfly You the for you all You You You You You You You You You You Just like I know my wife is an expandable life life is Mine is sharp as the past is can't afford to get cut from the
14:07Vengeance That is the end of the tape open the bonus triple I ain't my time won't it spy out? I'll tell you when you can put this fight I said you love, you know I'm a mob But when it's real, won't leave any doubt I always think I love to talk about the rain that come after the drop You the rainbow shining to this south I love my baby in and out, never getting to you My booty rock, boy you said it land this You can have my seeded plant this We can watch it grow all up for ever more Printed and lack of mantis Put my love for you as a conditioner So even then there won't find a flake on you I'm so glad to say you You You You You You You I'm still addicted to you And you You You You You I'm still addicted to you
15:07I know it's high-flip just been 10 years A bit of my eyes Memories that made me most of me Some of my pants still are ghosts to me But you feel like I'm supposed to be You're all my everything You're all Queen of me You're all the beauty hidden up in the scenery See what you mean to me It's just like you have a seat that she had my life Where she was all I'd expect You make me bed a more than just an average O-O-D been watching since an angel, too, and who knew that angel be you? So I would cherish it to you, like Lou, you are an inspiration up in the world If you are a leader, Karen, you have to write as mine is even bright enough to help light up mine My motivation, helping to earn my dream, I feel better known that you are on my team You ever got your back no matter how I see my sweet thing, my sweet thing, my honeydew, my sweet cream Your favorite treat girl, I'll bring your private chef with benefits If all you want, yes I'll bring voice of love, the mercy The beauty, hit nothing, the finer thing The Ninja calling pickup, all you think The world enjoyed, you can have everything Never on your side, ever on your side Where you are supposed to be right next to you, can't ever on your side And I'm on your side, how you should be right next to you Yeah!
16:11I'm still like the day to you Yeah I'm a dick baby that's Mr. Propane Mr. Propane because he always on fire he always burning something up he's always burning some up this propane that is addicted
17:11to dick so listen I have a life lesson for you listen ladies you know I'm always on the ladies cases I'm always on like these cases so I got a life lesson for you really quick and fast because it's winning Wednesday when but I want you out of the wind this is gonna be quick y'all I you know I used to do a show I maybe I didn't know dating on purpose I used to have a short segment of dating on purpose not too many years ago right before now during COVID I want to say during COVID during COVID we had dating on purpose I learned so much during the segment I was just the host you know what I mean there was experts that would come in on air experts that was you know very proficient when it comes to relationships and talking about meeting your soulmate and one so listen let me give it to you let me give it to your FAS the down in the dirty dating on purpose listen women let me tell y'all something let me you you got to whether you married Dayton or engaged whatever level you are at in your
18:15relationship let me tell you so I'm gonna tell you how to keep nagging out of your relationship I'm gonna tell you how to keep it funky fresh you know what I mean they don't purpose see listen you got to start like it's going somewhere and you got to end like it's done when where you want it to be so listen listen listen I'm gonna tell you something or I'm gonna tell you something now ladies don't get offended see it's one thing it is one thing that always occurs in relationships y'all gets cold y'all get cold hey hey hey hey hey hey you got to keep dropping it like it's hot listen if you start out fresh and you go to getting stale who's gonna stay around for that you got to keep everything fresh y'all listen you got to it starts in your mind now listen the life lesson is this it starts in your mind it starts your mind listen when you keep things fresh you got to come up with some idea well you probably say well who got time for
19:16that somebody that wants to keep it funky fresh and dropping it like it's hot baby get him some to remember listen you don't want your room and all out in the street that's why you know when I get in time with somebody they get addicted on the first time I ain't talking about face okay make it make it plain so as people always think everything's about sex if you get somebody addicted to you they ain't going nowhere and you know the point is not to make them be addicted they get addicted and don't know they addicted you then you got it in your mind that you know you really really liking this person just be yourself now listen be yourself honey don't try to be nobody other than who you are now when you and take it with somebody that's meant to be your soul mate he's gonna be addicted to you because you got something in you there's a set there's a frequency in you that he's addicted to and he will never ever want anybody else now that's the way it roll that's the way it goes that's dating on purpose and I got to get on up out of here it's been a stone cold
20:21blast as always it is peace love and fear fear fear fear fear fear fear fear whoo that girl from a west side girl south side girl north side girl warning the following zippercruder radio spot you are about to hear is going to be filled with f words when you're hiring we at zippercruder know you can feel frustrated for Lauren even like your efforts are futile and you can spend a fortune trying to find fabulous people only to get flooded with candidates who are just fine fortunately zippercruder figured out how to fix all that and right now you can try zippercruder for free at zippercruder.com slash zip with zippercruder you can forget your frustrations because we find the right
21:24people for your roles fast which is our absolute favorite effort in fact four out of five employers who post on zippercruder get a quality candidate within the first day fantastic so whether you need to hire four forty or four hundred people get ready to meet first rate talent just go to zippercruder.com slash zip to try zippercruder for free don't forget that's zippercruder.com slash zip finally that zippercruder.com slash zip warning the following zippercruder radio spot you are about to hear is going to be filled with f words when you're hiring we at zippercruder know you can feel frustrated for Lauren even like your efforts are futile and you can spend a fortune trying to find fabulous people only to get flooded with candidates who are just fine fortunately zippercruder figured out how to fix all that and right now you can try zippercruder for free at zippercruder.com slash zip with zippercruder you can forget your frustrations because we find the right people for your roles fast which is our
22:27absolute favorite effort in fact four out of five employers who post on zippercruder get a quality candidate within the first day fantastic so whether you need to hire four 40 or 400 people get ready to meet first rate talent just go to zippercruder.com slash zip to try zippercruder for free don't forget that's zippercruder.com slash zip finally that's zippercruder.com slash zip
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