The Burden of Cause

Burden of Cause

What is the "burden of cause"?  

It is a term I use to describe believing you cause other people to treat you the way they treated you.  
When we are enmeshed this way, we will internalize people's behaviors as a reflection of some internal flaw or problem that we then must change. 

This leads us to believe that the other person will change, too, creating a potent fantasy that leaves us hurting, helpless, and confused.

Listen in this episode to learn how to detect if you're taking on this burden and how to shed it completely.

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