Stop Trying to Be Perfect | EP 40

This episode is for anyone building a business, a career, or a life that feels misaligned because external judgment keeps dictating their decisions. If you feel pulled between who you are and who you think you’re supposed to be, this business and entrepreneur podcast episode will hit close to home.

Phil breaks down a hard truth most people avoid. Worrying about what others think is one of the fastest ways to stall growth. The need for approval creates hesitation, watered-down ambition, and quiet resentment. According to Phil, people will judge you no matter what you do. Success does not silence critics. It often creates more of them.

Throughout the episode, Phil explains how fear of judgment is usually rooted in self-worth. When you value other people’s opinions more than your own, their words carry weight. When you know who you are and why you’re building, those same opinions lose their power. This shift is not about ego. It is about internal alignment.

Phil also addresses how past experiences like bullying, rejection, or trying to fit in can shape adult decision-making. Many entrepreneurs try to build something meaningful while still operating from old mental patterns. That internal conflict shows up as self-doubt, comparison, and constantly second-guessing progress.

This conversation is not about chasing status, money, or material success to prove something to others. Phil shares why he stepped away from trying to replicate what everyone else was doing and focused instead on clarity, purpose, and becoming comfortable being different. For him, real fulfillment came from understanding who he is, not who the world expected him to be.

The episode closes with an invitation to look inward. Growth starts when you stop outsourcing belief and start developing trust in yourself. That work changes how you lead, how you build, and how you show up in every area of life.

Key Takeaways

• Why caring too much about opinions quietly limits growth
• How self-worth shapes confidence, execution, and leadership
• The difference between external validation and internal alignment
• Why being different is required to build something meaningful
• How entrepreneurs sabotage themselves through comparison

This episode reflects Phil Bohol’s broader work around mindset, leadership, and identity. It is part of an ongoing conversation about building a life and business from the inside out, not from social pressure or approval.

Listen closely, reflect honestly, and consider where you are still letting other people write your story.

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