Relationship Ultimatums

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2:03from row.co. Start your day with us. This is the KidCradic morning show. Wake up with KidNation. All right, question for all our friends out there. Have you ever given an ultimatum in a relationship? And how did that go? Because we may need some intel. One of us is about to throw out a bunch of ultimatums. If you don't do this, then I'm out. And it could be, it could be polarizing. So Audrey, how's your weekend going to be? I am flying to Chicago Friday. Woohoo, that way. You're in DC. You're going to go see your man's out in Chicago. Yes. And I'm operating this weekend, kind of like my own reality show because that's pretty much exclusively all I watch. Question. Do you fly like do you buy your ticket or does he buy your ticket? No, I don't buy my ticket. He buys your ticket. Come on now.

3:03No, because I'm putting points down for Chicago like pros and cons. Okay, that's the list. So that's going to be a class. That's a pro. I'll add that to the ultimatum list. Okay. Listen, this story has been real up and down since we met. I will admit that. Like four months. I mean, when we first met, he was great, right? He swept me off my doctor's shoes. He was like really, really in it. Four months is a pivotal point. Three to four months. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And then he got real busy with work and I didn't like that. Okay, we don't like that. And I think as he got busier with work, his whole overall demeanor and attitude towards me changed. He settled in. He got too comfortable. Yes, is what I will say. I don't like the tone we've been using. And I told him that yesterday on the phone, the attitude, all that. I think he, it comes off on me, his work, his, he's bringing his work stress into your relationship. Yes. He turned into a dude with a dude.

4:07So at this point, my hands are at 10 and 2 on a detonator. And I'm treating this weekend like a reality show where at the very end, they decide whether to commit or go their separate ways. I think that's good, though. Like I think it's, I think it's good. This is a relationship that you started doing long distance, which is hard. And I've done long distance before. Also, it's a very tricky thing to navigate. But starting that as the start of your relationship, like I think it's good that you're going into a weekend in person together, knowing that you're going to have this conversation and decide what you want to do moving forward. However, by the way, 805433548 is our phone number. In case you want to get into this ultimatum conversation, however, if personally, I feel like if you're giving an ultimatum, you would want to do it on home turf. Not because you can go out and get back home. Not being on the visiting team. You're going up into his stadium and saying, hey, well, she got a round trip. Yeah. I've never been, well, I have been to Chicago when I visit him last time, but we never really went to the city and did things. So I'm trying to, you know,

5:08we're going to, here's what we're going to do. It's better weather, too. Yes. Sunday night, there is an opportunity to meet his family. Oh, I think Friday night and Saturday are going to be a real good test of whether the weather that is going to happen. Okay. And my flight home is Monday morning, I will be calling in to let you guys know exactly what happened, whether I did meet his family and whether we are still together. If you're going to renew for season two. If you're going to, if you're going to give him a final rose. Yes, because I'm aware of how much women have to offer in general. And I think I, you know what, I'm an Aston Martin and he's acting like he's driving a taxi cab. That's what I feel like right now. I'm like, you got to just up the level you're dealing with. I'm a princess. Give me some ultimatums you're giving. Mr. Chicago. Fix that tone. Okay. That ringtone. You need to read. Be obsessed with me. Yeah. Always. Yeah. Blow my phone up more. You want to be called more often. Better, better communication,

6:10it sounds like. Yeah, better communication, because I hardly hear from him now. How often should us guys be calling our lady? If you're doing a long distance, you got a communication is key. Like every day hours. That's all you got. Well, no, but I mean, but there's, there's ways to communicate when you're doing long. Like if you can't talk on the phone, at least send a text hail call you later. Well, do you remember when you first started dating someone and you would just text them? Good morning, love. Good morning, beauty. And like when you just started the relationship now, if you get those, those are rare. I think at least some communication, it doesn't have to be necessarily a huge conversation, but at least a text every day. Good morning, right? Yeah. Yeah. Do you remember you all when I was trying to find that receipt from him and I had to scroll, scroll, scroll to find one from yesterday? Yeah. Because he was texting me so much. Okay, I think the bigger question is what does Big Al think needs to change? Because he's the one that has had the biggest problem with this relationship. He's very anti-Chicago. I really am. What's your reasoning? Where did it start? I don't know. It's first of all, it seemed like he was kind of taking advantage of our little archery. How? So she got a free watch out of it. He

7:12took him in that. How did we take advantage? I didn't know he had a place to stay. He's coming in a town. Yeah. It says he stayed at her house. He has such places to stay. Apparently not because he stayed. What would hurt you? She uses to stay with her. He has other places to stay. Right. And Audrey's mad because he's not texting her enough. Imagine him coming here and not staying with her. Well, that does get a little bit much. Well, okay, there's a fine line. I'm a little aware of how I sound around now. So I'm just going to stop. Text me a lot every day, but don't stay at my place. No, you can stay at my place. She's not like too much. Why is there all day watch? She's at work. I don't work. He's kind of. It's got a little bit of wrong with Audrey going into it. How are you feeling? Um, I think I'm overall in a very weird mental state right now dealing with a lot of things. And I think this is one of those things where I like either need. Comfort with or to let it go or closure. Okay. So the ultimatum will be handed out. We'll find out on Monday morning from Audrey out there in Chicago. Audrey, I love you and I support whatever you do. Thank you.

8:13Esther has been there before. Audrey, hi, Esther. Good morning. Hi, guys. Hi. So you've given out ultimatums in the past and relationships? Uh, well, actually currently, um, it's just me and my husband. It's more of a like I kind of always been kind of like a stay at home mom. Um, you know, I've gotten blessed to have the opportunity, but you know, having the two under two, you kind of need that little get back to your own space. I told them I said either you want to stay at home mom, you get lunch every day, you get breakfast, lunch dinner type thing or I go to work and you kind of have to wake up and do that yourself. Like it's, you know, some days I'll probably like if I'm like waking up early, not getting crazy in the morning, like, yes, with the kids, but, you know, he had to choose like either my sanity or you get food. Okay. What did he choose? I can't have both. Well, you know, I personally wanted to go back to work, so I'm working now. Yeah. So no lunch for him,

9:20no lunch for him. Okay. He can figure it out. Yeah. He's a grown man. Yeah. I mean, I mean, obviously, like we do some meal prep, but like I'm putting my like breakfast. He works in construction. So like, obviously, you know, the whole Mexican, you know, like traditional, right, right. That's going to be out because we got a working woman. I'm sorry. Yes, ma'am, busy woman. Yeah, she busy. She back at work. Esther, thank you for your call. And that intel from the text. This is interesting, right here. Roger wrote us and said, my girlfriend had cheated in the past. So I guess in other relationships, she wanted to leave overnight to stay with a, quote, friend. I told, I asked her to please stay. I said, if she leaves, she shouldn't come back. That was my ultimatum. She left. There you go. She stayed overnight update. We're still together, by the way. So it did work out. Wait, what? You went back on your ultimatum, Roger? Yeah. Empty threat. Yeah. If you might have checked, you better be able to cash it. You know, you say something. It's still ultimatum if it doesn't work.

10:23I mean, you're together, but she did what she wanted anyway, and you accepted it. I don't understand that. Sometimes we're just joking. I remember the ultimatum. I gave my ex. I said, give me a hundred dollars where I'm breaking up with you. And so I got a hundred dollars and it's your ex. And you still broke up with him. I'm going to work on a punchline with that joke. Oh, that was a joke. It never happened. Oh, you are a liar. You better stop lying, or else. Have you ever given ultimatums? Yes. My ultimatum was with every girl girl I dated going back to high school when I get I've been with my wife since college. But my ultimatum was, I will not date you. I will not be with you if you smoke cigarettes. Oh, there you go. And back, like a lot of girls for some reason back then were smoking cigarettes. And yeah, they're trying to look cool. And some of them did challenge me on it. And I literally broke up with them and didn't date them again. I wouldn't I want to go back. That was my ultimatum. I stood on bed. I stood on bed. I had a girl say you let me out right now. She's riding the car with me. You let me out right now.

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