Predators & Protecting Kids with Former Special Agent Christopher Duff

A smooth DM from “Johnny” can feel like harmless attention until the mask slips. Former special agent Chris Duff joins us to unpack how grooming actually works in the apps and games kids use every day, what law enforcement ran into during the early internet years, and how a shift from arrests to education can protect families. Chris helped stand up one of the first high‑tech crime units and later drafted online solicitation laws. Not only did he see the entire evolution, he was part of the foundation of creating it. 

We walk through the playbook predators use: leveraging mutual friends, mirroring interests, and building trust before escalating to explicit demands. Chris explains why kids stay silent over fear of losing their phones, and gives parents a script that keeps the door open. We outline practical, non-negotiable boundaries that cut risk fast like no phones in bedrooms at night, devices charging in the parents’ room, open doors during screen time, and immediate review if a child hides their screen. You’ll also learn how to use iPhone Screen Time to restrict unknown contacts, block app installs, and audit communication inside “safe” apps that quietly enable chat.

Chris shares what grooming, cyberbullying, sextortion looks like from the perspective of a parent and a law enforcement officer. Predators go where kids are, not where parents assume. Learn the terrain, set calm rules, and make home the safest place to tell the truth.

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