Paradise Vibes, Zero Filter

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2:00And this is Freddie Rodriguez. And we're back. Those are megal season two babies. Last time we went deep on our careers, our lives, our art, and everything in between. Our big breaks, our auditions, then your misses, the epiphanies, the moments to change our lives forever. This season, we're deepening our relationships, creating collaborations, and the door always stays open for a third amigo to pull up a chair. Listen to those amigos on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts. Miss Spelling with Tori Spelling and iHeartRadio Podcast. Welcome to Miss Spelling, a Bahama style. We're at Bahama. OMG, what's my other podcast? But OMG! You guys, it is so amazing here. I mean, don't get jealous,

3:00because I'm going to walk you through it. And this could be your next vacation. I am here with my producers and co-host Ruthanne and Heather, who is never on pod with me. No, but things behind the scenes. I love her and she's here too. And we got Shelby and Eastern in the house. Wait, so Bahama has a podcast studio. So, I could kind of move here, because I had two podcasts. I can do my work here, better than zoom in and working from home. It's kind of a vibe in here. No? Like I love the colors. I'm loving to fall. Everything about it. I love the apparel Spritz sitting in front of me. Honestly. Oh, we do. We have apparel Spritz. Just me and Ruthanne. We are on vacation. Kind of. We are. So, right before we start this podcast,

4:01Ruthanne, we walk by the pool, which is one of six pools. Is that correct? There's a lot going on here. Okay, so just so you know, it has three resorts in one. They are the umbrella. But there's the Grand Hyatt. There's SLS. And there's Rosewood. So, depends on what your vibe is, but you have three choices. Now, you get, here's the thing. You can be on vacation. And you get your steps in. I'm telling ya. You walk, but you're everywhere. You look so beautiful. Everyone is so kind. And there's so much to do that you're excited to walk. Actually, I'm a walker. And I'm like, I'm on it. Literally, the studio that we're in is right by the ocean. Like we walked into the door and it's like the ocean's right there. I know. It's not caked by the ocean, but it's studio by the ocean. Oh, wow.

5:02Yeah. Here we are. Oh, my goodness. Wait. I need one sip. Oh. I was saying as we're walking by one of the pools to get to our podcast studio, Ruth Ann saw someone sitting out and they were having a drink and a pineapple. And it felt like you were a vacation newbie. You're like, oh, oh, I need one of those. Well, I do feel that when you're in a tropical paradise, such as by hot heart, you in LA, close your eyes. You need to indulge in either drinking out of a coconut or a pineapple. And I have seen a lot of drinking out of coconuts, but I got to say, I haven't seen a lot of drinking out of pineapples in my tropical experiences. So I got excited. I think it's a vibe. She doesn't get around. Wow. Wow. Here's the thing. I feel like the pineapple is heavy. Yeah. It's spiky.

6:02And by the way, they're big pineapples. They're not like little pineapples. They're like, like a jar. Yeah. Like a jar. Like a, like a, like a, like a, a juice, apparatus. It's bigger, better. No. Anyway. Anyway. Anyway. I just ate this away. Well, I was wondering, Tori, just like, how you're feeling overall, not only just being here, like we've been talking right on your plot about being a fresh star. All of that. So, how are you feeling right now when it comes to the progress that you've been making in these last couple of weeks? Well, you know me, I always say, I'm an open book. It does feel nice to be able to not, in life, be able to speak about what's going on. Um, because I'm seeing the connection, like, seeing the connection like,

7:02seeing the connection, reading the connection, feeling the connection of everyone being like, oh my gosh, I've gone through this. And I know what it's like. And it's, it's really, it's not isolating. So, it's been really great talking about everything, health journey, and just wanting to kind of clean it up, internally and externally, in my life. Um, do you feel like a weight that you've been lifted off of your shoulders a little bit now that you've been kind of just so, like, this is what it is. It's also, you know, one of the next steps has to be get implants out. They're so heavy. Oh, plants are so heavy. They're weighing me down. I don't know why I went there. It was in my brain, so I said it. I thought you were talking about, like, implants in your sinuses or something that you've had about them now. No, no, but I really do think that's interesting, um, that as you're kind of clearing your mind,

8:02you're like, I also need to release some of this weight that I'm carrying around everything. Yeah. Wow. Yeah. So is that something that you've looked into? Um, are you, are you feeling, you say the weight of it? Are you feeling any symptoms? Because obviously we hear a lot now about breast implant illness. And so, so, yeah. So, bunny was just on my podcast. Yeah. And she was talking, and she, yeah, she took me down the wormhole, uh, the boobhole, and it was like, she got hers out and she was like, there's an actual thing, you know, and she was like, some people don't believe in it. But I've kind of dabbled in learning about it, hearing about it, researching it for years, because I got my first set of implants at 19. So, I don't know life without them, but I do have a lot of immune issues,

9:02and I don't know. This is all actually me thought about it. This is making a lot of sense. Really? And I kind of want, if you don't mind, if this is too personal, we can always cut this out. No, really, they really, are they silicone or saline? Uh, silicon. Silicone. Okay. And they really wreck havoc on my wardrobe. Okay. I said that for you. I have a fashion in your neck. Oh, my God. With your. So, look at me right now, and you guys can't see me over social clips. Um, Heather, look how I'm I've gotten to that habit, but I'm telling you is this is so heavy. Yeah. Well, let me ask you this. You said you got sitting forward and I am hunched over. And it's not because uh, posture always been a thing, but honestly, like my next four, I have neck pain 24, seven, back pain, but a side sleeper or a back sleeper, side sleeper, side sleeper, yeah.

10:02I'll do it. No, you're Ruthanne Bakes to Differ. I'm gonna show you the pictures I took. Here's the thing. Oh my gosh, Bahamar, I love you guys so much. Like, I'm here working, but I'm on vacation. The most beautiful suite. Yeah, Bahamar, but we are at the Grand Hyatt portion and it is so lovely. We have an amazing ocean view and we checked in, not expecting anything. We literally were kind of like happy to be here with sleeping attend. Yeah, one of those things. Yes, well, I would. I've never been in his tent. I've never been camping. Ooh, that's an episode. I'm not shocked, but I'm shocked. You know, it's not too so sorry. True Beverly Hills, I was 14. I played it. You were camping in a movie.

11:04In a movie. It was fun. You were like eight. I was 14, but that's like me, the first. So I don't know. When I was in a relationship and they asked me if I had gone camping because they'd gone camping their whole life and I said, yeah, I went camping. When I was in Girl Scouts and they were like that, doesn't count. No, kind. I mean, I've seen every horror film where there's like tents and camping. So I feel like, well, my Girl Scout camping was on. I survived. Like the Orange County feargrounds. It wasn't like out in the woods. So they were like, yeah, that doesn't count. Can we go back though really quick? I have more breast implant questions. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. So side sleeper, sorry. Side sleeper. Side sleeper. So you said you got them at 19. Yes, the first. Yes, so this is my follow up. So how many times have you had them replaced since because so many women do not know that you are actually supposed to get your breast implants replaced every 10 years.

12:05And I have a follow up to tell you about that. Somebody that you know and their recent breast implant issues, but you tell me how many times have you had them replaced? To lease? No. Oh, somebody else. Okay. So had them done 19. I should never start on that journey, but they were saline at 19. It was literally my boyfriend at the time. Really thought I should do it. I got talked into it. I was on, no, no, I'm like, you know, you started to be like, oh, okay. Anywho, there was someone that you, oh, my gosh. Someone used to call me a ring and tang titties and it really fucked my life up like when you were 19. And got them done for the first time. Somebody used to say they have no recollection.

13:06So it's not a big deal. And you know what, we were young, but here's the thing. I have, I'm not going to say it right. And I'm so sorry you guys. Is it pectous intro? It's, I was born with a bone. So people always say in photos like, oh my God, look how messed up her boob and plants are. Look at that gaping hole. I was born with this at five years old. I had, I was like, oh, someone's like, oh, you have cleavage, I'm like, what's that? It was just it, my, I have a bone that sticks out on one side. So it causes like an indentation. So it doesn't matter if I natural boobs, real and plants, I'm always going to have that. It is genetic. And I'm assuming I have the children that have this bone thing. And I'm assuming having been going through the meeting with the doctor for the pre-consultation and things like that, that that probably came up.

14:07Could they have ever fixed it or did any of them ever offer to fix it or say that by getting implants, it would maybe shadow or change things differently. Bear in mind, I was 19. I remember at the time, I didn't want to tell my parents. Oh, Tori, you thought that they weren't going to notice you came home with boobs? Worse than that, I finally told them. My mom came over to see me and like, help me at my apartment because the boyfriend that would talk me into it was like out with his friends, we lived together. And he was like, I don't know, I'm out of here. I'm like, wait, who's going to take care of me? At the time, best friends with Alicia Silverstone and Carmen Electra, who both came over and were present for this. But I also had never told my mom about my tattoo. So I was laying there, all banded, job. And you know, you're not thinking straight

15:10on pink killers and she walked in to see, bring me food and see if I was okay. And then she looked down and she's like, is that tattoo? And I go, yeah, mom, you know how teenagers? Yeah, mom, you know, that's my tattoo, it's no big deal. And she was like, okay, okay. We never spoke again about it. It was like, okay, yeah, yeah. But anyway, at the time, the boyfriend that talked me into it and I had nice boobs. Looking back, I look at them, you know, because I rewatched myself weekly on 901 OMG. Love it, love it, love it, love it. I love her, we watch so much for doing that because I know that that's rough as an artist. Most, you're not traumatized. No, no, no. Most artists do not like to watch themselves back on camera and you guys do it every single week. A lot. For years, I, because of outward kind of digs

16:14at me from the press and from it was just a big thing that I couldn't watch myself and it was really hard. And I gotta say now rewatching it and doing that podcast, I really like it, like it's, I'm fine with it. I watch it and I'm like, oh, I like that girl. I can finally look at myself. And like myself, which, that's a hard one. It's been years in the making. Anyway, we're in season eight. Sorry, I have the new boobs. But, you know, the first few seasons when I watch our first two, I would say like, oh my, I look now and I was like, oh, they were good. I liked them anyway. I did have that whole though and I didn't have the fullest natural boobs. They were like, I would say big A small B. Okay. I make deal, great.

17:14But they did kind of, they were skinny. Okay, you know, like some people have wide feet, skinny feet, I'd skinny tits. And, oh my God, skinny tits. A brand in the making with that name. Bethany has everything skinny. I'm sure she's trademarked that one, so it's like, anyway, yeah, so I got in my head because someone always would be like, oh, yeah, when you lean over to get dressed, you're gorgeous. It's like, ring and tang titties. And I'm like, what? I look down and I look on and see my ring and tangs like, oh, when they lean over it, valid. So anyway. So, so my other question was 19. Oh, did you get them done again? Yes, how old are you? Sorry, I haven't gotten it. Now, much in the last two months with my health issues, I'm super excited. The boyfriend at the time, his best friend, his best friend's girlfriend, was a stripper.

18:17And I didn't want to ask anyone. So she was like, I have the best doctor. Yeah. So I went to her doctor first time, you guys at the time, Beverly Hills girl, like, and she was like, your choice of surgeons. But if only we had the internet, but then right at the time, I'll give you a pass on that one. It was like in Pasadena. Okay. To me, that was like driving like out of the country. Yeah, it was so far. I was like, I don't know where that is, but it's far Pasadena. Like, you know, beautiful, high end. It wasn't a stripper, though. Oh, yeah. That's kind of telling. Well, not when you're young. Well, listen, you obviously saw the finished product on this girl, and you liked what you saw, right? That's the thing. Hers were crazy. So of course, if I see somebody, I would Tory, and you're going to the can go wrong, Will.

19:17Well, that's not anymore. This is the new me, the new fresh start. Fresh start. Everything will go right. Yes. So anyway, got him redone at 26. That's kind of early, early from 19 to 26. That's less than 10 years. Oh my gosh. What was the decision to get them redone at 26? They were so hard, and it was uncomfortable. And I just remember people being like, is there something wrong with them? Is it a leak? By then, of course, my mom knew, and she was like, yeah, she got them done in some random place. Yeah. So I remember at the time you're talking to my parents, a doctor, and he was also heft's doctor for all the girls.

20:18Yes, yeah. So he got involved, and he was like, oh my God. Okay, we're going to get her someone great. And it was a Saturday night. I was at the manor with my parents. We just screened a movie. I know this isn't normal. I'm super ashamed, but not really. Wait, there's nothing to be, there's literally nothing to be ashamed about. I know. There isn't. It's plastic surgery. It's 2026. No, she's ashamed about the move. My parents are wealthy. Oh, I'm not ashamed about talking about it. I'm not ashamed about it. She'll take a bad word. I'm super ashamed, I had no control of it, but I was born into Hollywood and wealthy parents. Yeah, that's all. Yeah, and there's that. So anyway, I know this isn't normal. Look at me. But anyway, he was like made a call, and he was like, hey, get in the car. Going to playboy mansion. My parents lived five minutes away.

21:20So on a Saturday night, it was like me. What the fuck? No, it was me, my mother, our family doctor. And we go and we, yeah, went to the mansion which they do movie screenings too. And I think they were doing it. And there was movies. Yeah, there was one bunny recovering upstairs because she had just had hers. And she had okayed it. It was like one of the big ones, I don't know. She had okayed it for me to go up there and take a look at the merchandise and touch them. Oh my God, nice. I see this. Yes. I just did. Oh my God. And Doug, there's nowhere I wouldn't go to help someone customize and save on car insurance with Liberty Mutual. Even if it means sitting front row at a comedy show.

22:22Hey, everyone, check out this guy and his bird. What is this, your first date? Oh, no, we help people customize and save on car insurance with Liberty Mutual together. We're married. Need a human, him to a bird. Yeah, the bird looks out of your league anyways. Only pay for what you need at Liberty Mutual.com. Liberty, Liberty, Liberty, Liberty, Liberty. The more you listen to your kids, the closer you'll be. So we asked kids, what do you want your parents to hear? I feel sometimes that I'm now listened to. I would just want you to listen to me more often and evaluate situations with me and lead me towards success. Listening is a form of love. Find resources to help you support your kids and their emotional well-being. It's sound it out together.org. That's sound it out together.org. Brought to you by the Ad Council on Pivotal. I went and sat on the little ottoman in front of him. I said, hi, dad. And just when I said that, my mom comes out of the kitchen. She says, I have cookies and milk.

23:24This is bad-ass convict, right? Just finish five years. I'm going to have cookies and milk and milk and milk. Yeah. On the Senior Show podcast, each episode invites you into a raw, unfiltered conversations about recovery, resilience, and redemption. On a recent episode, I sit down with actor, cultural icon Danny Trail, talk about addiction, transformation and the power of second chances. The entire season, too, is now available to binge, featuring powerful conversations, the guests like Tiffany Addish, Johnny Knoxville, and more. I'm an alcoholist. And without this truth, I'm a die. Open your free I-Hard Radio App, search the Seedle Show, and listen now. Hey, ambitious, well-intentioned barotias and wealthy mother looks like in the black community. This woman's history month, the podcast, Keebe Paz's Sweetie, celebrates the power of women choosing healing, purpose, and faith.

24:24Even when life gets messy. Love is not a destination. You have to work on it every day. Keebe Paz's Sweetie creates space for honest conversations on self-worth, love, growth, and navigating life with grace and grade, led by women who have lived, inspire, and tell the truth out loud. I have several conversations with God, and I know why it's at 20 years. To hear this in more, listen to Keebe Paz's Sweetie on the I-Hard Radio App, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. So, okay, so second time getting them, another follow-up question. Do you automatically have to go bigger because of this is gonna sound very, maybe grotesque, but stretching of skin. Right, yes. There was the question of over-the-muscle versus under-the-muscle. Yes, what do you do?

25:24Because of my picturesque vartus, what is it? My pescatarian bonage. Is Karen Naidem? Are Naidem? No, it's the other one, there's two. Okay. You're like, we're not excavating here. Escobar? No. So Pablo Escovedom. No. Oh, I have to give the crowd, I'm sorry. So stop, stop. And yeah, so that did come up. And it's gone back and forth because I feel like I've had him done three times now. But wait, before you tell me, did you go over the muscle or under the muscle? That's the thing, back and forth. I don't remember now. Oh, okay, okay. I feel like, I feel like it was over the first time

26:29because the doctor said he couldn't do it under because second time he was like, that's not true. And I will say as an avid plastic surgery show watcher and nobody cares. I mean, I've had cosmetic surgery and I also like to see good work done when I see it on red carpets and things. But I think that the go-to is under the muscle. If you can, I feel like those told I couldn't. But it makes sense, though, that the second time you would have it. Over the muscle makes sense that they were really protruding, rippling, that was a thing. It was the ripple effect. Butterfly effect, great, not ripple. I like that. It's a protein drink. I'm gonna have two sips. I'm such, you guys, two sips. They're witness here. How many are I had? And I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa.

27:31The doctor, second time, did it. Oh, amazing. I think he's still huge. So like the nicest teddy bear of a guy, young guy, and he was just so kind, explained so much. But I remember my family doctor was in the surgery room just to make sure everything was, he was like, you know, I don't want Aaron to get mad. Like, I'm following through. I'm gonna be here. When you went under for that procedure, did you know what size you were going under for? Or was it kind of a, once you go under, you doctor can figure it out for me kind of situation. What do you think, Heather? It sounds like you didn't know what size you were going in for. So here's the thing. They give you them an office to hold. You're like, I'm getting the teddy bear gummies. No, like gum drops, like tear drops. That's what you hear a lot. Yeah.

28:31But yeah, the tear drops, you can touch them. And you're like, oh, this is good. This feels good. This is those types of things. And they tell you this kind can ripple, this kind won't. Anyway, they go by CCs. So I feel like they were like talking, you know, you're going to be like 350 CCs. But what does that mean to? Well, usually they're able to say that'll contribute to a full C or a small D. Usually they're able as doctors to tell you that. And they also should tell you that both breasts usually don't get the same amount. Like you're not even on both sides. What? Where were you when I went in watching TV, right? Damn it! Someone! Well, first of all, what year was this? Yeah, it sounds like what year was this? The 90s still, if you're 26. I was 26. OK, so I don't feel like the general public

29:34was as knowledgeable as they are now. No, of course not. So even know what to ask, unfortunately. 26, 25. And if you're Tory, you don't ask any. Oh, right. And I know, as I got them done, and this gaping hole, as trolls have called it online, my Pablo Escavades. It is, it was filled in at first. But here's the thing with plastic surgery, or even if you go and get filler, or micro-needling, everything is puffed up and filled down. Looks great at first. And then swelling goes down. The swelling was like on point. I had, it looked like just a line. A perfect cleavage. I was like, oh my god, there's no hole in between my boobies. It was so good. And I'm picturing, so you guys know I'm visual in my head.

30:37I remember right after I got done, I had red hair. I went to a fox party. And oh my god. I think, no. That was a different one. It's when Ryan's super assessed me out. No, that was a different year. OK, me, this is party five was on Melrose Place. I was in a car with Heather Locklayer, who's the kindest ever, loved her. And that's where I got some Tommy Lee info that I can never unheared the story. What a tease, Tori. Can I tell this story? So in the limo, after, and my boobs, I can pull up the photo. They look so perfect, low cut. They were swollen still, cleavage, perfect. And then once it, you know, once went by,

31:39I had my still bone plate thing. It came back and it doesn't go away. Anyway, those boobies stayed for a good, well, not 20 years. Oh, OK, so in the car, I've so many things to tell you. We should do a whole episode on my boobs, because I have so many incarnations. Well, if we're going to release the celebrity story, if we're going to follow through on this, if this is something that you really are considering, we should definitely do a boob dedicated episode. You shouldn't go to a movie surgeon. Maybe we talked to a proper surgeon. Yeah, maybe we talked to somebody else who just, you know, got their implants out. She's been on the pod before, but who I was going to bring up was Brandy Glanville. She just had her breast implants right two weeks ago. And she found out that one of them had ruptured. And she is now saying that this was the cause she thinks of the parasite stuff that was in her face.

32:43She's making that connection. And, you know, we are wishing her a speedy recovery, obviously, but it's crazy. She never got her breast implants replaced and she had them for 20 years. Well, yeah, so did I. Well, I've done redone again when I was 25, not 26, I believe. Yeah, 26, 9 or 20, so this was earlier. So maybe, oh gosh, I'll have to look it up. But then redone, 2021, and they were expired and outdated, no, recall, recall, lemons. Joke, please. Yeah. Yeah, they, so anyway, the doctor who was lovely,

33:44my mom decided I should date him. Did you? So I recovered at my parents' house in my childhood room at the manor childhood. I moved there at 16 from my old house. I love to tell people that so they don't think I grew up there. But my room there, I was recovering all wrapped up and no one does this anymore, I don't think. But she was like, oh, doc, doctor, gonna come over just to check on you. In my brain, I'm like, oh my God, that's so nice. I'm not worthy. But I'm like, it was just like, no, no, no, no, no, it's happening and I was like, great. And then she's like, and I invited him to stay for dinner. I go, what? So I'm in bed. The chef had made me food. It was a drains. Do you have drains during this? All the things. All the things, yeah. All the things, I had a tray in bed that the chef had made me dinner.

34:46So I didn't know what to say. So I said, okay. And so he came and like, he had a tray, but he sat like, you know, of course it's the spelling. So my room, huge. So I'm in bed. So he's in bed with me across the room. There's a table and chairs and a couch area. So he's not like, he's over there with his tray. And then I'm just in my head, combusting. Cause I'm too nice to say anything. I'm super shy at the time. I'm, you know, on painkillers and recovering from a boob job. And my doctor is there. And I would, my mom's thinking, he's young. He's Jewish. He's successful. This is great. When he said, awkward. When you said your mom invited him to stay for dinner, I thought that meant with your parents in a nice room. Totally. I was in bed with dreams like laying there.

35:48It was like two days later. Oh my goodness. Yeah, to come check on me. I couldn't move. Oh my God. Yes. That's awful. I'm sorry. So long story short. Sorry, sorry if I said backwards. She didn't tell me a date. She said, doctor, I'm just coming. Oh, and he's going to say for dinner and I, okay, okay. Later, they're all joking. They're like, we think he's great for you. Da-da-da-da. And I was like, oh, like go out with him. Date him. And that's when I was like, she thought it was great. And she had tried to set us up. And I was like, no, no, no, no. I was so embarrassed. Super great guy, like, but at the time, I was into like bad boy actors to my mother's credit. She was trying to. No. She had great intentions. Really great intentions. Brilliant. And Doug, there's nowhere I wouldn't go to help someone

36:48customize and save on car insurance with Liberty Mutual, even if it means sitting front row at a comedy show. Hey, everyone, check out this guy and his bird. What is this, your first date? Oh, no. We help people customize and save on car insurance with Liberty Mutual together. We're married. Meet a human, him to a bird. Yeah, the bird looks out of your league anyways. Only pay for what you need at Liberty Mutual.com. Liberty, Liberty, Liberty, Liberty, Liberty. The more you listen to your kids, the closer you'll be. So we asked kids, what do you want your parents to hear? I feel sometimes that I'm now listened to. I would just want you to listen to me more often and evaluate situations with me and lead me towards success. Listening is a form of love. Find resources to help you support your kids and their emotional well-being at sounditouttogether.org. That's sounditouttogether.org. Brought to you by the ad counsel, I'm Pivotal. I went and sat on the little ottoman in front of him. And I said, hi, dad.

37:48And just when I said that, my mom comes out of the kitchen. And she says, I have cookies and milk. This is bad-ass convict, right? Just finished five years. I'm going to have cookies and milk and milk. Yeah. On the Cino Show podcast, each episode invites you into a raw, unfiltered conversations about recovery, resilience, and redemption. On a recent episode, I sit down with actor, cultural icon Danny Trail talk about addiction, transformation, and the power of second chances. The entire season, too, is now available to binge, featuring powerful conversations, like Tiffany Addish, Johnny Knoxville, and more. I'm an alcoholist. And without this trouble, I'm a die. Open your free IHAR radio app, search the Cino Show. And listen now. Hey, ambitious, well-intentioned, barotias, and wealthy. Mother looks like in the black community. This woman's history month, the podcast,

38:50key deposit sweetie, celebrates the power of women choosing healing, purpose, and faith. Even when life gets messy. Love is not a destination. You have to work on it every day. Keep it positive, sweetie, create space for honest conversations on self-worth, love, growth, and navigating life with grace and grade, led by women who have lived, inspired, and tell the truth out loud. I have several conversations with God, and I know why it took 20 years. To hear these in more, listen to keep it positive, sweetie, on the IHAR radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. So after she tells me, I'm healing things, I keep getting calls. From his office, and all I put in is, you know, my phone went, you know, blackberry back then, I don't know, I kept getting calls, and I stopped, I didn't respond. And then even he reached out personally,

39:51and I'm thinking, oh my God, I don't know what to do, but I'm not into him, I'm just not into him. Like, and you're sure they weren't just calling for checkups, post-surgery? By the way, he and I, he and I connected, years later. And he was like, oh my God, we were calling to tell you, they were recalled. Oh my God. Oh my God. Tori, you can't send the doctor to voicemail. I never set one up on purpose, but it was like my answering machine, I would leave full, you know, you had answering machines. They were trying to call, that's why. Oh my God. He was probably, like, he's married with kids, we've laughed about this when we've talked, but he was probably like, yeah, okay, great, she's cute and everything, but like, ding, or life's in danger, I'm just trying to jump. Molly, you're in trouble girl.

40:52No. Yeah. Name it. Ghost, you guys. Sorry. We'll be goobers. Sorry. To me more, okay, never mind. Anyway, yeah. Well, I love that that is something that you're thinking and considering, because I think that overall health and wellness yeah, leads to a lot of other puzzle pieces in life starting to click into place. So I do think that that's worth looking into for sure. I agree. And you guys know, I'm like, I'm the last person. Like, it's my kids deal with them. Like, that's elective and, oh, it's your breath. You know, I'm like, I don't want to do that again. And, you know, I'm a single mom. Like, taking care of the kids, like, I'm going to have downtime and it's like, oh, my God. But taking care of you is taking care of the kids. Exactly. At the end of the day.

41:52If, but I have a butt here, you guys, it's on my bucket list. It's one of those things that I'm like, I will do this. But it shouldn't be bucket list. Only because, only because fashion is my passion. I've loved fashion forever. And everything that was, you know, in the 90s is back again. And I don't know. My boobs didn't wear clothes well. So I'm determined to wear a slip dress and look great. On top of that, you need to make them a priority. I know. And it'll be healthy. Because, right, to be healthy, to deal with your neck pain, your back pain, your shoulder pain, all of that, which then plays a role in your kids life. It's not a procedure I've had, but I think that getting removal is a quicker bounce back time than getting implants. Health is wealth, which is stealth.

42:55A hundred percent. Exactly. There you go. No, I've, here's the deal. I have asked the doctor that did me in 21. What if you take him out? And this doctor loved him. One friend went to him. He is huge on Instagram. Such a nice man. But yeah, I'm not sure I go back to him or maybe look into someone who, that's their genome. That's what you should do. Taking them out because of health reasons. So he did say, this may be also look into a female doctor. There's a lot of women breast doctors for this reason, I think. So just something to consider. And I will have skin and I will have to have what they call a lift, which always freak me out because I'm like, oh my God,

43:56I'm going to have the, what is it? Internal Meshura. Oh, I have that. Oh, okay. That don't work. The anchor scar can either be right, can be on the top and it can also be on the bottom. Why, after everything I've been through in life, that was the thing that was keeping me from doing it. Was the damn anchor scar? Well, at this point, at 52, I'm just like, oh, just get it done. I don't care anymore. I mean, can't do only fans, can't do playboy. I mean, you can do whatever you want. That's right. You can do whatever you want. Oh, Heather, we need to make a marriage during our matches. I think you said some kind of wonderful. It's, it's 1998. I know, it's 1989. You can do whatever you want. Do you remember that?

44:56Something like that. Oh, my God. I think that your health, my life, is about movie quotes and no one gets me. Nobody in this room gets the quotes. But I will say this. Tori, I know how determined you are when it comes to your work, when it comes to projects, when it comes to obviously being a mom. Yes. And I think that if this is something that's creating a roadblock to those things, it should be taken seriously and you should prioritize it. Yes. I agree. I think that's something to look into, for sure. Anything health-related needs to go to the top of the list. And that's always saying this. And use, I mean, have Brandy Glanville in your mind as a warning sign because she really did not look into that. And she's been trapped in her body for the last three years. I know. And that's rough. You don't want to be in feeling sick and going down

46:00and all that. You don't want to be stuck in a loop like that where the loop gets longer and longer and longer. You know what I mean? Tori, I know you're still there. I would just knit a really chic dress. My boobs won't look good unless I remove them. Sorry, Sarah, I'm not going to make jokes, yes. Tori, you're still on your health journey and dealing with your sinuses, immune system, and all of that. But you do have to think about all of these things are connected. They're all in the same body. And so if there's something amiss with one thing, it's probably impacting the other. And so it's important to address everything. Did you watch Real Housewives of Beverly Hills ever? Always. Member Yolanda. Da. She went through everything. She got the fillings removed from her teeth. Oh, from all of her teeth because of what she was going through. She had her implants removed. She did everything.

47:03That was hard to watch. She went through hell. Yeah. Oh, but she's feeling good now, I think. I know Bella had it, but Yolanda had Lyme as well. Yes. Was that that? OK. That's good. I don't think we're fillings. So I think me neither. We've never had a cavity. I've never had a cavity. Wow. What? I got my first cavity at 40. And only one. My dentist told me that people who get cavities, it's not like they depict from like eating candy and not brushing their teeth. It's actually people that are born genetically with softer teeth than others. And that's why they're prone to getting cavities. And they told me that the only way as a person with stronger teeth you can get cavities is actually by like kissing and exchanging saliva with somebody who has that softer side.

48:05What? That was what they said to my dentist, because I said, no cavities, I go every four months to get my teeth cleaned. I am very regimented with this. Of course you do. I do. Because my retainers won't fit if I'm not constantly getting my teeth cleaned. And so I was always so surprised that no cavities, no cavities. And he was like, you're never going to have cavities. Like at this point in your life, it's never going to happen because of the kind of genetics you have. Unless you make out with the wrong person. Unless you end up having a partner that has like this soft tissue and like you're exchanging saliva, dentists come for us if this is incorrect information. Have you ever had a cavity? One. When I was 40. Oh yeah, when you were 40. Okay. Were you kissing somebody that caused that to happen later in life? Oh wild. So 40. I was with my husband. Did Dean have cavities? He's good teeth, no.

49:06I mean, me, it really? I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I also was one of those kids. I don't think they do this anymore. But this, not fluoride. Yes. But they put the stuff on my back teeth that stays permanently. Do they, your mom, do they still do that? No. Okay. So maybe that's, maybe that contributed to not having cavities. I had that. And I have cavities. Oh my God. Maybe you're just predispositioned at the soft teeth. Maybe I just made out with a lot of people. Or have that. No. Oh yeah. This is what it's showing. Not with enough people in the day, like in the 90s, like I was Donna. Good girl. Like didn't sleep with people, but I was a kissing bandit. Oh yeah. That was my jam. Love that for you. Just kissing. Also, everybody around you was like very hot. So that's great. Yeah.

50:07Yeah. Yeah. But I'm saying, I can get cavities then. And I kiss like, like, laughter, boys. Adentists will leave us a comment about how safe this is. I'm going to be kissing somebody weakly. What do you mean? That was my job on your two-hour-and-a-tissed boys who, I don't know, Brian. Who else to do kiss regularly? Yeah. Text Brian if he's ever had a cavity right now. I mean, David and Donna had to kiss daily. That's what I'm saying. Yeah. But when you're doing TV kissing, are you doing tongue, or you're just doing open mouth? I thought tongue was like a no-no when acting, but some actors do it, but most actors do not. I'm a method actor. Oh, I like to make it real.

51:09Yeah. I mean, unless they just weren't cute and I was just like, ugh. Okay. So TV movie co-ed call girl, I played schoolgirl by day. Hooker by night. They don't say hooker anymore, lady of the night, evening. Sex worker. But that is the term that is used today. Okay. Well, it was the 90s. Okay. Okay. Fine. I also shot my pimp in the movie, but you don't call it that. What do you call it now? Sex worker employer. My employer. Where was the HR back then? So anyway, yeah, I had to kiss. It was a movie and it was about like she's this young girl, but there was all different types of men I had to make out with. And on purpose, some of them were just not, you know, it was supposed to be one of these

52:10jobs. She's in like Hollywood Boulevard at a motel with a man who was just like answered the door with like pizza and he's like in a tank top and he's like, oh, great, get in here. You know, so I had to kiss him, I'll stick my tongue in his mouth. Of course. Of course not. Okay. You probably saw that he's got back from Bahamas in Nassau, Bahamas. Not only was I able to lounge in a private cabana with a drink served in an actual pineapple, I was also able to record my podcast in their brand new podcast studio. I'm not telling you that to make you jealous. I just want you to have a chance to enjoy Bahamas too. Amazing restaurants, nightlife, the casino, beaches, a water park, spa, tennis and signature golf at Royal Blue. It's relaxation fun and luxury all in one place. And you're on getaway at bahamard.com.

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