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All right, I have a video on that very YouTube channel

where I talked about the truth behind narcissistic and ghosting

because I also put a YouTube short out recently

to promote that video because it's really important

to understand that I get comments, okay?

Every now and again, and people are still calling

the narcissist there, narcissistic,

and we got to unlearn that.

All right, you've got to stop saying my narcissist

because you don't own them.

It's just, but they say it.

They say it.

I know because it's catchy.

So we all have to unlearn that, okay?

They don't belong to us.

I did a whole podcast episode all about that for a reason.

And so what I want to talk about today is the fact

that these narcissists play the ghosting game.

They do not ghost permanently

because they will hoover.

Even if it's five, 10, 15 years later,

because they always want to peak, okay?

They always want to peak into our world

to see if there's any wiggle room,

to see if we might let them back in,

to see if we will take their bait.

And so this is why no contact is so crucial

for narcissistic abuse recovery and trauma healing

because when you realize that's a game that they're playing,

remember, narcissists think that life is a game.

And it's not a surprise

because when you take a look at the narcissistic matrix

out here and you see all these games, right?

Think about games shows on the tail of vision, all right?

And then you go to the store,

you see all these bored games, right?

Well, games are fine when you're a kid,

but we got to outgrow that stuff.

We're supposed to, I mean,

one Corinthians 13-11 is pretty clear

about putting away childish things.

Well, Jesus tells us that.

So when we learn that they think life is a game,

it makes better sense that they're playing a ghosting game

because they hoover.

So what does that look like?

Oh, they're going to do something y'all,

and you know what, that's what I'm talking about.

What it looks like is a narcissist will block you,

let's say, let's use Facebook as an example.

It's one of the most common ones.

A narcissist blocks you on Facebook.

Yeah, surprise, right?

Okay, there's a difference between

chosen one blocking and narcissist blocking, okay?

Because the blocking pretty much is ghosting.

Think about that for a second, right?

You're pretty much ghosting them when you block them.

And it's also no contact.

So the narcissist will block you on Facebook.

And let's say, let's use the number seven moons

goes by, and all of a sudden you notice

they unblocked you, and you're like, but what do they do?

They take in a peak because see,

in order to view your Facebook activity, right?

In order to do that, let's say as far as I know,

now I'm staying corrected if this is not the way it works

because I've noticed that when I try to go

to a Facebook page or something of a business or what have you,

I'm often prompted to have to log in.

So I see that part, but then as far as personal profiles

being able to see all the activity,

if I'm not mistaken, I believe you have to be connected somehow.

You have to be friend.

So you know, because if they block you first, right?

Right?

So what you want to do, this is for somebody right here.

If you noticed that the narcissist had unblocked you

on any social media site, that is your opportunity

to jump on in there and block them, okay?

You block them this time.

And that will take the opportunity away from them

to play the ghosting game.

But if you don't know that's what they're doing, okay?

Because that is what they're doing.

They will unblock you because they want to see what you're doing.

They want to see how you're doing.

Just like we got monitoring spirit that popped into our live streams

on YouTube from time to time because they want to see how I'm doing.

They want to see what I look like.

They want to see if what they tried to do to me worked and it didn't.

I'm not going through anything now in this season that I'm not familiar with.

I've already gone through all this.

And so we're just de-stressing the ANS once again and once and for all

as we become more aware of it and what's really going on because I learned

that what the Jezebel case study did to yours truly was she basically

bruised up my lymphatic system, meaning, yeah,

the our lymphatic system, y'all can look it up.

This ain't a secret.

But our lymphatic system is responsible for eliminating liquid garbage basically, okay?

So at that on the mend now, de-stressing the ANS is where we're at

and insert areas where lymphatic drainage got compromised.

So anyway, that aside, they become monitoring spirits at some point.

And they will block and unblock.

They will and chosen one don't do that.

See, we don't play the ghosting game.

Only a narcissist of that because there comes a time.

Well, now mind you, I understand, okay, listen, chosen one,

if you go through the season where you are curious, okay?

And so you block the narcissist and then you unblock because you're going through

that you have to understand, give it some time because I know chosen one.

There's been a few of you who have admitted that you were like, well, I just can't help it.

I have to see what they're up to.

That's what they want.

But there does come that day where you're like, okay, enough already.

I don't care anymore.

You know, because part of trauma healing and you got to, okay,

you got to get to that point where you stop caring and you don't want to peak

at their social media anymore.

And I will tell you the moment you do that, yes, okay?

Think it a whole lot better for you.

But they will play the ghosting game.

One of the narcissists has figured out that you stop caring about their stuff.

It's you're not peaking at their social media anymore.

Once they realize that, I don't know how they would have wouldn't know.

But my guess is that somehow somehow they might know.

So that being said, you got to remember that it's important to step in when they unblock

and go ahead and get them blocked if you have not done so first.

This is why when we realize that they are what they are and you go through that season

of radical acceptance and you realize that they're not going to change.

They don't want to.

They don't think they need to.

And so they will, right, they will.

Well, they'll create, well, I talk about narcissists and social media

on the YouTube channel as well.

So you have to be careful because they will create multiple accounts, okay?

So you've got to, yeah, so you've got to be mindful.

About friend requests and who's following you.

Be mindful who you follow back.

It took yours truly a little bit of time to learn this.

But I said, you know what?

I got to check profile.

I can't just be following everybody back and it follows me because I could tell you

some of them are monitoring spirits.

Why would I want to follow them, right?

Okay.

So I had to learn to check profiles and so we do.

If I'm, if I'm interested in following somebody back, I'm going to look at their profile.

If I'm not, I'm not going to look at their profile because they're coming to

point where you realize, okay, hold on a second.

Some people are just following, right, just to see what you're doing.

They're monitoring.

That's all they're doing.

And I love this season because chosen one, this is the season.

Let me give you some good news, okay?

Let me give you some good news here.

This is the season where monitoring spirits, all they can do is watch.

They get to that point.

All they can do is watch because anything that they try, okay?

As far as fiery darts, yeah, it's, it's so mundane, so stupid, it's so child.

It's so silly that you're like, okay, whatever, dude.

It gets to that point.

Glory be to God.

But now when it comes to blocking and ghosting, narcissists, they will play that ghosting

game.

And again, like I said in the beginning, even if it is like 10 years down the road,

if they keep you blocked for 10 years, wow, I guarantee you, somewhere within that

10 year period, they unblocked you a few times just to take a peek and you may not have

noticed, okay?

So that's the thing.

I do remember a fellow warrior sharing with me that a narcissist that he identified on

Facebook blocked him and I went, okay?

Yeah.

And so we'll see for how long because once they, yeah, once they do that at some point,

they're going to get curious and unblocked so they can take a peek.

And whatever did that fellow warrior said, okay, they blocked and then like a week

later, something like that, it wasn't too long.

They unblocked and then blocked again.

And I told him, I said, okay, next time they unblock you, I said, that's your cue,

right?

They'd step on in there and block them and that'll stop them from playing that game.

So that's why I gave that to y'all that if you see them do that because they're

apparently on Facebook, there's a way you can tell that you've been blocked and unblocked.

Okay?

If you try to go and make a comment on one of their posts, it'll tell you, right?

So there's that and their ghosting will never be permanent.

Whereas for chosen one, once we have decided that we're not curious about their stuff anymore,

we can't care because we know that especially on social media, they will put on the best show ever.

Oh my goodness.

Because it's so easy to pretend, right, especially on social media.

Another reason why God gives us that spiritual discernment because my goodness,

yeah, can you imagine?

Well, all right, we can reflect because we know before God awakened us that we didn't know

anything else at the time.

And so it was easy to believe that stuff, right?

Yeah.

And then we realized that narcissists make stuff up.

You know, I talk often how it is a make believe world out there.

It's why we learn that we co create our reality in God's reality.

There's plenty of room on this planet known as the world stage for us to get into our

purpose, plenty of room.

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I was alluding to earlier.

I've seen some, okay, say, my narcissist ghosted me and blah, blah, blah.

Okay, again, gotta stop calling them yours.

They don't belong to you.

You don't own the narcissist, okay?

So there's tip number one, write that down in your journal for whoever needs it.

I know it's a harsh truth, but you got to work on that.

So, and you replace the word, my with the, the, like, the, okay, or a,

narcissist ghosted you, okay, okay.

But just know that they won't do it forever.

But I do see those comments from time to time where a survivor tells us that the

narcissist ghosted them.

And then, right, it's trying to try to get back in their world.

So they un-ghosted, un-blah, and is cheating, obviously, once again,

if they let the narcissist back into their lives and the narcissist is cheating again.

Well, no surprise there.

No surprise, because that's what they do.

So that's why it's important for us to not let them back in.

See, that's a big part of why they were un-blah.

I like the word un-ghosted.

Yeah, I don't know, it's, it's, uh, okay.

But un-blah, okay, they won't do that.

They will un-blah.

And this is why that's your opportunity to go in and block them to stop them

from playing the ghosting game.

Because that is, well, yeah, is another part of trying to play head games also.

And so they do that so they can hoover as well.

I get a text message on the ministry phone from time to time.

And I know it's from the monitoring spirit.

Yeah, the Jezebel case study.

I know who is phone.

Because they send them every once in a while.

And she sent one with a picture of this little girl that she babysits from time to time.

I recognized it immediately.

And I knew that was her hoovering on the ministry phone, business phone, yeah.

From a different phone number because her primary phone number that I used to communicate

with her, uh, yeah, that, that primary number, I blocked it.

Obviously, so she had to text from a different number or spoof a number in text.

That's what they do.

That's what they do.

Okay.

And so keep that in mind.

All right, that they will not do that permanently though.

Because they can't help themselves.

I mean, after all, nurses just don't have impulse control.

And they are so nosy.

Okay, they are so nosy that they want to see what you up to.

Even if it's five years, I mean, it's crazy.

I was like, when you realize it's about nurses, I'm like, man,

I said, they really have nothing else better to do with their lives.

Apparently, they've gotten nothing better to do.

But to be all up and everybody else is beeswax.

Wanting to know this, that and the other?

We know they can't think for themselves.

We also know that they are demonically possessed.

Yeah, I've got a video on YouTube that is still, as far as I know, circulating around out there.

How I talk about how demonic possession is very real.

And well, after all, when you read the Bible and you see where Jesus

capted out many devils, oh, that's plural.

So there's more than one demon spirit.

And the demon spirits are the fallen angel.

I need to set the record straight here.

There are narratives going around on chick talk.

And I want y'all to be very mindful.

Because they're very good.

I believe at least one of them, I believe, a genuine.

I think he really believes what he's doing is a good thing.

And okay, but these fallen angels are demon spirits, y'all.

Fallen angels are not actual human beings.

And they're not public figures.

See, when you realize the world is a stage,

and that it is a spiritual battle for the mind we are in,

it's easier to understand that the demon spirits are every negative emotion.

Because emotions are spiritual energies, emotion.

Spiritual energy transfer.

Empathy is the conduit.

Not just don't have that.

Only chosen ones have empathy.

And well, maybe some who may not be, I don't know if there are the

in the middle.

But I'd like to think that there's somebody who may not be a chosen one,

but they're also not an narcissist.

Okay, they have empathy, I would think.

So I do believe that that's a possibility.

I'm still working out that salvation with the heavenly Father.

Because I don't really know.

I believe there are chosen ones who may never realize they were chosen one.

And so they fall in the middle there.

So I do because I have a family member who I believe was supposed to be doing some

ministering themselves, but never came to the knowledge and understanding that they are called

to do that. I don't think that they, I don't think they ever, I think they missed the call.

But it doesn't, right, but they're not a narcissist.

So yeah, so that's why I'm like that possibility.

And I believe that's how it happened is that they probably were a chosen one or meant to be

a chosen one, but they never answered the call.

They might not have heard.

I don't know, you know, God said many are called few are chosen.

All I know is that we did, we answered the call and chosen one, you know you answered the call.

So there's that.

But as far as the fallen angel thing going around out there, there are some people that are very

good with editing and that are using AI tools to, well, basically try and convince people that

these well-known public figures out here, okay, well, okay, a lot of the, y'all got to understand

the world is a stage. So there's a lot of them that are just playing a part, right, actors and

actresses after all that's what they do, acting, okay. So they're just playing a part.

And we do know that a lot of them fake their deaths, especially when they're tired of playing

that character and they want to play a new one. So that being said, there are silicone

man out here, there's all kinds of of of of, of, of, of, of holly weird props, right,

costumes and, and the like. So you have to keep that in mind. But there are some people who are taking

that kind of information and, and bringing the fallen angel theory into that, trying to say that

these fallen angels, I mean myself and many of you have seen the narcissist shape shifting.

So we know what it actually looks like.

Well, there's also a misleading theory out here about the fallen angel shapeshifting.

So well, because it is a spiritual battle, the fallen angel are not your public figures

out here.

Okay?

They are the demon spirits, which are all, I mean, every negative emotion out there.

So you can write those down and you'll have your list.

It's pretty, well, okay, when you think of one third fallen angels, but I'm going to

change these public figures or loving it.

They love the fact that a lot of people are believing and it is believable.

It is very believable, the way that they're presenting it as well.

So be mindful of that, all right, y'all, that fallen angels are not these well-known

public figures out here.

There's just a lot of make-believe stuff.

There's just a lot of...

I am...

Listen, when it comes to other public figures, I believe the cloning theory, much more so,

okay?

That well, because we know that that can be done.

And not only that, you have to remember that a lot of these, a lot of the stuff that we've

been told throughout history and everything, okay?

It's not a lot of it's made up.

And so yeah, a lot of these actors and actresses playing roles, but then you also have silicone

man.

So, yes, use your discernment, okay?

But again, the fallen angels are demon spirits and the demon spirits are every negative emotion

available, okay?

The narcissist project all of those negative emotions onto who member they can remember,

how we used to think we were feeling anxious, and then now we realize that wasn't coming

from God.

That wasn't coming from us.

That was coming from the narcissist.

So there's a little bit of amore for you there, but just remember, a narcissist do not

permanently host, okay?

They love to play that ghost in game.

So again, if you see that happening and they block you and that unblock you, that's your

opportunity to get in there and block them, just stop them from playing that ghost in

game.

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