Mother May I?

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This episode of Relationship Status: Uncomplicated unpacks the complicated and often misunderstood dynamics between a man and his mother — and how that bond can directly impact your relationship with him. While maternal closeness isn’t inherently negative, unchecked emotional entanglement can create invisible barriers to intimacy, autonomy, and emotional availability in romantic partnerships.

As someone who’s seen these dynamics play out in real time — and felt their ripple effects — I’m here to help you recognize the difference between a healthy bond and a codependent stronghold. Knowing your worth means refusing to compete for a man’s loyalty or emotional presence. And if you find yourself stuck in a triangle where his mother holds the reigns, it’s time to reassess your role in the relationship — and whether it’s really love or a lifelong audition for second place.