
About this episode
This week on Black Girls Bonding, we’re getting into the gritty but liberating truth: sometimes the call is coming from inside the house. 😅
Kianti opens up about a moment of real-time accountability after feeling left out by her friend group—only to realize, with a little nudge from her husband, that maybe she had a role in the dynamic too.
In this episode, we explore:
- Why it’s easier to feel like the victim than to investigate our part
- The subtle ways we sabotage connection (and how to shift)
- Reclaiming your power by owning your behavior
- And a lil pop culture joy via Beyoncé’s Homecoming and choosing pleasure now
This one’s tender, a little funny, and deeply empowering. Because when we stop blaming and start looking inward, we find the one thing we really needed: our power.
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