Maturity is Attractive

0:00Wake up wake up with good vibes and variety. Oh my god. That's brilliant. We got to do that. Sarah and Vinnie Alice 973 What's something that becomes attractive only after 25 now? This is about the changing Of your ways through your 20s as you start to settle down a little and you've except Bob hasn't at all In fact you left for when last week uh-huh you left for New York and I was like It's it is the storm of this they're talking about the storm of the century and bobs going into it Well to be fair. I didn't look at the weather Oh and to be fairer. I would have gone anyway. I know Yeah, I left straight here from here to the airport. It's so convenient. I love doing that I had so much fun Vinnie. I know. I'm telling the best. How long were you in New York? Friday till Tuesday morning And it didn't look like you were going to get out and get to the other part of your trip which was in Florida, right?

1:03Yes, the blizzard started on Sunday night and it was supposed to snow all day Monday and my flight was on Tuesday And I'm like it'll be fine. Yeah, it'll be perfectly fine But I get but Delta canceled my flight preemptively on Sunday and But and so then I quickly rescheduled one it cost me a fortune And then I ended up finding another Delta flight so it all worked out Oh, I so I still left on Tuesday. I thought you rented a car. No way. Okay. I don't know what you did No, I still got out. Oh, they did it. They did a tip top job taking care of the city It was I mean I went out in the middle of the day on Monday to get a coffee As you can see on my Instagram bob on the waves. I did some bob on the streets went through the thigh high snow to get to Yeah, but the sidewalks were great other than when you have to You know get from the sidewalk and you when you cross the street. Yes, that's where the snow kind of builds up But there were people out there shoveling You know all the maintenance people the salting. Yeah, Vinnie

2:04I have a question So as because the story is about What's something that become detractive only after 25 and it's about how things people start to slow down But you are not you party you were in New York you went to all the stuff you did all the party all the things Next thing you know, there's a post from you on the beach in Florida Yeah, I got a lot of down this girl nice you are you just trying to cram it all in before you're wetting Precisely. I'm trying to cram it all in before I have kids Is that right? Yeah, so you have like this is a change your making yes for sure I'm intentionally having as much fun as possible now is there any point or at any point do you think you'll say to yourself Why would I stop the fun Well, you know, it comes in waves it comes in waves. I hear you talking about the joy that is fatherhood There's joy, but I'm in my fifties There's joy, but yes, I'm in my fifties. I don't want to be in my fifties with young kids. I agree But I have completely embraced that like

3:07I'm a dad. This is what I'm doing with the back end of my life is dadding and I want to do it Except I'm gonna be a mom. I'm a girl right um unfortunately, but you but So I'm like, I want to make sure that I don't want to wait too long because I want to have the Post kids fun chapter that Sarah's in right now Well, I'm not gonna let my kids move home. That is crazy. You know what? Neither am I That is so crazy someone ask people what's something that becomes attractive only after 25 and here are some of the They describe amusing responses. Okay It's only attractive after 25 having no plans for the weekend. Oh, just looking at the weekend It is the best. That's absolutely what you want except that But not it's at you know what I actually feel like that's the wrong cutoff age I feel like 25 you are in the thick of it like that The right now 20 to 30 is like the happen in decade great. I think more like 35

4:10I told you this one's before I was in the grocery store I think I was waiting for a sandwich and this kid Waiting for a sandwich to makes a call to his buddy and he goes What's going on tonight? What are you guys doing and it was one of those conversations that I used to have all the time But I hadn't had in 30 years like the one where you're calling around to see where the parties are Yeah It's like listening to this guy going oh my god. It's been so long Since I called my buddies to say what's up for tonight? Yeah Because I know we're doing something Like I'm out looking for the best option. Yeah, because that's where I'm headed Calmness and kindness over drama and high-energy fun. These are things that become attractive after 25 they say here or we'll go 30 Yeah, I I do feel like you might appreciate those things more but I find that I've always Thought that that was attractive like I it's very unattractive if someone isn't kind or what was the other thing kind of calmness and kindness

5:16I've always liked calm kind people. I I think totally. I've definitely found myself though You know, you grow at different speeds than your peers sometimes and Sometimes I'll hear something my friends dealing with with another friend. I'll say I'm too old for that crap I'm way too old for that. They need to grow up. Well, it becomes the you know Are what are we in middle school right exactly like I hate when someone you can't tell this person that I'm doing this because then they'll know about I'm like I'm not gonna. I'm not in charge of keeping your life straight like I just don't want to do that anymore and and like that gets it just gets old Back to you then These are things that become attractive only it. We'll say 30 The story says 25, but I think 30 makes more sense. Yeah An air fryer

6:17Oh, if someone has an air fryer like oh, they're like 10% more attractive a high quality vacuum cleaner. Oh, yeah Although, why do I know that about them like why? I don't know So I'm looking for a partner and I'm inventorying his or her Kind of losing me with that stuff. I don't think that that's I was thinking secure job house good income Like you know things that health insurance That kind of thing did you do anything on your trip Be it Florida or New York where you were like that was It was all worth it because we did that one thing It was all it was just quintessential a perfect trip the whole thing the whole thing was perfect Where did you stay in New York? I stayed with one of my roommates from college Megan She lives on the upper east side who works in publishing oh so cool She's really living out her New York dreams and she's in yeah, it's really awesome

7:20Um, and we went to see she does a lot of Broadway Her friend groups very into that and so we went to see Mulan Rouge. Oh With Bob the drag queen was was playing in it. They were on traders. I think that um Megan these down. I know to play the transgender role. Yes, that role that Bob's in right now on Broadway Mulan Rouge. Yes, and I think Mulan Rouge is even closing this year too Oh, but I just loved it. They take a lot of pop music and integrate it into the story And I've seen the movie but the movie now is probably like 20 years old So it was cool to hear what they updated and they did a mashup of a Lord song and a fun song. We are young And they was just I was just was like this is made for me. This is right where I'm supposed to be right now snowing outside is your friend who's in New York living her New York city dream is she from New York? No, no And so she just wanted to go live in the city and experience that whole thing

8:21That's how most people get there and does she is she loving it? She really is oh yeah, oh yeah, so many uh, I went to dinner My wife had a coworker in New York. We'd gone there to because she was gonna run the marathon and then a storm ruined everything But she we met up with her friend for dinner and her friend was like New York For someone trying to date Is the like ever you'll hear everyone go. Oh, it's terrible here There's no place worse than New York according to this lady. She was like these guys know There is a new single chick around the corner Anytime you say something to them about anything they just go I want to break up Yes and bail and that she's like I can't believe I can't you cannot burden them with anything or they split and I was like wow The single guys in New York are living the life They just trade in for a new model anytime someone says a peep to them. I'm gonna go meet the bus from Iowa

9:27See if there's any yeah, I said honey's like oh my gosh. Yeah, Megan has not had any dating luck. Oh, she also is experiencing the Yeah, the New York problem. Yeah, hey Bay area good morning coffee. Please wake up with Sarah and Vinnie Every morning on Alice 973