Love Letters To Kellie – Wedding Guests

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1:00New customer offer for first three months only then full price plan options available. Taxes and fees extra. See Mintmobile for details. Petty Monday. Reminds can be sweet and funny. Yeah, if you got some Petty Monday action, give us a call at 800-543-3548. We're looking for funny Petty. Got one that came in early on the text. Here's an example for you. I set up the coffee pot every evening to be on auto brew in the morning. So when my husband gets up, he gets a nice little cup of coffee to get his day started. Well, we got an argument. I was upset with him. So I set the coffee pot up, but I didn't put any coffee grounds in it. So that when he wakes up, he just gets a nice, great, big ol' glass of hot water. Hashtag Petty Monday. That's the Petty we're looking for. We'll get to your calls here shortly. In the meantime, let's go ahead and get you some love advice from our love expert, Kelly Razberry. By the way, speaking of love advice, vacation with each other. Great for relationships. We got the Florida family fly away. We're going to call out the first three names in about an hour and 20 minutes if you signed up. If you haven't signed up, go do it. Kidnation.com. We're going to

2:03be doing it every day around 740 Central calling out those names for you to win a vacation. Thanks for our friends at Visit Florida. But, Kelly, are you ready? I am. Let's do it. Love letters. Love letters to Kelly. Dear Kelly, you're the love expert. I am. I'm 22 years old and recently engaged. My fiance is 24 and we have been dating for almost two years, been on each other for four. Recently, we started just collecting general numbers as to how many people we will invite to our wedding because it'll be a mixed culture wedding. I'm white. He is Vietnamese. Back story. My dad's side of the family, we do not speak to and we have not for years. They never tell my brother and I happy birthday. Merry Christmas. They weren't they were my brother graduated and it's been like this for years. So when it came to talking about who would come to my wedding, my mom mentioned someone on my dad's side and I said no. My dad started screaming at me, telling me that since he's paying for it, he gets to invite who he wants. And while screaming at me, he basically saying that he wanted me to invite them as a, well, we extended the offer and we tried. I said they could be invited, but I wouldn't speak to them. And they would not be invited to anything else, wedding related. He said, okay, but then he started yelling and screaming at me and bringing up things that happened over eight years ago. I walked out, blocked my dad and

3:06have not talked to him since. My question to you is, how is this something that I can move on from and accept? I did tell my parents that if it's a money game, that's going to be tossed around, we'll have a wedding without my side of the family and they just won't be involved. But my parents and I are not really that close. We don't really speak and see to each other except for during the holidays, even though we live one hour away from each other. Please help and that's from Kaylee. Well, if you're, you know, regardless of family dynamics, I believe if your dad is paying for the wedding, he is allowed to have a certain amount of people there that he wants. You know, I had people at my wedding, my first wedding that I didn't know who they were because I allowed my in-laws to invite some of their friends and family so they would feel comfortable there. They don't know all my people. So if you really want to show that you're grown up and you're mature, pay for your own wedding. I didn't, I mean, you don't have to have a $30,000 wedding. People do it, but you could have a really nice ceremony. You just as married as everybody else by going to the justice of the piece or having a friend marry you in the backyard. You know, you don't have to, I mean, but I know

4:10we all want our fairy tale weddings go into debt over it. But if you really, you know, feel that strongly about it. Just tell dad, we've decided to, you know, just cut back and do it something real simple. Or you have a set number of guest lists and you tell your dad you're allowed to invite four. Well, whatever. I'm 10. How big are we? I don't know how big this wedding is. I can have four, my first wedding, I have 400 people. Yes. Ridiculous. And I still forgot to invite some people. But I was at the opinion, I've got to invite everybody I've ever met or I don't want to hurt him by his feelings. Four people for every thousand. For every thousand cats to get my bra. What a find. I know. No. No. Chaps taking a bra. My boob. It was my chap. She got in there. That's it. My boobs. Yes, what's in Kelly's bra? 854, 335, 445. I grabbed it as I was running out the house. I keep

5:10a chapstick. And my, this is just real quick. I keep a chapstick in my armrest. Yeah, me too. And I had taken it out. And I wanted to put it back in so I stuck it in my bra so I could just put it in there when I got a car and I forgot. Now I've got warm chats. I can't get anybody to chapstick. Yeah, especially where it's from. That was such a fun surprise watching your whip it out. I was like, what's coming out of there? One day I reached my pocket on the show and I had a stick of butter in there. You remember that? Yes. That's weird. When you got a banana, but you already had a banana. Dear Kelly, you are the luck expert. I am. We're doing love letters to Kelly here. I'm writing to you because my husband and I have been married for 10 years. I cheated on him in the first year and he made his mistakes of past drug abuse. He's been clean for 10 years. Here's the problem. He is totally okay with coming home and playing video games. And I want more attention. He says he will try harder, but I've seen a little progress. I feel bored. I've told him this, but no change. So Kelly, what do I do? I don't know. Honestly,

6:10I don't when you tell, this is true. I don't know when you tell somebody, I am feeling neglected. Maybe make a bargain. You get one hour. You get JC, what is your rule in your house? Because I know you like to play video games. I try not to play when they lift the kids or home. So if I play, it'll be like right after work, I'll play with Justin for about an hour, hour and a half. Right. Put a time limit on it. So he's not twice a week. He's not getting rid of it all together, but you have to come to some sort of agreement. Now, what do you do if he flat out refuses? I don't know because I've been in situations where I've expressed my desires. I feel like this, this, this. I don't appreciate that, that, that. And then nothing changes. So either you have to find a way. If your husband's going to just sit there, he's replaced one addiction with another. It sounds like perhaps. I don't know necessarily. I don't know, but you either have to find a way to entertain yourself, find shows that you like to watch on your own. Read, go out with girlfriends or get him to come to an agreement. But how do you force somebody to do something? I don't know. But it's about communication and having a partner who's

7:15willing. And unfortunately, not every partner's willing. And you have to decide, well, I can either make the best of the situation or get out. There you go. Want to ride our love expert, you can do so love letters to Kelly.com. And we shift into. Give me a P. Patty Monday. Give me a E. Give me a C. C. One. I'm Teddy all the time. Eight hundred five four three thirty five forty eight is our hotline for Patty Monday. Let's go to the phones. Good morning, Nikki. Good morning. How are you doing? Excellent. So where are you the petty giver? I'm the petty giver. Oh, please share. What'd you do? So this is probably back in like January when it was super cold outside. And my amazing husband has the option to work from home. And I don't like that because I don't have that option. It's not fair. It's either both of us are none of us. We're a team. And he got to stay home and I did not. So as I'm walking out the door and I walk past the

8:15thermostat, I just decided to turn off. Oh my god. He got to stay home, but he didn't give a stay warm. Well, you know, he's not going to go check. He's like, man, it's so cold, dude. I don't even know where it is. Mesopotamian thermostat is such a violation. He messaged me later and he was like, it's cold in here. And I'm like, yeah, he should be outside. The heater's broken. Oh, well played, Nikki. Well played, man. That's that's that's the good petty right there. Have a great day. Thank you for sharing. You do things, guys. Bye, Nikki. That reminds me me and Daniel were fighting over our thermostat. He was so upset with me. He put a code on the AC. I know who's paying for it. Both of us. Whose house is it? Daniels. He got rid of that code, though. Oh, good. Hello, Allison. Hi. All right. Hit us with that petty. Who was the receiver? I'm in nursing school right now and there is this one girl.

9:19She's mean. She's always starting stuff and said, we're not a very big class. But like, we've got pizza because little Caesars is like right close to the school. And she complained that it's sunk and she wound about it. So now we've got pizza at least once a week. From little Caesars. From little Caesars. Always little Caesars. We love little Caesars. I don't care what anybody says. I stand on the on the fact that little Caesars is the best pizza. Some people are food. Me too. I love it. And so I don't even know why she complains in my place. We've offered to share, but you know, it sounds like a win-win. You get pizza and she gets mad. Exactly. Yeah, you do. Absolutely. I have to say I love you guys. I listen to y'all every morning. Aw, thank you, Allison. And best of luck with nursing school. Where's that accent from, girl? It was Virginia. That's right. Mountain mountain. Yeah, that's lately. Hey, Renee. Hey. What's up with your petty money? What happened? So I've taken my son my 15 year old son to school every morning.

10:21And I get these kids that like to tailgate me. So just to be petty, I will slow down as slow as I can go just to make sure that they're late to school too. Oh, I'm going to go to speed limit and show y'all. See what's up with that. That's good petty right there, right? Thank you for sharing. Thank you. What's going on, Sarah? I would love to hear your petty. Go ahead and share with us. What'd you do? Well, my ex kind of ruined every single birthday that I was listening. So for his birthday, after we broke up, I subscribed to everything under the sun and I scheduled him but waxing appointments on his birthday. I know he's losing his phone so I was like, you know what? I'm going to make sure he is bombarding with text on his birthday. And I found out he ended up changing his phone number.

11:25Yeah, mission accomplished. Well done, Sarah. We're done. Good, good petty. The but waxing text messages did it for you. Cute. I was like, you know what? I'm happy. Revenge. That is exactly the type of petty that is deserved right there. How many birthdays did he ruin for you? Three, all right. All right, well, in the grand scheme of things, you got plenty more birthdays to celebrate without that pose. There you go. That's true. That's true. Karma's a bee. So I mean, thanks guys. You're done. You're done. Good job. The Kid Cratic Morning Show. You crazy. The Kid Cratic Morning Show. Wake up. Wake up. Wake up.