Love Letters To Kellie – Moving Quick After Divorce

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1:00New customer offer for first three months only then full price plan options available. Taxes and fees extra, see Mintmobile for details. Let's get you some love advice from our love expert now. Sitting. Love letters. Love letters to Kelly. Heels are too hot to stand out. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. Or be barefoot, white trash. You're dressed in impress. Dear Kelly, you're the love expert. I am. Am I becoming my mother? I'm 23 years old with two kids and currently going through divorce. For a little back story, a little back story on my mom. She has a bad habit from jumping from one relationship to another and she always picks the most toxic men that she can find. So my divorce is almost final and I can be happier about it. I left that marriage because I told myself that I didn't want to be in an unhealthy, happy marriage for 13 years like my mom. Well, a few weeks after we separated, I found out that my ex was on Tinder. As one does, I joined because if he can join, why can't I? I ended up meeting this amazing guy and he's so sweet, so supportive and he cares a lot about me. He knows that I'm not officially divorced yet and he understands why. He has met my kids and Kelly, he treats them really well as if they were his own and my kids absolutely adore him as well.

2:03He asked me to be his girlfriend and I said, yes. My mom and my sister told me that we're moving too fast and they said, but they still like him decently well. They're concerned that he's love bombing me and that his toxic traits lie under the surface. My car recently broke down and he helped me buy a new one. My mom and sister said that was sweet, but based off the looks they were giving each other, there was a tone that I knew that there was some tension. He's never shown any major red flags, but I guess what I'm asking is, do you think that we're moving too fast? We've been together for about five months. I've been separated for almost seven. Am I becoming my mother stuck in a toxic cycle? I don't feel like that's what this is, but I want an outsider's point of view. Yes, you're moving too fast. You've got little babies. There's probably even subconsciously this tension of desperation. I'm going to be a single mom with these kids. I've got to find a provider. I think that's part of what it is to introduce children to a new relationship this quickly. I think it's very dangerous because what if it doesn't work out? Now they've gotten attached to yet another man in their life who's going to leave them again. That's how they perceive it. Is it my fault? Let's break this cycle. I don't know that this man is toxic. He might have

3:07very genuine intentions. Audrey was really in on the new car thing. Okay. That's a joke. That's crazy. That's because her check engine lights on. It's going to go the distance. If he is a good upstanding man, he will understand if you say, look, we need to slow down. I need to, you know, you get divorced for a scroll and figure out what you want. Just not take the next thing that comes along and buys you stuff. Right. And please don't, I mean, everybody has, like I've said this repeatedly, my husband and his ex-wife, they had a six month rule in their child divorce decree everything. You had to be in a committed monogamous relationship for six months before you introduce the kids to someone to avoid this because that's a pretty good, you know, that's a good, you did barometer, right? Thermometer, barometer, whatever you call it. Starting to get serious at that point. I wasn't necessarily like that for me. We were at about three months, I think, from a Kelly because at that point, we knew we were serious, but your kids are so young. If you've got any kind of little whisper in

4:14your voice that you're about to repeat your mom's behavior, then stop what you're doing and listen to their words of wisdom and their sad eyes and just tap the brakes on this. Yes, if you're asking for an outside opinion, you're moving too fast. And I know that that dude helped get you a new car, but you could have waited a little bit. We got the fourth annual Kids Kids Car Contest, presented by the Encero Auto Group one on right now. 25 bucks Kelly Raspberry could have bought her a raffle ticket. She could have chosen one of five vehicles, a Jeep, a Keystone Bullet, a Kia Telluride, the Chevy Silverado, the GMC Canyon. Those are your choices, 25 bucks to get you a brand new car at carcontest2026.com. Just in case somebody else is going to something similar right now. Thank you, Encero. And all the proceeds go to our charity Kids Kids to send beautiful children and their families to Disney World. Yes. Love letters. Love letters to Kelly. Dear Kelly, you are the love expert. I am. My letters to you, but would also really love JC and

5:14Al's input as well. Anna, Justin, Audrey, sit tight. Okay, we're ready. We're ready. She really write that. Well, let me sit down. Let me sit down. But she does want me in. Well, she does one. JC's an Alan. She's writing thing about us. Okay. I've been with my fiance for about eight years. We are both in our early 40s and have a really amazing relationship. He is the sweetest guy and very funny. My only wish though is if he had more hands on affection. My love language is touch and affection, but he is the total opposite. We've talked about it before and he will try for a day or so. And then we go back to me having to initiate. I'm not totally sure if it's just an old school Mexican thing because the men and my family and his family are all like this. Am I crazy to want more touching and hugging? Thank you. That's from Carmen. You're not crazy to want it. But here's the thing. Love language for him is not touching and rubbing. Right. So you need to know what his love language is and realize he's telling me he loves me when he does this fixes my car for me

6:18or takes my car to get it washed every Saturday at the little bit of gas without me asking. You know that I think that's so romantic. Oh yeah. I think acts of service is my love language. Yeah. Yeah. So I mean as far as receiving giving I think I think that's my giving language too. Can't there be two different languages? They're supposed to be giving it. You can be by language. By language. By time. You're by time. You're focusing on what your I mean look call itself a sure whatever. But yeah, that's your love language. Why not focus on what he's telling you. You know, maybe it is words of affirmation. Maybe it is acts of service. Maybe it is. I don't remember him all right now. But you know what? I had a friend like that who really craved touch. You know what her solution was because she was with a man that didn't touch her a lot. She got a massage membership. A massage membership. Yeah. She went to one of those places where you could sign up and you could go for however many massages a month and she got touched on it and you know and it wasn't a romantic thing. Oh, okay. They have that need. They do. It works for her.

7:25I mean some people just remember your part time Cuddling gig. Yes, awkward. I was just weird. But you can hire a Cuddler and just one of them. But yeah, there are people that do genuinely just want to be touched and curled. But about it worth is it worth ending an eight year relationship and engagement and all that over. If you absolutely have to be touched, we'll go out there and maybe you'll get lucky and find a man and wants to rub on you day and night. And then let me tell you about a good old two. So I would try to concentrate on what his love language is and start hearing what he's telling you. Boom. Amen, sister. I agree with Kelly Al. I agree with her. If you want to write our love expert, loveletterscully.com is where you can do that again. The podcast is drop in this morning and you can be a jingle singer on the podcast at loveletterscully.com as well. If you got a singer and a family, we won't be going through Big Out Max phone in just over an hour, by the way, and deleting some numbers. But Kelly, what are we going to be talking about here with the celebrity gossip? All right. Everybody is talking about what's happening

8:27on Summer House calling this the next scandal. Whoa. And honestly, I don't care. But apparently a lot of people do. So I'll tell you what's going on when we come back. This is the Kidcratic Morning