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In this episode Troy talks about why it's so valuable to watch so-called 'naturals' - guys who've never learned game formally but who are nevertheless great with girls. Troy argues that we should take more notice of these guys than of professional pick-up coaches most of whom were geeks at school who had to study game to get laid.
Troy then describes the behaviour of a natural friend of his in a restaurant and picks out several behaviours that we should all seek to emulate, namely, being challenging, self-amused and dominant.
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