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Le secret pour avoir de belles relations

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Sadhguru décode la mécanique d’une relation et explique quoi faire pour avoir des relations saines et sans heurts.  Conscious Planet:https://consciousplanet.org/fr Sadhguru App (Download): https://onelink.to/sadhguru__app  Official Sadhguru Website: https://isha.sadhguru.org   !!! Sadhguru Exclusive: https://isha.sadhguru.org/in/en/sadhguru-exclusive  Yogi, mystique et visionnaire, Sadhguru est un maître spirituel avec une différence. Mélange saisissant de profondeur et de pragmatisme, sa vie et son travail rappellent que le yoga est une science contemporaine, d’une importance vitale pour notre époque. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Le secret pour avoir de belles relations

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Sadhguru FrançaisLe secret pour avoir de belles relations. Machine-transcribed; use the interactive transcript above to jump the player to any line.

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Give yourself a chance to see. Number two. My people, unfortunately, unfortunately, But in the end, they live for a different reason. Even children have a lot of suicide. Children of less than 13 years are suicide. It's not good at all. But if people put their mind back because of a relationship, if you talk about a house and a Juliet,

who... who was in a certain state of romance that gave him the feeling that he would better die there for the other than living there for the other. If they had you, we don't know. Everything that would have happened. A lot of things could have happened, you know? Unfortunately, a lot of magnificent relationships don't always end up being magnificent. Because, whether by suicide, or by nature, one or two will die.

But the emotions are at such a point that you want to take in your own life, which is better than you have to take in your life. Yes. When people... their emotions are at such a point that they want to take in their own life, they want to take their own life. Take your own life is not a good thing, but a little better than taking it in your own life. No. Because it's not about you to decide if the other one lives or not. So, it's terrible. That there are people who are known for so long, people who seemed to be understood, people who have shared a lot of wonderful things together become so beautiful.

There, to the other, everyone is suicide, perhaps not. But a lot of people become super sick, there, to the other. It's because... fundamentally, because... You wanted the other to be a certain way, when you refused it, you became mad. So, you wanted someone else to share. From the moment you became angry, you had to understand that you had planted a lot of conflicts. When this is going to happen, it is a matter of situation. Everything needs to be in a situation. But if you think that the other person

should be your source of joy for you, or whatever it is for you, then one day, it will go wrong. Because, it turns wrong to the outside, or it will go wrong to the inside and it will continue indefinitely. It is another thing. But, it will go wrong. The relationships, first of all, I don't know when you are so westernised that, for you, today, the word relation means that it has to be a balanced relationship on the body. Why? There is always a relationship. There is a relationship with you, all of it, all of it. Not for real. But, it is like a relationship, don't you know? So, in this country, when we say relationship, there are a few years apart between you and me.

Now, when we say relationship, we want to say, we are friendship, friends, maybe a husband, maybe a woman, maybe a child, maybe different relationships. But, today, in the world, you have taken the word relation to this. A relationship between two bodies, something to have with the body, this is a very poor way to understand a relationship. It's an American importation. I'm sure that Mumbai and Delhi are living in a big country. The young people on Facebook are half of them, but if you go to China and you have a boat and you tell them to relax, they will ask you what kind of relationship? Because we have all kinds of relationships. We have relationships to do, we have to do the research, we have friends, we have parents, we have a wife,

we oppose all kinds of things. But in your mental state, it's like that, a relationship is between a man and a woman, or maybe today, in other things. It can be an importation. But essentially based on the heart, what it means is that you are regressed. You think that any relationship has value, unless two hearts are connected, whether by the body in which or otherwise, they have to be connected. So only the relationship of the ballad, this is an importation. First, I want you to change what the relationship means. There are all kinds of relationships that we can have in our lives. And allow them to choose this way. So, you speak essentially for 10-10 years. That is, a physical relationship.

The physical is not the only relationship. There are many other types of relationships that have a human being capable of. The physical relationships for other creatures. They are not capable of connecting each other with their body. Yes? Yes or no? The other creatures do not know how to connect to what it is, at least if they are connected with their body. A human being is capable of connecting in a very big way. Not just by the body. Now, this is not a corporate relationship. This is not a blood relationship. It is a relationship of light. Never in my life, I have come to touch you. But still there is still a deep relationship. Yes or no?

I do not know how many years it has been here. I hope you did not follow you. Because of your relationship with me. I am sure you won't. So, when you base it so much on the body, the interest for the body will disappear at the beginning of the moment. If you maintain the body at the beginning of your life at the beginning, it may be attractive at the beginning of the moment, but in any case, the people will get tired of you, and I want all this. At least, that you bring in other dimensions of being human, things may turn, things may turn,

for a million different reasons, okay? All right. But this virtue of you being the other, or of you being the other, you can get tired by sadness. Not necessarily by hatred. The color and the distress conduit to use ourselves. Not one thing. So, before forming a certain connection, what is it? You must establish this. How many ways do I contribute to the other person? If this is the only goal, if you put this guru, if I don't contribute, and he doesn't give anything, then you don't have a relationship.

You have made, the place of the market in your house. How to get more? How to give less and get more? It's a place of the market, isn't it? On the market, it is considered intelligent. If you give less and take more. If you want a authentic relationship, it has to be how you can give you completely and a little bit of strength, because it's in two years that there is an abandonment by understanding. But it will also give you exploits. Because you shouldn't be in a relationship with such a person. Yes. But now, it's stronger than me. What does it mean? What do you need? To satisfy your needs, you are in it. You must just be recognition that someone answers your needs. No. In reality, you have to go to answer your needs,

but now you play the manianism. If without you, you can't live. And things are bad for one day. When things are bad, you want to be killed, you want to kill yourself. Not necessary. The death will come in any way. Yes. You just have to wait. For all the rest, you must do something. For nothing, you must just wait. Everything you will kill you. Your wealth, your house, your relationships, everything. Something you will kill in person is that you will let yourself fall in person. Either you will let yourself fall, or you will let yourself fall in person. And there is no need to do so.

But you can take back the rest and make compromises. No, how can I make compromises? I can't. If you can't kill yourself, you have to break it, isn't it? Because relationships are formed to answer your needs. Yes or no? If you understand this in a permanent way, you will be recognizing, not recognizing, not loving. Everything that has happened is a change of heart. If you still have so much love for yourself, you must do compromises. If you have no love for yourself, you must distance yourself and make your own promises, isn't it? Yes or no? If you have love for someone, it's your fault to do a compromising on the matter

if you don't have love for yourself, it's better for you to get away. Because otherwise, it will become an obsession. Being in a very large proximity without the application of love will make up the very obscenes. Before you become an obsession, you better distance yourself. So if you think that you really want to put a world between you and the person on the other, and that you want to kill yourself, I would say, why not wait for you? Because anyway, it will happen. Or it will be a shame. And you will be able to make yourself without others, give you a chance to see. Thank you very much.

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