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In this episode, we explore the unique fulfillment sex provides and whether it’s a want or a need. Can we ever thrive without it? We break down the difference between lust and eros, the role of intimacy in sex, and whether sex can ever be just sex—is casual sex ever truly casual? We also discuss the challenges couples face in sexual fulfillment and when sex reaches its greatest potential in a relationship.
00:00 Intro
02:32 Is sex a want or a need?
04:22 Is life all about pleasure or is there more?
11:47 When sex becomes necessary
17:20 Intimacy - the missing piece of the sex puzzle
18:28 Which stage of a relationship is sex the best?
21:11 Is casual sex ever just sex?
26:53 Lust vs. Eros
35:42 The orgasm gap - why we're not having great sex
39:12 Men's insecurities with receiving feedback on sex
43:49 Why the Bible uses the word "knew" for sex
44:48 Can sex toys ever be a hindrance?
46:21 The problem with p*rn and other explicit content
58:44 Closing thoughts on intimacy
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