About this episode
Advice from 3 experienced Doms, including @Andy_Wells, Mario, and myself, for submissives focusing on the search for a compatible Dom. Learn key elements of dominance and submission, ensuring a safe and fulfilling dynamic.
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
- (00:00) - Intro
- (00:41) - Green flags in Doms
- (04:21) - Starting slow
- (08:03) - Discussing play beforehand
- (16:14) - Meeting the submissive at their level
- (22:19) - Having humility as a Dom
- (33:03) - Understanding the intention behind desires
- (43:20) - Feeling safe with the Dom
- (47:58) - Asserting yourself as a submissive
- (52:30) - Handling trauma triggers
- (56:22) - Separating kink and sex
- (01:05:38) - Aftercare
- (01:10:07) - The Overconfident Dom
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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
▶️ How to Be a Better Dominant (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms): https://youtu.be/Rg9XLPG3vjQ
▶️ Consent, Trauma, & Healing in BDSM: https://youtu.be/h4plNnW82vw
▶️ What Happens When Kindness Meets Power? (Advice from a Pro Domme): https://youtu.be/5x-7xxPipf8
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