
About this episode
In this heartfelt conversation with Ian Fee, we talk honestly about what it means to rebuild trust after years of chaos, regret and emotional distance.
Ian shares the turning point that shifted his recovery from trying to fix everything for everyone else to finally choosing himself, and how that decision reshaped his relationships, especially with his children.
His story is full of warmth, humour and grounded wisdom, offering reassurance that steady actions, open communication and genuine presence can rewrite even the most painful family patterns.
Highlights:
(02:10) Stacking rock bottoms before the final turning point
(07:45) Realising recovery had to begin with looking inward
(14:20) The spark behind writing Ian's book and sharing his story
(19:55) Rebuilding trust with children through everyday consistency
(26:40) Breaking old emotional patterns and learning to talk openly
(32:10) School talk and the impact on young people
Find out more about Ian Fee:
Email: [email protected]
Phone: 2065713068
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