EP. 37: Making Peace with Conflict

In this thought-provoking episode, Jan and Lisa dive deep into the challenging topic of navigating conflict in Christian relationships. They offer biblical wisdom and practical guidance on when to address issues and when grace might be the better path.

⏱️ Episode Highlights:

[00:01] - Welcome and introduction to the series

[04:31] - How productive conflict strengthens relationships

[06:15] - Important distinction between ordinary conflict and abuse

[07:30] - First steps: examining your feelings and motivations

[09:45] - The danger of conflict avoidance and relationship damage

[12:42] - Understanding biblical peace (shalom) vs. absence of conflict

[16:14] - Setting realistic expectations for difficult conversations

[18:29] - Supporting others in conflict without taking over

[20:14] - Closing prayer and next episode preview

🔑 Key Takeaways:

- Using Proverbs 19:11 as a guide for handling offense

- The importance of distinguishing between patterns and isolated incidents

- Practical steps for evaluating if a conflict needs addressing

- Biblical perspective on peace-making (Romans 12:18)

- The value of wise counsel in navigating difficult situations

💡 Notable Quote:

"It is to one's glory to overlook an offense." - Proverbs 19:11

Next Week: Practical tips for having difficult conversations with grace and wisdom.

Want to catch up? Listen to last week's episode about handling emotions [link in show notes].

🎯 Resources Mentioned:

- Proverbs 19:11

- Romans 12:18

- First Peter (on love covering offenses)

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