Ep. 14 - Raising Enjoyable Teens: Yes it's Possible!

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Ever wondered if enjoying the teenage years is actually possible? As parents of four (soon to be five) teenagers, we've discovered it's not just possible—it's happening in our home right now. Despite the cultural narrative that teen years are something to survive rather than savor, we've found these to be some of our most rewarding parenting seasons.

In this episode we cover:
• Understanding the unprecedented challenges teens face today including seven-plus hours daily on screens
• The correlation between first-time obedience training and better teen outcomes, with 36% better conflict resolution
• Why embodied, face-to-face time (at least 15 minutes daily) is critical for today's digitally distracted teens
• The continued importance of physical touch, even with awkward teenagers
• Setting appropriate digital boundaries and using accountability software
• The "Dad Factor" and how father involvement dramatically improves teen outcomes across multiple metrics
• Implementing "dad dates" and special trips as rites of passage that help teens transition toward adulthood

Remember that teenagers are like brownies - they might be crusty on the outside but they're still gooey in the middle. Don't grow weary of doing good, for in due season you will reap if you do not give up.

For more info on how Active father figures make a difference in teens see https://americafirstpolicy.com/issues/fact-sheet-fathers-matter-pass-it-on

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