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Todd and Cathy discuss the importance and value of difficult conversations in partnership and parenting, emphasizing the two extremes: complete avoidance or overbearing insistence on discussing things. They explore how to find a middle ground—being approachable and open, but also willing to set boundaries and agree to expectations. This approach allows for a home environment where real conversations are encouraged and practiced, and where everyone feels heard and comfortable sharing.
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(00:08:24) Setting an infrastructure for difficult conversations
(00:18:47) Talking ourselves out of having difficult conversations
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(00:38:35) Finding the balance **
(00:41:12) If react immediately, I shut her down, if I wait too long, I shut me down) **
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