Cheating / Cheater

0:00Hey, this is strawberry. How y'all doing out there today? I hope everybody is doing well. If you're not doing well, find a way to get well, look well, and be well. We all matter in this world. We all are somebody. So, you know, I suggest that we don't let somebody take advantage of us, use us, abuse us, be us, cheat us, do anything that below us. So, today's topic is cheating slash cheaters, and there is a lot of them out there. Hey, my name is fickle. People have me on their list next to adultery and home record. I enjoy taking advantage of people. I have a hurtful selfish behavior. It is very disrespectful, dishonest, and breaks up most

1:04relationships. Some people call me a quack, you know, like a snake in a grass. Yes, I am greedy and need to be with more than one human being secretly. Yes, I have a partner who wants me to settle down, commit, and move forward. Instead of being a two-timer that hides behind the walls, cars, hotels, and their favorite word, mistakes, or this was a trap. And other places that is willing to accept this personality and behavior that is filled with so much charm. And, you know, people love that charm, and that's why they be willing to go to bed with you or whatever it is that you allow yourself to do with them, even though some of them know that you are

2:09married and engaged already to be with somebody for the rest of your life. You know, it's like they know that you might be married and engaged or in a relationship with a partner that claims to the world. He's taken an off the market, but you enjoy living outside of the box. Seems harsh, right? Well, this is who I am, a trickster. I am the hateful shame that brings you heartaches, tears, and more while telling you, I love you. Everyone that meets and sees me has a different name that describes so much about me. Like, phony, a hopper, and sometimes

3:13a heart breaker. See, I share my thoughts and emotions and heart with different people privately, secretly and, of course, willingly flirting, kissing, and touching their bodies without my partner of the mission. With no strings, no commitment to any of these outsiders. Right now, anyway, no matter what happens in life, I still want to make sure that I have my main squeeze. No one matters or is treated important for me. And that once my main squeeze, forgive me, you know what they say, cheaters are repeaters, and that's what I mean. I am going to do it all over again. Yes, heartbreak, and that's what they call me. Yes, I am cold, ruthless, and bold.

4:21Most people do not mind putting up with my physical attraction. I am that kind artist who deceives you with pleasure and whispers in your ear challenging your every dare to one accept and have me. Even then, I understand my connection with you will change from what it has been before going out of our relationship. See, I like the cake, ice cream, and most of the crumbs. I have marks on all of my hearts, but the saddest thing is your skin is not pilling because of your enemies. It is because of someone like me with sexual desires. See, what I don't understand about this is why are you bragging about the cheese? Like it is something of goodness. And the

5:29innocent is looking like trash that was weak to understand that world has been destroyed, or they wasn't satisfied enough material that matters like any human being that falls in and out of love with tears splattered on their hearts. It's like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock. Cheating is not an accidental thing. These are choices made without the bottom. Why do something easy when the real challenge is being faithful, sincere? People often cheat because they are paying attention to what they are missing instead of what they have. Cheying

6:36is a personal decision. Some people will never cheat no matter how hard things get in your life. But then we have those people that have it all, but become curious enough to lose it all. We call these people swingers. Cheaters are often afraid of being alone, but less. Not making excuses, but let's not make excuses for them. It is wrong and disrespectful. Trust, take years to build for a couple of seconds to break and sometimes forever to repair. So let's not make excuses for them. The worst kind of hurt is betrayal because that means someone was willing to hurt you without thinking of your feelings. Cheating is not an easy healing for one. It's hard,

7:44but praying is. And I mean, that's what we have in reference to Cheating. And then you know, I sit back and I listen every single day to people coming out and opening and they're like bragging about this. Yeah, I cheated on her. Yeah, I cheated on him. They act like it's something special that they should brag about and they're not considering this other person that they're hurting, they're sitting there all night and calm, minding their own self and then being destroyed by somebody else. It's like Cheating is the new thing today. Everybody's doing it. So why not improve it? Why not give us a certificate to say, Cheating is just something we do. No, Cheating

8:48is wrong. It's disrespectful. It hurts. It calls bleeding. It calls depression. Cheating is something that should not happen in anyone's relationship. And it's ruthless and bold and cold as the other person is you need to kill them all by telling them to cheat on themself and not on you. And that simply means that if they feel they need to be with this other person or other thing and not just be with you, let them try being with that because see that other person, other thing only wants to be with them because there is no strength, there is no attachment, there is no rules. See, but once you release all of that, the cheater makes rules. That means that

9:55they don't want you to see nobody else because they ain't got nobody else yet. They don't have nobody to go home to. When they finish with you, they go back to that person that they feel as though is their life, but they're not their life that they cannot spend life without cheating or hurting or destroying the minds of them. Cheating is not something to brag about. Cheating is not accidentally. Cheating is something you make a choice to do. It is not a mistake. It is not a trap. Those words no means a lot. So if the opportunity comes across and somebody wants you to cheat and you're in a relationship, strongly say no or hell no or get the fuck out of my face or

10:56whatever it is to make them go away. But see when you become that person that says, I am an opportunist. Why not? We can go behind this closed door. I can get me a room. I think that's why they ain't nobody going to know. They ain't going to act for our ID. But see in my life and my world, I feel as though when you go through those hotels and you go through these other places, seven loud cheaters, even though nobody knows who the cheaters are, each individual that comes into that hotel or that place to get that pleasure on, they should have papers to say that I am supposed to be with this person. I ain't talking about a marriage certificate. Something written down that this hotel could put in their file. Oh yeah, Johnny and Mary, they gave me

12:01the papers here that they supposed to be together. So I gave them a room. Wow, that sounds hard, doesn't it? But there's no hardship in what you're doing to somebody's life every day. Tell them, I love you. I want to spend the rest of my life with you. You are the only person in my world. I would not ever be with anybody else. And then as the eyes closed, you decide to go be with this one, that one and any other one that decides that the attachment is good. So put that paper up there that says, no, you cannot come into this hotel unless you bring me papers saying that you and this person supposed to be together. Oh, that will be something, wouldn't it? See, people think in life that a lot of things is impossible. But if people fight for it enough, it becomes

13:10possible. And see, that's what the world needs to understand. That's see, if we pray and we hope and we dream and we put our heads together and say to ourselves, we are men, we are women. We should not be hurt and we should not be in pain because we are humans. And so when we get to that scenario, those people that wants to destroy her and damage our minds and our thoughts and our feelings, they should be by themselves. See, because we are people, we are somebody. We matter every single day of our lives. And for somebody to play games with our heart, meaning telling us that we are the best they ever had. And putting it out there, I am in love with you. Now, I love you. As Steve Harvey put it, it's one thing to say, I love you and it's another

14:18thing to say, I am in love with you. See, when there were these other people that decide to cheat with them, whether they single or have somebody else or whatever, they said that they love being with this person. But now once are they saying, I am in love with the ideal of being with you. I am in love with you. No, I love being with you. Get it right. So you ask yourself, is cheating worth you losing what you have and like? Is cheating worth you saying you got it all to lose it all? Cheating is disrespectful. I don't care. Eyes open or eyes close. Women and men. Don't let this world make you ugly when you already know that you are the most beautiful thing in

15:24the world. And see, I'm not saying it's just to say it. I mean, me, myself, I don't want nobody to cheat on me. I don't want nobody to hurt me. I don't want nobody to use and abuse and beat me. You know, because see, when they start cheating and you start asking questions, then they want to make you understand their scenario, which is, I have these needs. I have this desire. And you're not satisfied with me. I mean, they don't mess with your ego. They made you feel some kind of way. They made you feel like you're not worth anything. And then when they have a problem with this person that they are running to by the hour, minute or month or year, they come back to you and guess what? They bring you flowers. They rub in your feet. They probably eat in the

16:34coolie cool. And you're probably sucking the diggy dig. So with all these things in mind, they're happening because what was on the side is going down. What was on the side? Don't found another ride, the ride. You understand? So what they say in life riches come with riches. So I mean, if you already have whole love and honor, what you got. So let the devil walk you over to something that you don't want to got or have. And that's life. Cheat and cheaters. They need to be stopped. One way or another, they need to be stopped. It's like the drug dealers.

17:36And what they say about Trump, what they say about ICE, all these things need to be stopped because what? They are destroying people's lives. I mean, how many people do you know they walk around here with pain that actually sits in front of their face? I'm not talking about that pain that hides behind the mask. These are people that has been hurt so bad. They can't hide it no more. I mean, their tears are walking with their steps. Their heart is trying to find the right beat to be too because what? Some person that felt like they was, God gives the charm and other people decided to ruin their life for what? Sex, or kids, or flirting, or feel, or whatever it is that

18:44they wasn't supposed to do with this other person that they should have been doing with you. I mean, in life, we learn to get better in life. But see, as the world wake up today, they are learning to be worse than every day that they wake up to that leads them to tomorrow. And that's why so many lives are lost before yesterday could show you what tomorrow was all about. So I ain't going to today and don't let your days and nights go away because somebody that you fell in love with is not true to you. Truth and honesty and loyalty comes with the love that you need to hold in your heart to stay together when somebody is disrespectful, dishonest, hateful,

19:50undesirable, and don't think that you can do anything worth them having. You need to let them breathe on their own and then you need to inhale and breathe alone. All your cathedrals, live life, learn life, understand life because life happens without our permission. And don't let somebody destroy your life because they need a happier life outside of you. Life is what it is. It is so, so, so, so, so real. Open your eyes to hope, joy and peace, not the hate and dangerous games that want you to kill or find revenge. And this is where it all starts. It all starts from someone hurting and messing with you.

20:58That's where that pain comes from. That's where that hurt comes from. That's where that shame comes all these things come from somebody playing games with your heart. Don't allow somebody to play games with your heart. A smile in life is not contagious to be turned into a frown. A smile is contagious so it gets traveled around the world to bring joy and peace. A smile was to bring hate. It wouldn't be called a smile at the sunshine in y'all. Don't live on a dark cloud. That teaches us to hate when we can love. Love yourself. It's not anybody else because life is so, so, so, so, so, so, so real.