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Well, good evening. How's everybody doing?

Got a great show for you tonight. Got a bunch of tabs lined up. And of course, we're kicking off with this topic around the great debate that happened on Friday.

I happen to watch it. Thank God I caught it and to replay it 1.5 speed because it was long.

Before I get into that though, I want to tell you guys a quick story about Paul and heartbreak.

I just open this motorcycle toy model. I guess it is. It's a 2007.

Ducati Desmo Sidiqi. I don't know what that means, but it's one of the race bikes. It's official merch from Ducati.

And my old VP Paul bought it for me. I think for my birthday, maybe 15, 18 years ago, it was a long time ago.

It was when I was still heavily involved in that industry and our business was booming. We were doing well.

We had thousands of customers we were bringing in well over a quarter million a month.

And you know, Paul was always thoughtful. He knew I like bikes and fast cars. And you know, he got me this thing.

I've always left it in the box. I just took it out tonight. I just put it over here just over my shoulder.

It's a decent looking model. It's got some nice detail to it.

So I think I'm going to just have it live here now on.

And of course, I screwed up the stand.

But back to Paul. So Paul basically brand the operations.

And he was married when I hired him. He loved his, the green bay Packers. He loved his daughters. He loved his dog.

And he loved his wife immensely. And something changed for Paul in his marriage halfway through it.

Not even halfway through it. I mean towards the end, let's call it. I think I think his kids were, it's probably about 15 years into it. I would say give or take.

And his wife took a new job. I don't know if she got back into the workforce or if it's a new job, but she took a new job.

And she met a guy in this job, who she started a relationship with.

And then she decided to file for divorce.

And I remember Paul. He was, he wasn't in a very good shape. He was a smoker.

He was a regular smoker and beer drinker. And he had a big beer got big inflammation around his waist. He was shaped like a pair.

And you could just see like the pain in his face, man. And I remember he would sit in my office and he would, you know, he asked me questions and he talked to me and dumped his shit on me.

And I didn't. I was in the best position off from much advice at that time. I mean, I mean, I certainly knew a lot less than what I know today.

But I listened and, you know, they parted ways they never made it work. They sort of just went, went their separate ways and he was always heartbroken, like terribly heartbroken. You could tell.

He was a change man. He lost a lot of weight. He must have stopped eating quite a bit in the way calories because he got really skinny, like almost sickly skinny.

And then I got a call one day and I was like, hey, Paul passed, you know, it's funeral. You know, here's the details. He wasn't much older than me. I think he was maybe three or four years older than me.

And this was about five, four or five years ago.

And, you know, so we go there and it's like the place was packed, man. A lot of people love this guy, a lot of former colleagues, my employees, other companies that he worked with, you know, his kids.

And his ex-wife brought the guy to the funeral that she cheated on him with.

The importance of an LT, I think, I think Paul died from heartbreak, you know, from being honest with you, you know, when I think about this motorcycle and having him around, I think he died from heartbreak.

I don't think it was a cardiovascular event. I don't think it was a stroke. I think it was something that sort of led to his sudden death. I can't remember what it was.

But I think the contributing factor was the stress that came from heartbreak.

And I just want to tell you guys, look, I've been running this show for a long time. I know a lot more than what I did when I sat across from Paul.

I wish I could have offered him a little bit more than I did at the time.

But look, if you ever stuck on anything, you need help. I always drop the call in link during the show.

So you guys can bump in and ask questions. You can also drop super chats too if you want to get those up on the screen and address.

Yeah, I just wanted to share Paul's story because I was just thinking about him. So tribute to you, buddy.

I don't know how long ago it was, but miss you.

All right, let's get started here. Yes, I do have a bike. Actually, I forgot to mention.

I have a Ducati Street fighter in my garage right now. And I made a video about it the other day on my personal channel.

You can just search for Richard Cooper on YouTube. And you'll find my personal channel and talking about cars and bikes and other stuff there.

I don't know if you have a hobby thing. So if that's interesting to you, I'll put a link down below. Maybe you're something like that later, but you'll find just for the search.

Anyway, let's go over to this great debate here with Andrew Wilson and Candace Owens.

I want to kick it off with a comedy because there was a skit that came across my feed. I thought it was quite funny. So I shared it.

And we'll get a little serious on it. If that's cool with you guys. Let's hear what this guy has to say.

Here's my prediction of how the Candace Owens and Andrew Wilson debate will go.

Here's 1,000 reasons why none of the official story makes sense at all.

Um, logical fallacy, not hominem strun and logical conclusion.

What about all these things here? Like this not making sense, this photo, this thing. What about all of these things?

The government never lies. There's no lie evidence. This was presented at the trial. Therefore, it's fact it must be believed. Anything else is a logical malice.

They never lie. They never lie ever. There's not an incentive for anybody to lie. No.

Just a sidebar. Why did your wife tweet at me? You know, my wife. You're my wife. You like snits. Okay. You like snits.

Okay, Candace. All right. Right. This would have been better with Rogan. You like snits.

Could you open the.

Didn't you get paid from turning point USA? I did not get paid from turning point USA, except when they paid me to do debate stuff.

But I didn't get paid from them, but I also did get paid from that. So you got paid. You have no evidence.

What about all this evidence? You like snits. I win.

Yep.

All right. I don't know why I have Adam Saasnick.

So good. I mean, that's really what I boiled down to at the end of the day.

Like the whole thing with these online debates and this new debate culture that's sort of up and coming.

And I did a video with Andrew Wilson. I don't know a few months ago. He wanted to debate.

And it was Jake Rausnick that sort of moderated it and brought the offer to me.

And he wanted to do a debate on marriage.

Because he thinks marriage is a good idea and men should get married and it's safe.

And the Catholic Orthodox way is the best way and all that sort of stuff.

Of course, he claimed victory at the end. And I was the big loser or whatever. But.

Like this, like this whole notion of debating somebody on a topic.

He paid her $300,000 to like he paid this check $300,000 to talk to her.

She wouldn't talk to him otherwise. You know, she at first wanted half a mill.

And then she settled on $300,000.

Andrew Wilson paid a woman $300,000 to talk for. He's a cuck.

I like the guy. I'm really not.

Like he's not a bad dude at the end of the day, but he's still a cuck and he can't open a jar.

But it's just so funny.

Now, here's a clip from the actual debate, which kind of brings me to some of the contradictions that sort of like always seem to come up.

It's funny. You know, as I watched it, it seemed like, you know, it was like one part.

And that canto some air time. And Andrew paid to get air time with PBD and Candice.

So it's like this whole notion of like news hijacking. You know, you can news hijack certain topics and sort of latch your trailer to it and you ride along with it.

And PBD and Candice have a massive audience.

And I don't know that it's worth paying $300,000 to market yourself that way.

But it seems like the real winner here is Candice because she made all the money.

Unless PBD sold some shoes. Apparently he's in the shoe business now. He's like Al Bundy.

Not really sure what that shoe thing was all about, but there was a lot of ads for shoes in this. Anyway, let's have a little listen here to this clip where Andrew Wilson claims that all women are in fact retarded.

Erica, so listen, that's my opinion. When you tweeted, Erica's too retarded to kill her husband.

Would you like to explain how you developed your evidence, your positive evidence for the fact that Erica was retarded?

Yeah, sure. So I just think all women retarded.

Oh, so you're allowed to just say stuff. Who knew?

So you're just by the way. And what dramatically transformed your opinion of Erica after going to your notice his foot was going absolutely nuts during the entire show.

Resslessly he was sweating. He was very shiny in the face. So he's definitely sweating to the headquarters because you were pretty hostile about.

I wasn't hostile towards him. You don't think calling somebody too retarded. No, come on.

It's actually kind of funny. You know, I side with Wilson on this. It's like, you know, that's like normal tongue and cheek stuff for me online.

Oh, you're being tongue tongue and cheek. Usually when I call someone retarded being tongue and cheek. Yeah.

Erica, listen, that's anyway. You know, the funny thing in all this is I had a debate with him a while ago.

And you know, his whole thing was you should get married. It's very safe. You know, in the Catholic orthodox religion. It's the best thing ever.

You started citing stats around how low the divorce rate was significantly lower than a regular, you know, universal divorce rate.

And I, of course, you know, made my standard counterpoints like smart men don't get married and, you know, you can love a woman and be in a relationship with your kid but have children with her and not get married.

But he didn't, you know, you didn't want to see it that way. And he kind of went off on his tangents.

You know, I've often said that, you know, sometimes having like these sorts of arguments with people. And I think we saw that with the canvas Wilson, you know, conversation.

It's like one person will go and declare victory. And it's the same as trying to play chess with a pigeon.

The pigeon will strut all over the board, knock over the pieces, shit everywhere and cool like it won anyway.

And that's really what these things are about at the end of the day. It's like nothing really gets resolved. People start, you know, getting very passionate about their positions.

But they don't really want to be there to hear other ideas and discuss them.

That's what I like doing. That's my way of like trying to have conversations with people. I think it's more interesting that way, especially when you do panels and stuff like that.

But usually with these debates, it's not about any of that stuff. It's about the person arguing they really want to hear their opinion come out of your mouth.

Right. It's like they have a different opinion and they want you to basically say, okay, well, your opinion's right. And I'm going to repeat it and I'm going to start parenting your opinion for use that we can broadcast your ideas.

It's just propaganda is what it boils down to.

Who the hell knows who killed Charlie Kirk?

Who knows Erica Kirk, Tyler Robinson, Candace Andrew Wilson, PBD shoe company. I don't know. You don't know. I don't know.

And maybe there's a cover up. Maybe Israel did it. Maybe fucking DMT Nomes from the space realm did it.

Maybe we'll find out. Maybe we won't find out. I just find it's like a bizarre new trend or bizarre new habit that's, you know, happening where we have this like debate culture and people are like signing up for debate university and debate con and debate meetups and things like that.

And it's like if it was conversation that accomplished discussion and questions and, you know, movement to broaden horizons and learn new ideas and concepts.

I think that's more interesting than just arguing logical fallacy, you know, I had a moment. I was hilarious. It was pretty much right on it.

King Rob the Great says, did you notice that Wilson was twitching his face and neck was he high or sick. I felt he had rage towards her. He looked demonic to me. Something was off. Well, he was sweating profusely and his foot was going absolutely mental, but probably because he didn't have any cigarettes.

And he had his hand is pregnant and she didn't want to be around him smoking, which is absolutely fair. So I think he had his chance to brief back five or six cigarettes during the PBD shoe ads.

And, you know, that's probably where he got his nicotine fit, but it seemed like he was, he was definitely out of his element without this cigarette in his hand. That's for sure.

That's why he didn't he didn't win or did he win? I don't know. That like, does it really matter? Does it really matter? Charlie Kirk's dead. It's sad for him. It's sad for his children. We lost a great man.

You know, he delivered good messaging, positive messaging.

He was a very good speaker. He was very patient with people. He would listen to opposing opinions, unlike Andrew Wilson, Andrew Wilson, just barrels people over.

You know, go get married. You have to get married. The course of orthodox Christian. It's like in the next breath, all women are retarded. Well, didn't you marry a woman? Andrew Wilson.

That's in the mom three kids from or was it five kids from three different dads or five kids from three? I don't know. Whatever.

But like, there's a lot of this funny shit and like, you know, the whole like you look sniz sort of thing when he did that podcast with that gal, you know, the lesbian gal. And he snapped when she brought up his wife.

No, not about my wife. He looks sniz. It's like, wow, way to lose control, man. And as I understand it, it came out in the last week that he has a daughter that is also a lesbian now. So I wonder if he goes around his house and says, you look sniz, sweetie.

I don't know. What could it be? Thanks, Max. Appreciate the little tip jar. Thank you.

And King Rob the Great says the cigarette was raw makes sense. You look very thin. Are you on a diet? Yes. I have lost a lot of weight. I used to weigh two, 23, I'm 195 as of this morning. I'm quite fit and thin.

But still strong and thick. Yeah, I did a video about it four weeks ago on the podcast channel. If you go back to maybe the last third or fourth episode, you'll find it.

I talked about the the journey and what I did to lose the weight. It was about an hour long in the intro. So you can go check that out. I covered everything there.

I wanted to get myself in proper conditioning again because I felt you know the shirt buttons getting tight. I remember I put a shirt on, you know, before a show and I'd start to button it and it's like the buttons roll.

I'm looking like they're going to pop and shit. And I got I got to put that one back on the shelf. That's my, you know, that's my skinny shirt from when I was actually in really good shape and had apps.

So I want to just bring that back and that's why I did it.

The lesbian from Wilson's daughter came from her mother. Okay. Well, it's not his daughter, but it's still one of the kids he raised. So he had, you know, he had influence on them.

But it is what it is. Yeah, I just I just didn't see a clear winner in it. I didn't see either one of them is clear winners. If anybody was a clear winner, it was probably PBD for hosting and selling shoes and Candace for making $300,000.

I don't know if Wilson got his money's worth. I don't even know where the money came from actually. I know there was a fundraiser at give go send or something like that.

And they raised last I saw was $78,000 of the $300,000 goal. He doesn't strike me as a wealthy man or a man that's done something to accumulate wealth in the past with the business. I'm sure he does pretty good with YouTube and selling the bait con courses.

So I wonder if what was it turning point USA might have given him the money or topped it up or contributed.

But I'm sure he had to put in some of his own money. I mean, I try to think about it like what I pay $100,000 to get in front of a bunch of eyeballs like what I pay a hundred grand to go on Joe Rogan's podcast.

No, I'd rather have a natural conversation with him because he wants to talk. I don't know. I don't know what that was about somebody must have funded that. I wonder if I wonder if turning point USA funded it just it just doesn't make sense from that angle, right?

Because he's already Andrew Wilson's already been on Joe Rogan twice. So we got a ton of exposure there. He routinely is on peers Morgan. So he gets good exposure there.

He's known. I mean, there's no question about it. So I don't know. I like it seems like there was a force pushing from his side. And I guess only he'll know or the people that he might have told, but maybe that'll come out at some point we'll find out.

Anyway, let's get into this over here. I got a bunch of tabs open. And I'd like to get through them with you. However, let's see here.

Sorry, I've got a bunch of these. I'm trying to align them here for this.

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Max says, Hey, rich from what you've seen is dating in your 30s easier than your 20s currently 29 and eventually want kids just not at the moment. I see lots of people may have settling and marrying at my age.

Yeah, my advice to guys is don't get married. First of all, there's a chapter in my first book, the unplugged alpha. I talk about why smart men don't marry.

Like I said earlier, you know, you can love a woman. You can be in a relationship with a woman. You can even have children with a woman and just not live in a way that looks like marriage to the government that's very detrimental to most guys lives.

There's also the element of the more time you spend with her and I have a few tabs. I want to talk about that tonight. The more likely it is that she'll punish you and be difficult and become more cold and distant as you give more, she'll take more and you'll get less back in return.

So I think that waiting. Look, some people might have infinity. They like marriage like the idea. It's religious. It's cultural. Whatever happens to be I would say wait till you're mid to late 30s.

Mary woman that's younger. Probably. I mean, if you're let's say 38 when you're at your SMV peak. Nothing wrong with a 23 year old.

Completely legal. She's going to be younger fertile have many years ahead of her to bear a ton of your sons.

So I mean, look, if you're hell bent on it, that's the way that I would do it. But to your question of is dating in your 30s easier than your 20s.

Generally, yes, you have more game. You still look very good. You haven't aged that much yet. You don't you shouldn't have any grays. I don't remember getting any grays until my early 40s really.

Your skin still looks tight. You don't have wrinkles, your handsome. You've got more money. You probably have your own place by now. You've been travel a little bit and you've got some notches under your belt.

So you will find it easier in your 30s. I will say this though, as you get older, you'll find it harder to date women that aren't annoying or retarded.

Maybe Andrew Wilson is right and all women are retarded.

But as you get older, you will find it more difficult. It doesn't matter like how good of a shape you're in, how much money you got, what cards you drive.

You're going to have a harder time getting younger women, unless you're extremely popular.

Leonardo DiCaprio comes to mind, right? You're going to probably get 10 to 15, maybe 20 years younger than you.

But you're going to have a lot of passion for a young handsome guy with a plan and some ambition. You don't have to have anything. But you're working on the law degree.

You're getting a startup off the ground sort of thing. Like, you know, she'll be patient with you because you're still young and you got a lot of runway ahead of you where they get really frustrated with men.

I've noticed is when they're older, they don't have a lot of patience for a 40 year old with a plan. 23 year old with a plan. Good stuff.

40 year old with a plan. And not so much. You better be really good looking like 10 out of 10, good looking. If you want to get some play from the ladies because they don't really have a lot of time for an older guy. That's a broken the joke. I'll say that.

Anyway, thanks for the super chat. Do you guys can drop your questions in the live chat and I will pop them up on the screen as they see them.

Let's do the tabs I got over here. So this is a common question that I see on the internet's these days on Reddit threads from guys dealing with the send me an Uber checks.

I would qualify this as like princess treatment. It's like you're planning the date. You're paying for the date. You're making the reservation. You got to entertain her and all that sort of shit. And she's going to argue, well, I have to put on all this makeup and wash my hair and get up on some clothes and.

So they want you, of course, to pay everything and entertain them. And now they want you to send them transportation. So I don't know if you can see this.

Top bid here says guy asked two women out on dates in the same week. They both asked them to pay their Uber to get to the date. Let's have a read here. So it's just thoughts on Uber money or paying for Uber's I guess what it is here.

So I'm going to ask two women out on a date this week and they both asked me to pay for their Uber to come to the date. He says number one, I can't afford that.

If you believe broke man don't deserve love and affection, then just don't respond. I don't have energy to deal with you.

And two, it rub me the wrong way because it felt like I had to pay for a woman to come to get to know me. Yeah, that's basically what these checks are doing. They're like, I'm testing you to see if you're worthy of me.

So not only are you going to pay for the date, I also want you to send a car for me so that I don't have to drive. So I can drink as much as I want or I don't have to find transportation or pay for my own transportation or pay for parking.

You send me a car. And so he says, so I pay for the date and your transport to and from the day it just rose me the wrong way and I wanted to hear other people's thoughts on this. I believe as a human, I deserve to go on a date with a part you don't deserve shit guys.

You're not entitled to anything in this world. I deserve to go on a date with a person a person me like are you gay? Are you dating a man or a woman see this is the broad language that you see the matrix is shoving down everybody's throat.

The word partner instead of boyfriend girlfriend husband wife or spouse, the usual partner now everybody's using it.

Go on a date with a person are you just fucking tell the world are you straight. I want to go on a date with the check. If you're if you're gay, fine, be a homo, it doesn't matter.

I'm not bothered just be more impeccable with your wording guys. Right. I believe as a human, I deserve to go on a date that is genuinely excited to come to get to know me not someone looking for an all expense paid vacation.

Well, that's modern women today. If you look at the comments over here, Kay, who's a hot chick, it looks like over here, soft life, high standards, I move on a different purpose.

She says it's called courting a woman, men wanted equality and dating. Sorry, men wanting equality and dating is crazy. I never have been in a situation situation where I had to ask the guys always offered.

That's hilarious. Men wanting equality and dating is crazy. I mean, is it really I'm not for it. Like when I go out.

You know, I pay I take care of shit. That's just that's just me, but I'm at that place and I like doing that because I have expectations back and return from her.

But chicks today, you know, they're all like, we don't make enough money and the patriarchy oppresses us and we only get paid 70 cents and every dollar and we deserve a place in the work to and our bodies are choice and blah, blah, fucking blah.

You know, we live in a feminist utopia. But except for when it comes to dating, then then they want to be like, oh, well, I want to be courted.

That's different. You know, I want to go and be a boss girl and wear my padded shoulders and go to the law firm and get everything done the way that it should be done and argue with people all day long. But when it comes time for date, send me a car.

Right. Another chick said, if men don't want to act high class, then they shouldn't try and date high class women, by the way.

Wow. I am guessing there's probably if I scroll down here and I just put the top comment, it'll say something, let's see what this guy here, a lot of women love equality.

But it been sorry when it benefits them, but hate equality when it doesn't, if he has to pay for his own ride or drive himself, she can too.

My first real date with my wife was taking her on a short hike. The next was a museum, neither cost much, but we've got to talking to know each other more beginning to expect these poor guys in the cities are just being used and abused for free entertainment.

And there is some truth to that. But here's the thing guys.

When a woman has genuine desire for you, she will not make you jump through hoops. You do not, she's not going to demand a car to come pick her up. She'll find her own way there or she'll let you pick her up or some alternative version or she might even come directly over to your place or ask and invite you over to her place because you're that hot.

But when she's more indifferent towards you, she'll make you jump through her hoops to earn her attention and affection.

And that's the modern princess that you get today in the dating landscape. I like luxury items, I like attention, I send me a car, blah, blah, blah, sort of thing. You're just going to get that.

The only way that you're going to avoid it.

Honestly is just money is not going to be a problem for you. So ascension as in close proximity that's the top shelf as possible.

And having more optionality so that if there's a chick that just becomes bratty and you just don't like her, she's getting annoying, just block her, tell her fuck off ignore or whatever, you know, you just don't

get the adults because you've got more agreeable, you know, interesting captivating options that you've cultivated.

So there's that, right? But it's an unfortunate consequence. I mean, the guy's clearly struggling with money.

I mean, he's talking about being a broke boy, but he's still able to get a date. So he's so here's what it boils down to. He's good looking enough to get a date.

He's broke enough that he worries about paying, I don't know, what an Uber ride would cost average distance, maybe 20 bucks could be more, could be less.

I mean, I sometimes have to take an Uber to my shop to get a car and it's, you know, it's not much, honestly.

I mean, I wouldn't faint it, but I guess at the same point, you know, if she's being bratty and bitchy, I'd also be like, yeah, I got better things to do.

I got better options, but anyway, here's another example that popped up in a thread and some people were like, oh, this isn't real. This is fake. This is an Indian account.

Look, man, I've, I've seen versions of this before. You know what? You won't even be able to see it on the screen. So I'm just going to read it out to you.

So I'm just going to read it out as him, her, him. Hey, what time are you thinking tomorrow? Her, whatever works for you, him. Does six sound good? Her, perfect. I'm so excited. It's so yummy. Him, me too.

I'll try not to be the usual messy taco eater. Don't judge smiley face. Her, did you look at the menu? I have to look at the menu before I go anywhere because I need to feel prepared.

Him, OMG, it does look good. I want to get everything. Have you been? Do you have any recommendations? Her. I usually do the burger one and the Nashville chicken.

I got to switch over to the next page. My friends like the bang bang shrimp, one and the Nashville and tuna. Him. Oh, I think I'm going to go for the shrimp and Nashville for sure. Are you a Keso person?

Her is the sun the biggest planet. Him, few good. We're getting Keso to them. Perfect. Her. And that was the end of the thread from that day.

At 402, the next day of the date. Him. Hey, maybe a silly question, but it's the banditos in Pentagon City, right? Her. It is. Yeah.

But I hadn't heard from you all day. So I assumed it wasn't on and I made other plans. Isn't that interesting? All excited.

Banta back and forth. All cutesy stuff and fun Z. And then she cancels the date because he didn't confirm it that morning.

And you know, this does happen. This is not this is not a made up story. Maybe this is made up and they wrote it out and they scripted it doesn't look like it to me. It looks like a chat thread.

But you know, some guys here in the comments, they're like, yeah, I would have canceled the date at her calling the son of planet.

If you're a little slow to that joke, the son is a star, not a planet. Anyway.

Yeah, there's there's some interesting dialogue back and forth in this. This chick, Lilian here said plans were locked in the night before mutual excitement and menu talk. A morning confirmation text is nice, but not a contractual requirement.

She could have just as easily sent the quick still on for six question mark instead of assuming and making other plans. You're good king next. Yeah, I mean.

Something in the morning from her would have been a good positive indication looking forward to seeing you tonight. We're still on for six.

You want me to wear anything special, you know, like those would have been good indicators of interest.

You didn't really need to confirm that morning. I mean, can you sure is it necessary? Maybe in today's sexual marketplace, it like it avoids confusion, it avoids potential problems.

But then again, at the same time, you know, maybe you're the kind that's just like, you know what, if this grown ass adult can't fucking stick to the plan. And I have to babysit her this early on. Maybe you don't want to deal with a check like that. Maybe that's your thing. So you don't firm up.

You can go any number of ways. But that's just a good example of, you know, just the way the sexual marketplace and things have changed dramatically over the years of the Adventist smartphones and social media, you know.

I think it was around 2005, six or so when I started first seeing dating apps getting popular. That obviously dates me.

I was like, lemon tonic, plenty, plenty of fish, lava life.

Those are like the early names that I can seem to remember. And you didn't run into problems like this. There was no like tick-tock challenges where you have to like challenge the guy make him jump through hoops for a date and then record it and put it on your tick-tock for cloud.

But believe it or not, that stuff that happens today.

You know, women asking for princess treatment, luxury sort of stuff.

They're also a lot of the times just looking for a beta provider.

Most of the guys, we know this for a fact, right? Most of the guys, women don't find that attractive on dating apps. The vast majority of them.

They look at their swiping habits. I posted this hour long documentary video in my school community the other day.

And it sort of broke down the revenue model for dating apps and how women use it and how often they swipe right versus left the same thing with guys. And it's like the margins are wild, man.

And a lot of women look at options on dating apps and they say, not I'm good. And it's a left swipe or whatever.

And for the ones that they do go right on again, there's always the two categories. And I said this many times, there's always these two categories. You'll drop the call on link for you guys forgot to do that earlier in case anybody's got questions.

They have the GBD, the genuine burning desire in which case you don't need to jump through hoops. You'll literally come over on the first date. It does happen.

And the ones that they're indifferent to, right? Those are the ones that they're testing. Those are the ones that they're going to ask for things. Buy me a handbag. I want princess treatment. I want luxury items, you know, you're going to get those gals. Just don't waste your time.

Yeah.

I understand the dating marketplace kind of sucks and it's a bit of a headache, but you know, it's just it's just the numbers game guys. You got to play it. And that will happen.

We have another tab over here that I want to deal with when it comes to tattoos. And I've said this before it is in the red flag list red flag number 10 tattoos.

Having tattoos is related to lower intelligence and poor mental health.

I don't know if I can make this any bigger for you guys. There we go. Look at that.

No tattoos one or more small tattoos one or more big tattoos. You see a decline in intelligence and mental health. You're basically if you're dealing with chicks that have tattoos.

The more of them they have and the bigger they are, the dumber she's going to be the higher the probability that she's going to have mental health issues. There's a strong correlation between antidepressants, SSRIs and women covered in tattoos.

Remember, they're sitting in a chair for hours at a time and needles piercing them over and over and over again.

And quite often it's for the dumbest things they have. There's like no meeting. It's like a it's like an autistic four year old writing all over their skin or taking stickers and putting them all over their body like a random sticker book. You know, you see these chicks. It's like Lamborghini Kuntosh flower pot moon fish rainbow.

Lasso frisbee you know what I'm talking about right. It's like spending money to scribble shit on your body. There's clearly a correlation between low mental health and low intelligence and they're starting to see this in the studies and I called this shit back in 2019 and people said I was crazy.

I wrote about it my book it's documented my book. I'm probably one of the first people that started pointing to this as a red flag.

It's a it's a more modern occurrence today. In fact, more women today have tattoos and men by a small percentage.

I mentioned the story once before I'll drop it again because there's some of you that didn't hear it.

But I had a good friend of mine. It's still a good friend. He's ER doctor. So he sees emergency room traffic.

He was working in ER, shifting a hospital for a while at one point that you know just wasn't in a high class area. Let's just put it that way.

And a lot of the women that were coming in were tattooed right and they're dumb and they're lower on intelligence and they're of course, you know, mental health issues and financial issues and all that stuff.

That's the other thing we saw in another study a few weeks ago is that there's financial financial issues correlated with tattoos.

Usually the richer you are the fewer tattoos that you'll have. Anyway, and all of these gals that were coming in covered in tattoos they were coming in for STD test.

He said there was a there was an unquestionable it was so obvious to him correlation between women covered in tattoos and come and come in for STD test.

Right. And you know, of course, he's not there to diagnose mental health issues and you know intelligence, but you're pretty dumb if you get a STD. It's very simple.

Anyway, finally, oh, let's talk about the book and its cover. I have this tab over here.

And this woman is actually encouraging us to judge them by their appearance. Finally, a woman admits it, you should judge them by their appearance. Let's see what she has to say.

I'm going to hold your hand with an industrial paper towel when I tell you that your comments saying, no, is ring theory or literally doing the opposite of what you think they are.

I want to look this way. I want you to be able to look at me and see that I am a safe space and that I don't tolerate fucking bullshit. I want you to look at me and know, fuck Donald Trump, fuck men, honestly.

And fuck what's going on in the world right now. Fuck the genocide in Gaza. And fuck anybody who thinks any differently. Honestly, if I'm not for you, good.

Yeah, you're not for me. I'm good covered in tattoos, nose ring, attitude, green hair and shit. You can you can smell it through the lake here. Like I can smell it from here and it's nasty.

You should definitely judge a book bites cover. This is the first woman I've ever heard say judge book bites cover. I want you to know exactly what you're dealing with. This is this is the fact. This is why they're doing these things to their body. They want you to know who they are.

So pay attention when you know the poisonous frog warns you it is a poisonous frog with his brightly colors and you know shiny skin and a lot sort of stuff. Look at me like my attention. I'm different over here. You know, you should see me because I'm bad. I'm poisonous. Don't lick me.

That's basically what you know, these chicks are now saying. I don't care that you don't like my nose ring. I don't care that you don't like my green hair or my tattoos or my attitude or my opinions. I don't give a fuck.

That's what they're doing right now. That's fine. They're telling you who they are. So guys, it just makes it easier.

It just makes it easier for you. Right. You don't have to deal with it then. Very, very simple.

I dropped this post the other day and it went absolutely viral because the difference between men's dating advice and women's dating advice.

Men's dating advice consists of do the work. Make bank be captivating. Be competent. Build muscle like build a strong mask and frame. Develop a high value social social record and so on and so forth. Like take ownership. Be accountable. That sort of stuff.

If you listen to what women's dating advice is on the internet, it sounds a lot like girl, you're perfect the way that you are. You should never settle. Be a total horror. Be as promiscuous as you want. It doesn't matter. Men do it. You can do it too. Have really high standards. Be a princess.

Demand luxury items. Right. You know, you're worth girl. You know, your body, your choice. Bob, Bob, right. Like you'll keep hearing.

You're totally different set of stories that women consume versus men. You know, and it's all over social media. If you if you go to like TikTok, I'm sure there's collages or there's like highlight reels. People sent into me all the time. I haven't got any cute up in this one. But

it's like some notion of a chick telling other checks. Like there are some kind of like women's empowerment coach some fucking, you know, I've got like key powers into the future when I run my crystal ball or my energy crystals wherever happens to be.

And there'd be like, sign up now, but

You're perfect the way that you are. It doesn't matter. My ex husband was a bed of a bed just do whatever you want. Be a boss girl. Have super high standards. You're a total princess.

You can do better. Hold out for more. Dump that guy. You know, don't let him talk to you that way and I'll kind of shit.

And it's like their minds get polluted with this shit.

And it's like, hey, listen, man, it gets frustrating. I know that it's frustrating frustrating for guys dating. It also gets frustrating for guys that are also in long term relationships when their girl is consuming crap online.

Podcasts call her daddy, social media posts and stuff like that. That tell her, you don't need to tolerate this. Don't let them talk to you that way.

And then they go and like cause havoc in the relationship, right? And you're just going to guys that's the modern world that we deal with today.

The answer to all of this, the remedy, the solution, the antidote, if you will, is just to be as handsome as you can possibly be and as valuable as you can possibly

And when you've done that, you will have optionality. You can move away from problems. You can just say, no, I'm not going to tolerate that. I don't deal with women that behave and certain whatever way sort of thing.

And you just find, you know, okay, that blood sucks. Maybe we've been heartbroken for a while, but you know, you'll move on. You'll do better.

Same thing with you know, dating, you know, she's a pain in your ass. She's making you making demands. You're at her near the top shelf. Fine.

Scot your phone. All right. This one's a bitch. I'll fucking it's, you know, this girl up to what's that girl up to you can sort of go around that way. And that's how you kind of move past it, guys.

Conses, is there somewhere you have a collection of these red pill related studies. Yeah, they're all in the videos.

I put them up on the screen. The one with the tattoos is the most interesting. If you search on my YouTube channel, this YouTube channel, there's seven studies that were done on tattoos showing how bad they are.

And how undesirable they are for men. These are all studies on women, by the way. And how undesirable these women are to men. And why you should reject them. So there's a long video that I covered on that. I had the studies up on the screen. You can go check it out.

Just go to the search part and go seven studies on tattoos and you should find it pretty easily.

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All right baby let's do this so we've got a DM up next from a viewer. I got this DM I think on Instagram it reads hey rich I love the content I'm 31 have been dating a woman who is 39.

Pause for effect.

For the past year I asked the right questions early on and she told me she had been married.

Marriage ended because the guy was abusive and cheated on her.

Her story so many times now.

How many times do you think it's actually true.

Fast forward six months or so to Valentine's Day I asked her if sorry I asked if her friend had been married and her response was I think once but not three times like the girlfriend.

As you can imagine that was a shock to me.

Facts of it are is that she has no children never divorced for money all marriages were dissolved in assets never in the conversation.

Believe that we are going through somewhat of a struggle breakup right now as she is getting really into her Christian faith.

So before guys religion is where horrors go to retire and I have never been religiously focused I do see benefits to it and it reaffirms many of the disciplines I already have in my life other than the marriages.

Open this to read the rest of it.

Other than the marriages the way she with held it at first and some emotional baggage everything else is great.

Lifestyle align she does all the things I want a woman to do supports and roots for me and gain her feelings for me while I was in a tough spot career wise.

And I had nothing going for me at the time any brief thoughts on advice would be helpful also she is not wanting kids and I also do not want kids of your content.

Says.

So I replied to him and I said.

Just just dealing with the most obvious problem here the most obvious problem is that she's older than you she's an old bag she's 39 like.

Not having kids is isn't a choice for her it's it's pretty much a reality right like you know she's been married three times every it was everybody else's fault but hers you know sort of thing it's like.

This is what a lot of guys do like you might as well write to me hey Rich i'm going to do something really retarded can you cosine it for me so this retarded shit that I'm going to do i'm going to feel good about right.

And it's just like just don't man like I would have said no at 39 like you're 31 she's 39 that may not seem like that big of a deal right now but.

You know when you're going to be fucking 40 she's going to be like practically 50 and women don't age the same way as men right they don't hold on a college in the way that men do their skin gets saggy or wrinkly or faster and stuff like that so she's going to age faster not just that you may change your mind about kids.

Not just that she's been married three times not just that I didn't hear any ownership about why the marriages dissolve she only said she was married once not three times like her friend said so she left that interesting part of the story out.

But you know again the story was that they were abusive and cheated on her or he was abusive and cheated on her she's referring to the last marriage what about the other two.

Right like either like there's no accountability there.

But you're not going to get that from many checks so my advice is.

Let's just go with Andrew Wilson statement all women are retarded.

And if you're going to deal with them instead of dealing with a old bag deal with a younger hunter check right.

Man they all got problems don't they but nobody writes me with like hey this chick was perfect right nobody gets online and being like hey man this chick was amazing let me let me tell you all about the perfection they just don't just sort of live it but it's rare to rare today's world.

All right in this episode of why women should not be cops which I speak about many of times and I would like to draw your attention to this video clip that was sent to me and it is Toronto police actually.

And there's a.

A darkly skin man he looks black looks like he has an afro he's wearing a hoodie here and he's destroying the cop car and the female cop well you can watch it and see what you think for yourself let me see if I can make this a little bit bigger.

Broke the back window.

Front window she's running around the car and doing absolutely nothing not teasing him he's doing the front window again.

And she's staying opposite from him on the car he's throwing the stone again at the window and again that's four times now she's not doing anything no tays.

Nothing now he's throwing the rock at the cop and she's doing absolutely she's just running around the car.

I mean why are we putting women in harm's way here guys why is this okay women don't need to be in law enforcement they don't need to be in firefighting they don't need to be in the military the cars fucking trash she did nothing to stop it and he's still there he's not even running away he's literally still here.

And where's this cop oh he's throwing the stone that are going on a street now.

You see what I'm saying guys like there's a contingent of the population that's just an absolute piece of shit okay and then you put women that are softer weaker less capable less resourceful than men are in a dangerous situation with somebody like this I mean no wonder she's really good.

She's running away and she's got the capability to stop this guy she contains them I would imagine by the time he's throwing the rock at her I would think she has a right to shoot him at that point because her life is in danger now.

She doesn't do any of that shit she just runs down a street like an absolute coward while he destroys a car and throws rocks around and again I mean would this go different with a male police officer I absolutely believe so I.

I know that I would handle the situation completely different right I'm at least the same size bigger so I'm not threatened by an imposing shape she's a little woman like you can see in the video she's not that big.

And he's clearly to range throwing walks at a cop car why I don't know but why put women in harm's way why put your your sisters your daughters in harm's way like this.

In the name of equality well if men can be cops women should be cops to yeah.

The kind of suck it in forcing the law you put them in harm's way they can get hurt pretty badly right their bone structure is in the strong as men they're not they don't have as much upper body strength I can't count how many videos I've seen online a women getting the shit kicked out of them by.

You know block eyes like this routinely it's not.

But let's you know let's keep putting women in harm's way let these dudes throw rocks at them in the cop cars and stuff like that.

Let's have a conversation about the three it is so there's a new your post headline that says I live in a home just one mile from my husband and our marriage is now better than ever.

Now I talked about the three it is in my second book the top shelf man it's available on Amazon if you haven't read it please it's rather good it's actually in my opinion about her book the first one even though many more copies the first one or sold.

But in the top shelf man the most recent one on Amazon I talked about the three it is there's a chapter that breaks it down completely I actually did a video on the three it is on this channel.

Around the time I release the book so you can go back maybe nine or ten months or so you probably find it.

Watch that bit but essentially using this story as you know an offering to prove my point really.

Let's just have a read here I'm not going to bother putting a screen because you don't need to read words but says absence may really make the heart grow fonder.

They say at home is where the heart is but for some couples it's actually where their spouse isn't glad they use the word spouse instead of partner that's nice to see for change.

From our cell a hill that meant making the unconventional decision to move into her own apartment less than a mile from her husband.

The hill is going viral after posting video reshared on X by historian USA one claiming the unconventional setup has transformed the relationships sparking commentary from both sides of the aisle with many couples saying sleeping under separate roofs is actually brought them closer.

The three it is our familiarity proximity and exclusivity and the more of these women have an long term relationship the worst should usually end up treating you.

You're under the same roof she's around you all the time there's no opportunity for absence to make the heart grow fonder she's very familiar with your mannerisms your habits where you brush your teeth how you fart your shit stains in your toilet all that stuff things that start to annoy women when you lift the other things that don't exist when you're dating by the way.

When you're living in separate residences they don't happen then do they but they do happen when you are married living under the same roof.

The other question if it's just beginning the end the setup is known as living apart together LAT has quietly become more common over the past two decades it's interesting I had a conversation with a gal a couple years ago I was on a podcast and they were divorced parents both of them they both had kids and they lived.

Aways apart I want to say three or four hours apart and they were married and their kids were kind of teens and they didn't want to blend families and moving together and disrupt either side so they decide to get married live in separate residences and raise your kids that way you can actually do that there's nothing illegal about it and they both remarked at how successful things were for them you know living apart together sort of thing.

She has a video can I click this reshare on x video will it play.

I'll here we go check shows a video so let's skip reading the article and let's hear what she has to say.

My husband lives in our house less than a mile away and I live in an apartment complex just down the street because I just don't want to forget live there anymore the way he lives the way I live very very different it was not working very very long time.

But we love each other we didn't actually want to get divorced nobody done anything there was no mass of drama it was kind of like I just can't be here anymore so I left.

That was very scary I thought I was blowing up my life which I kind of did I guess that was kind of the point but here is what's bananas is that it has been good for everybody everybody including him he's painting walls he has a lot of things to do.

Everybody including him he's painting walls he is redecorating the man is doing things I I've not seen him do ever he's feeding himself turns out grown men compete themselves he's hanging out with new friends he's regularly taking care of the lawn.

Meanwhile I am getting my ass to the gym regularly eating to nourish my body taking long walks I'm building my company on a regular basis we're spending more family time together than we ever did before even my body it's nervous system or something I don't know how to explain this but most of my life after having babies I live in like a constipated state.

That's not the case anymore and I didn't do anything different I just showed up to this new life my body's like oh we're not stuck anymore we're good to go my husband and I we are on and off but right now we're in like a dating mode we see each other as individuals I go to his house and if he makes dinner I can help him with the dishes and I was like is this how you always felt he's like yeah oh like this is what I'm doing.

I'm happy to help you with your decision sir and if he comes to my apartment and takes a garbage out he's like helping me the take a garbage out it's not like he's taking his own garbage out and then try to get credit for helping me you know what I mean so so far it's been amazing but rent comes due for the first time in a month so that could change quickly I'll give you busted.

Ah well somebody's got to pay the rent who's going to pay it so he's going to have to pay the rent and the house.

Yeah somebody pointed in the comments she's not the most attractive gal in the world she definitely looks heavy set that's for sure by the arms and the upper body but you know good for them it's working out it's working out and they both seem they both sound happy the way that it was described.

It's quite interesting.

Because it very strongly echoes my observations about three it is and the importance about managing them and I don't think that either one of these two people taught themselves oh well I've read Rich's book we should manage the three it is better and live apart but interestingly every time I come across videos talking to somebody whatever happens to be on a LAT type of relationship living apart together.

They're always happy.

Usually what ends up happening at some point when you're dating one of the two usually the one that needs the other more will say something like hey I have a great idea we should move in together we'll save on you know we'll save on rent we can split utilities we don't have to travel anymore we can wake up every morning together in the same bed which all sounds finding cute and like a good idea off the bat.

Until she learns your mannerisms and habits are pretty annoying you know clean up after yourself you don't put things in the pantry cover the way that she likes it you're fucking up her 17 throw pillows on the bed when you're you know sitting or whatever you're not putting your white socks on the white hamper and your dark socks in the dark

and you're brushing your teeth in the wrong place and getting toothpaste somewhere on the floor that's annoying to her and slowly but surely she becomes very familiar with your habit she comes very familiar with your schedule and she's in close proximity to you and she's also got a hundred percent certainty of your sexual exclusivity to her because where else are you except for on her lap all the time as a laptop.

So that's why managing the three eighties and again you can learn more about that in the chapter or go back and find the podcast that I did breaking it down from the author's perspective.

Interestingly like I've said in shows before I just happen to be right again just like I said I'm going to get a t-shirt.

Rich is right. Rich is right. We've talked about GBD before I want to share a very obvious example of GBD that was brought to my attention.

I don't know who this is she's an actress is that Miele Giova Vitch or something I'm not exactly sure.

Let's have a listen to her over here but she's correcting the photographer the press she's correcting the press because the press used her maiden name and she corrected them to the matrimonial name let's have a listen here.

And it's Calvin one more time.

You're telling baby.

Very cute girl correcting the press very strongly as well and loving the fact that she is Mrs. Sprouse now and that's what genuine burning desire looks like.

2024 Ms. Palvin I don't know who palvin is.

And then she does a little dip before she walks away proudly a woman that doesn't have genuine burning desire for a man will not take his last name.

She'll want to maintain her last name posting upsholes because that's what the modern feminist wants to do because they're strong and independent right kind of maintain that.

A woman that truly loves a man and has genuine desire for will want to change her name there is no inconvenience going to the driver's license office or the health office or whatever office you have to go to update their records with your new legal name.

They proudly do it because now she's fully latched her trailer to his life and that's what genuine burning desire looks like.

You have a super chat over here thanks for this.

This is completely random but if you got in a street fight with somebody who was punching as well as throwing kicks.

How do you think your boxing skills would work? Well first of all you try to avoid a street fight you run.

That's always the first response to conflict in the street is if you have an exit you exit you don't know if the guys got a gun a shiv.

If you end up on the ground if there's three more guys coming around the corner and 35 seconds you don't.

If there's a threat in its industry you don't need to be a tough guy and fight and throw hands just leave that that would be the first move.

Your next option if you're back in our corner is throw hands well and hit hard fast so that's my take on that thanks for the super chat.

I did a little bit of a query on this and I wanted to find out what happened with AOC and her fiance Riley Roberts the Dork.

Let me see if I can find it here. So yeah I did a quick dig.

They've met as undergrads at Boston University Data and College briefly split after graduation later reconnected and got engaged in 2022 Puerto Rico her family's hometown.

Relationship largely stayed private they were last widely photographed together in 2021 Met Gala.

Though some later sightings such as May 2026 restaurant photo were noted amid the rumors AOC stop wearing her engagement ring.

Well before public reports and new surfaced around the same time she publicly discussed freezing her eggs if you missed it there was a video of her actually doing an injection to sort of move through the egg freezing process.

AOC is the client of comment on her private life when asked it's classy no verified statement from Roberts has been reported also classy speculation from anonymous sources appeared out of which is daily why I want to the possible power and balance as her political profile grow sharply while he remained mostly behind the scenes and a marketing web development role.

I've said this before many times women hate being with a guy of lower value them and as her political career ascended even though she's retarded even though she's just a bartender with no fucking real life skills popularity you know vote again getting her political you know position solidified being cited in the same way as the other party.

And reference to videos articles whatever happened to be.

She's become more popular and clearly a higher profile or higher value than her fiance.

He also looks very dorky not a handsome man not a doesn't look like a very masculine man either so my assessment of this would be women don't want to have the seat of a loser because she saw herself as far better.

He's kind of fat and not the greatest looking so she said I'm out peace out and then she went started freezing her eggs at 30 wonder how old she is I'm actually curious.

How old is a OC.

She is 36 years old October 13th 1989.

I mean yeah go freeze your eggs man go freeze your eggs.

Alright let's carry on here.

Let me drop the call and link again if you guys have a question you can drop it in the super chat happy to respond to that on screen or you can use a call and link I just dropped it in the feed.

And the unplugged alpha I talked about women's attraction towards violent men and I spoke about it even more in the top shelf man when I was sort of getting into the notion of Jacelle and Tom Brady and their divorce and hybrid.

Google researchers sorry Google researcher has discovered that porn featuring violence against women is more popular among women than men.

We've brought up books in the past that women buy the best sellers come for big foot milking minotaur farm whatever that one was called from the other week.

And with the data that I put in my first book with women's attraction to violent men I know that their porn search habits and their and their smut habits for these books like these romance books.

But not what you think they are like a guy romances a woman and politely asks you know her out and buys her flowers and dinner and they go dancing and he gives her box of chocolates that's not what women read women are reading books on pirates surgeons I think Jack the Ripper.

Wolves are not was Wolverines you know those human wolf characters vampires and billionaires with fetishes obviously so that's that's what women like you know women have an attraction to violence and I have a little clip over here.

Oh no hang on it. So my screen closed just before the show so I'd restart the computer I was going to go back to my feed and pull it up give me one second because it was recent here.

It's a repost and there's a Brazilian jujitsu kid Mikey something other I can't remember his name I've seen him on the Joe Rogan podcast before.

And Jake shields commented on this he said he's a MMA guy said I've been more than guys about this for over decade just to be ridiculed and told him insecure this is my entire world for 25 years so I understand how it works.

In the past year men are finally realizing it's not smart to allow another man to manhandle your girl.

And let's put this up on the screen I want to show you the video here of Mikey training with this attractive young girl over here.

And you'll see some of the folding that he does with her.

Hey guys so now I'm going to teach her he comes off as a really geeky guy but apparently he's one of the most talented MMA fighter when it comes to groundwork.

Offslay sir actually use this position a lot against a lot of high level people so I think it's a really cool move for her to learn so let's do it.

So we're here I go for the foot lock she turns okay as she turns the Fendi I'm going to bury my legs down.

All right as I bury I'm going to start going to your body here as I go to your body I'm going to bring my hip down I'm going to bring my body up and put my body down.

So what I'm trying to do is like put this into your hips like this with the Catholic you see how strong that become yeah yeah now I want you to learn a.

Basically hump in her from behind.

So I'm going to try and just a lot of two attacks on them okay so lead on so here yeah I'm holding your heart like this when I do okay yeah my knee comes up now switch your hand to this now as I switch from this to this yeah I go my like I bring my head and shove my Johnson in your face.

I now from here I can you say so hug my body bring this me up to my head yeah now call her time you with this one now my head with this one yeah not switch it's going to slammer snapper right in his mouth.

Just hands it here now throw this like over my head.

Yes now bring it under your like yes better we do it now just bring your hip into me bring her down.

Yeah let's run.

Yeah let's run.

Oh my god.

It's strong it's a lot more than the neck and the choke there.

Okay.

I'm going to use this.

Imagine you're a dude in your girlfriend your wife goes hey babe I'm going to sign up for a Brazilian jujitsu class I'm going to learn how to roll.

And you're like okay who's teaching a class and she shows you a picture of this guy Mikey with his glasses on.

Sounding kind of dorky and you probably would think to yourself the most average plugged in beta male would be like f whatever get out of the house you don't get out of my way sort of thing.

But this is exactly how Jizelle Bundenshin and Tom Brady's marriage ended when she started taking their kids to Brazilian jujitsu.

And then she thought to herself well they roll with the instructor and he's kind of cute.

And he's got the capacity for violence because he's a MMA fighter.

I would like to learn Brazilian jujitsu true and Tom Brady goes okay no problem I'll see you later.

I got some footballs to throw around not thinking that it could be a problem.

This is a very very interesting dynamic that men need to pay attention to.

This is the whole concept of frame in an LTR like you have to be able to say no look you want to you want to learn how to roll and fight.

I don't think that's necessary it's better if I take care of that shit you cook and clean.

But if you insist on it and you want to do the exercise find a female instructor female only class that's the only way that I'll co-sign this.

So I from that all you have to say is I don't take women seriously that role with men on a mat.

I'm not going to date you I'm not going to be married to you.

I just don't take women seriously that do that weird shit.

That's exactly how Tom Brady and Jazelle broke up.

I was born at night. I was born last night. That's it. That's all you got to say.

And they go and do it. Okay. You have to you have to take the next steps and move on.

But a good woman that truly loves you. She won't do anything like that.

If a woman really loves a man she'll never do anything to ruin the relationship.

There was a post here that I saw on my feed about United Kingdom schools are now teaching young boys how to treat women and girls with full respect.

That's the title of it. Now I kind of have a hunch where this is going.

So I did a little query here.

And I wanted to find out what the curriculum looks like.

What their plan is for this. I know what it is. We'll we'll get to that in a second when I start to read it.

I'm sure it'll become obvious to all of us.

So the statement online didn't have detailed curriculum itself or a claim to it aside from that it's going to teach men or some boys,

young boys how to treat women and girls with full respect.

So here's what we dug up. We'll be a little bit of investigation on this.

On a primary level, foundational positive attitudes to relationships, friends, family peers, emphasis on kindness, respect, boundaries, consent basics, and recognizing abusive behavior.

So children know how to seek help age appropriate and sequenced for the boys.

Now I'm hearing some words there that are like not conducive to what women are generally attracted to.

Like people often ask me rich, why are why are men so soft today? Why do we have so many plugged in beta males today?

And it's like it's stuff like this that programs boys to be in condition socially retarded, right? Like they're not calibrated to what women respond to.

We can you well it says right off the bat the emphasis is going to be on kindness, respect.

Let's just stop with those two words. How many women have slept with men? How many how many men have worked their way into a woman's life and intimate life through kindness and respect?

Not that often.

You have to be a little mean to keep them keen. We said this before.

Respect within reason, right?

But stuff like this you know where it goes because it's curriculum taught by old feminist women.

Probably with a bunch of cats and no man in their life. And they want to paint this ideal picture, this idealist utopia of the way the went like the world should work.

So they want to brainwash and the school system young boys to basically become plugged in beta males. Now there's a secondary level to this as well that came up, which is a lot of work.

And so as well that came up, which has a stronger focus.

Helping boys and pupils identify positive male role models and develop positive conceptions of masculinity and femininity.

Well, we already know that the United Kingdom hates and rotate. I understand that and rotate is being summoned back to the UK for trial for nefarious behavior.

We do know that 85% of women that file great allegations to police officers are lying and they're usually doing it to cover up bad choices or cheating or something like that.

And I know that for a fact because I know a 20 year veteran in the force that investigated them. And that's the data that he came up with.

You know, positive male role models. So who are they like who are these positive male role models? Who are they going to pick? What is their vision for that?

Because we definitely know that it's not do push ups, make money, be captivating, be strong, learn how to fight, be resourceful, know how to change a tire, know how to jump start a car for the batteries dead.

Right, like standard fucking guys shit like regular guy stuff. It goes on to say challenging myths about women in relationships spread online, recognize and in challenging misogyny, sexist language behavior, harmful stereotypes, and online content that normalizes unhealthy attitudes.

Namely me. Because they don't want you to know the truth. And anything.

The truth will sound like hate to those that hate the truth. That's really just what it boils down to.

So this so this new curriculum coming soon to United Kingdom schools. Well, like you're going to see a new generation of plug in beta males being spit out endlessly.

And you know, keep in mind, they're importing fucking people like crazy African migrants are taking votes across the English Channel all the fucking time.

Right. So they're softening the domestic population while allowing in unregulated, they don't do any background checks, nothing, you know, these illegal migrants who are fucking 99% men of military fighting age.

That country's going to go downhill so fast, man. The impact of pornography does not reflect real relationships with links to misogyny.

Well, we just heard in the last data piece from Google engineers that women watch violent porn way more than men do.

But they're implying here that pornography, men's version of it anyway is completely offside. It's okay that women want to fuck a vampire in a wolf.

But a guy beaten off to a hot blonde on porn is like misogyny now. You see where this shit's going, right?

Online harms, AI, deep fakes, and cell culture, cell culture, cell contact, and shape sexual ethics and behavior, social media influence, recognizing manipulation, coercion, image space abuse, harassment, empathy, emotional intelligence, and promoting healthy relationships overall.

You can see why they're trying to lock up the tape brothers. Staying safe in public spaces alongside online.

Teachers should challenge ideas rather than the person expressing them avoid language that stigmatizes boys as inevitable for perpetrators or girls as inevitable victims. Oh, they put that in brackets.

And note that most boys young men are respectful. Anyway, this is coming soon to a school in the United Kingdom.

That'll be interesting to see how that plays out. There's women are going to want nothing to do with British boys. They're going to be banging all the fucking migrants, all the evil, you know, rapy, fucking violent ones.

All the boys are going to be plugged in beta males. That's that's what the country is trying to do. The English government hates its young citizens. That's that's what I'm taking from this.

Right. I didn't hear, you know, let's put boys through military training, make them do pushups every day, you know, make sure they're not fat fucks, get them to move more. Let's put them in chess clubs and get them to challenge their mind and develop strategies, you know, learn entrepreneurship.

You know, learn trade skills. Whatever it happens to be. It's it's just, you know, the default is all men are broken. So we're going to fix you with our feminist utopia of fucking nonsense. So let's have fun with that, guys. Let's have fun with that.

Oh, committee, you know, let's talk about committees again. I again remind you that women do make decisions by committee. The girlfriends or sisters.

We've seen data on this before, men on men phone calls are very short less than a few minutes usually pretty quick unless there's some business being discussed.

When women talk to other women, their girlfriends or mom, their coworkers, those conversations going for a long time, hours.

And I've said this before women make a lot of life decisions by a committee. They're they're always looking for the approval, the consensus of the board.

If all the women in the committee agree that you are handsome, competent, resourceful, desirable by other women, you're hot, okay. Then you're pretty much good.

But as soon as one of them doesn't like you, you're going to run into problems. Let me just read you the thread back and forth over here. Him.

Hey, yesterday was fun. We should hang out more often. Her. I'm sorry. Him. For what? Her. The last couple of weeks were fun with you. You're kind, smart and caring. But based on the pictures you sent of yourself, you looked handsome and tall. But when I met you in person, I was mistaken.

I told my friends I was I was talking to a super cute guy. But when they saw the sorry, but when they saw you, they started making fun of me. But sorry, I don't think we can work out because I don't want to be made fun of or laughed at because of you. So sorry.

Again, kind smart.

You know, this is the this is the shit that they wanted train boys in England. Kindness.

Right. She just dumped a guy because he's kind because he's not good looking enough.

I'm always right. I mean, you may not like what I have to say, but like I don't really miss the target that often. I'm just right.

I hate it, but I'm fucking right, man. It is what it is.

You've probably heard of this young man, Chris Williams is a YouTube channel.

That's quite well. Sorry, Chris Williams son.

And there was a video that I came across the other day where he asked the question, why marriage kills her sex drive.

And there was a panel of four sorry, three experts on this, including Mac and Murphy, who I've done an interview podcast with before.

He doesn't really like me. And Rob K Henderson, who also doesn't really seem to like me because he blocked me on exit one point. I'm unblocked now. So maybe he's changed his mind.

I don't know. But they didn't have the answer to this question. Why marriage kills her sex drive.

Now, I have a very strong theory about this, of course. I think it has quite a lot to do with what's in the chapter on the three it is proximity familiarity and exclusivity.

And I've said, and I'll play the video for you in a second, the more certainty that she has in all these areas, the less interested she will be in you managing these three it is the very.

It's it's key, right? If you want a relationship approximating something that looks like genuine burning desire from her over the long haul.

So I got this video and I'm going to play it. And let's have a listen here. Again, for the YouTube's, I know that you're going to have to review this at some point, but I am doing this to add commentary to the Williams and podcast here.

I think it's relevant to my skills and expertise. So I know I'm going to get a challenge on that at some point, because that's how YouTube works. Usually these people will file a claim.

Oh, you can't use my content on your ship. I can. It's called fair use. And I'm adding commentary to it. So let's hear what happens over here, because I'm going to dispense my wisdom.

Question. I've never been able to work out. Why do you think women's sexual desire declines faster than men's in relationships?

I genuinely don't know. I tweeted it as a question. I'm hoping to maybe Steve or Rob here.

I have. So Mack and Murphy, a guy that I interviewed smart dude, you know, studied a lot of stuff. He doesn't know.

I got a theory about it though.

I genuinely don't know either. I was right. I don't know who this guy is, but he just said I genuinely don't know either.

Oh, if I have the free. This is fucking money. I mean, would it not make sense that women at the peak of fertility would have the strong.

Desire for sex. I mean, for just. But this isn't this isn't the so that effect exists as well. Yeah.

But this effect is even more peculiar where if they remate again later, the sex drive goes up again. It's just that it's.

Yeah, any guy that has been in the dating marketplace for a while and gotten to the age where he started to date divorced women will always hear some notion or some version of.

I hated my husband. You know, the last time we had sex, I went to the bathroom and cried. I didn't want to be around him. But she is all over you like a fat kid on cake doing everything with you that she never did with him.

Right. Because it's novel and it's new in the three eighties of not kicked in yet to start brewing in the relationship.

But let's keep listening to the academics with pieces of paper on the wall framed in the mahogany that know everything.

It's like, oh, the first year or two sort of a meat retention strategy, right? You're in a new relationship. You would want to sort of boost your sexual whatever libido.

It's an adaptation to get them on the hook to say if you mate with me, they'll be sex all the time.

Yeah, but once you have a guy locked in and you've been married for 20 years and you're no longer. They're just saying words now. They have no idea what they're talking about.

At all. And, you know, the the risks to you are very low. If you're, you know, and I wish it was 20 years. The decline is the decline.

It was said much it's within precipitous in the first year. I think it dropped by half and then it drops again and then it drops again.

But I talked about this earlier on your risks of pregnancy are much higher the older you get to.

Yeah, there's not a big cost for men. So maybe see one of the things that Henderson mentioned earlier is that you would think women, you know,

they'll they'll be more sexually active or more interested in sex at the peak of their fertility.

But the average age of marriage is like 30 now, not 20. I mean, peak of fertility is probably like within the first year when she has her period.

That's probably the peak of her fertility, like the highest probability of her getting pregnant in the early 20s, maybe.

You know, but beyond that, it's on the decline beyond like 25 30 most medical professionals have stated very, very clearly that, you know, her fertility drops precipitously over the years by the time she's 40, like 98% of her eggs are gone and the chances again,

they're very low. And if they do get pregnant, it's fucking jury, atric pregnancy sort of thing. So that has nothing to do with it. Like that's that's completely a mood point really.

The women's side of the wrong maybe just doesn't decline the men because it's not such a big cost for men. Maybe sex starts as a bargaining strategy, but then sorry, a retention strategy, but then becomes a bargaining chip.

It's funny watching these geeks, like try to figure all this shit out, bounce it back and forth. It's really an interesting dialogue later.

That's that's too that's, I don't know if that's too out there, but maybe the maybe the strategic the cool thing about Mac and that I like about him is he was actually formally a boxer.

And I got a lot of respect for guys that know how to throw hands function of non-conceptive sex because there's two types of sex right there's conceptive sex and non-conceptive sex and humans are weird that we do both.

And this non-conceptive sex I could see it having this retention function early, but then once you're in the relationship, it's like, well, what am I doing with this and maybe it's maybe it's a bargaining chip.

I remember that study that you tweeted, which was women say that inside of relationships, they have around about the the amount of sex that they want and men self report that they would like to have about twice as much sex as they are, which suggests that the couple zero in on the prefer the level of sex that the woman wants.

And that the man is making a compromise. Yeah, yeah, that was that was from Roy Balmeister from not mistaken. And yeah, I think he does he does offer this as an idea that the sex can be a bargaining chip and that kind of as as the relationship for longs and in doors and so on that, you know, sex is essentially used initially the reason why it's so high is to lock the male partner in and to, you know, to to get this all the time.

And then now the right about that to a degree like it is a it is an attraction tool. It is like the anchor that they try to lock you in with is throwing lots of intimacy at you.

It's been said that women use sex to get love and men use love to get sex.

There's always some truth to some of these jokes that you hear out there, these little sound bites here and there, but to hear them sort of like go back and forth on this, it's like, yeah, that's that's part and parcel of it.

But the reason why, you know, women are less interested in sex and I can take this down now because they just sort of go back and forth and don't really accomplish anything.

And I remember Esther Parallel, I think she did a TED talk or something or was it an event that I was at I can't remember, but she put up this this chart and graph.

And it was talking about the decline in sexual intimacy and married couples and it also applies to couples that aren't married that live together. It's basically the same thing.

As soon as you start co-habitating and you're living and you're living in a way that looks like marriage, it usually goes on the decline. It's like one of the reasons why makeup sex is so good.

It's like, you know, you have that division, that uncertainty, that precipitous break that, you know, that anxiety around it.

And then you, and then you use the sex to like reform and re-bond the relationship. It's like the glue that holds a relationship, you know, together in one piece.

But once they have you and especially if they're living in a way that looks like marriage or are married to the government, now they got you locked down.

They don't got to give it to you anymore, especially if they weren't like all that about you. And that happens a lot nowadays. A lot of women, they just don't marry their first choice.

They marry their third or fourth choice. He was just kind of good enough. I mean, Chad was taller and more muscular, but he didn't want to marry me.

So I got to get, you know, Kyle instead. And Kyle's not quite as tall and he's not definitely not as muscular and he's kind of geeky and he doesn't have to change a tire.

But he makes okay money as an engineer working for whatever company. So, you know, we'll get married and have kids. And then, you know, the kids come and then she kind of just like, you know, the sex is not really there.

She doesn't need to do it anymore. She's really locked them down. She's had the wedding. She got the photographs, the big reception.

She did the honeymoon. She got the ring and all the fucking fancy shit. Got the house. The house was renovated to include a new in-law suite for her parents from Mexico or whatever.

With the end of stuff.

And now it's like, yeah, I got a headache. I got a full delandary. I was a long day. Can we do it tomorrow? I need to take a shower.

Right. So the guy starts here and shit like that. But as, you know, as I alluded to early on, the three itdies are really monumentally that important.

Again, they are proximity. How close you are to your spouse.

And you're not familiar with the things that are familiar. Again, how familiar you are with them. And you usually become familiar with the things that annoy you.

Right. You know, for women, it's like, you don't put things where they like it. A couple of work covers don't get organized in the pantry covered the right way.

And it's like, they're driving and listening to a podcast and she's about it. I'll let me tell you about Becky from work today.

And she's like, I'm shut up. He's trying to hear what he wants to listen to sort of thing. So there's, there's that element of again proximity and familiarity.

And the more of that that comes, the less she kind of likes you. The other element of it as well too is exclusivity. And that's meaning sexual exclusivity.

And women like what do women want? Women want what other women want when other women desire a man, then that makes that man more attractive.

It's certainly makes it easy for them to vet a man because when a man has the attention of attractive women, it also works with men to some degree.

If men are like putting him up on a pedestal, worshipping him, that sort of stuff. But far more with other attractive women, if other attractive women are drawn to this guy, she doesn't look at it as well.

I got to go through the vetting stages. I just, they're already there. Let me steal him. Right. It's easier. So women want what other women want. And when you give them the full exclusivity, 100% of it, they have full assurance of it.

Then there's no competition anxiety. They don't think to themselves, well, maybe this guy might step out or maybe he's got options. They know you got no options. They got, they got you around the little finger. Right. And that's why I think to answer Williamson's question that he opened at the beginning. Why do women or why does marriage kill sex drive for women? It's not marriage.

Not necessarily marriage. People, people like to make jokes and like, I will wedding cakes ruin it. Right. As soon as she has a wedding cake, it's like sex drive drops and she gets fat. Her weight goes up.

That's a comedic joke. It's just, they're just correlated because you move in together and you spend way more time together. So it doesn't matter if it's marriage or if you're cohabitating. If you're not managing the three it is, you're going to run into problems.

A lot of guys go and think that getting married or moving a girl in will create strong, reliable, enemy, frequent, enthusiastic in a perpetuity for years to come.

And they're always sadly disappointed when they're met with indifference, coldness, they get punished. Right. They, they do the right thing. They give her what she wants to try to make her happy because they love her and why wouldn't they. Right.

And then they end up shooting themselves in a foot basically. They get punished for it. She gets cold, she gets distant, she's withdrawn. No man wants to be with a chick that's not enthusiastic about being with them. That isn't reciprocating when he makes an intimate advance towards her.

You know why that's like that's that's got to be a life of misery. Right. Just don't do it. Very simple. I mean, just don't live in a way that looks like marriage and you'll be pretty fucking fine.

Yeah.

All right. I'll drop that calling one more time for you guys in case somebody's got something. I think I'm about done here with my tabs.

We covered the sex thing. Oh, no, we got them all done. We can wrap up on that note. Isn't that a beauty. I get to, I get to chill out and crash earlier tonight about that.

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