Caller ID Saved His Life

0:00This Torah class is brought to you by Torahanytime.com We also have accused Binyam of stealing the silver bechers and he wanted to keep him as a slave the brothers pleaded for mercy that told us of Yashlanu of Zakat we have an elderly father but Archive Mace, he had only one brother and he died for other Vahevoi and his father loves him so please let him go, don't imprison him Question is how is his father loves him a defense against theft What does Yashlanu of Zakat love have to do with missing bechers? So, I heard a powerful answer for my friend Rapsendi Ornstein He said, the brothers were saying that this child cannot be a criminal because parents who show genuine love for their child does not grow up to be a thief A child who is truly loved does not grow around stealing things What a powerful idea Let's take this thought to step further Because I'll tell us a child is born with the Yatsahara an inclination to misbehave to act impossibly

1:01to seek self gratification Only when they turn 13, do they receive the Yatsahtov to be the antidote to counterbalance the Yatsahara to persuade the child to do the right thing So if that's the case, how can we blame a child when he acts out in thus foolish and impulsive things? The Yatsahara has been living in his mind rent-free for 13 years before the Yatsahtov even had a chance to state his case This is equivalent to a prosecutor who is belaying out its case and presenting evidence and bringing witness after witness for 13 years uncontested Then suddenly the defense attorney walks in How can the defendant stand a chance when the jury is already been tainted? The courtroom is biased in favor of the prosecution So how can we blame this child when he follows the Yatsahara? And the answer lies in the words Venashakashura Venashak Connect with your child at a young age Show him with love before the Yatsahara has a chance to get to him Look about the Akavavino did

2:02He gave you also an extraordinary amount of love He connected to him in such a profound way that there was no way that he was swayed by Asya Spatifar There was no possibility he would be influenced by the decadence of its reign So the message is, you as a parent, you'll be the one living rent-free in your child's brain Be close, give them love, be present Be there before the outside world has a chance to influence your child Then when all the negative forces try to pull them in, they won't stand a chance The attorney tells us Asya Spatifar tried to seduce Yatsah But then he sought the most new connoisseur of love He saw the image of his father and he remembered the connection He remembered the love, he remembered the lessons that his father, Yakavavino, taught him And Asya Spatifar stood no chance And this is a fundamental principle in Henakh Be there first, be close, give them love before the forces of evil have room to settle in Because when a child is filled with appearance love

3:02The voice and pull of temptation dissipate The pull of the Yatsahara weakens And he doesn't even think about straying or committing any crimes And that is why, when you heard this said by Aviva Heva That was the strongest defense of all And with that, I'd like to share between an incredible story There was a Bachar in Yashiva who was having a negative influence on his friends And there was Yashiva decided he had no choice but to expel him from the Yashiva After leaving the Yashiva, the Bachar went on a dangerous path He stopped keeping Shabbos, he drifted further and further away from Torah Until he abandoned Yidashkite altogether But slowly something inside him began to change He began his journey back, he put his Yamaka back on He began keeping Shabbos again, he started putting on Phil And eventually he joined another Yashiva He began learning seriously and over time he became an outstanding student One day his former Asya Shiva ran into him and he was stunned by the transformation

4:04And he asked him, what brought you back? And the Bachar told him, I'll tell you something remarkable One of the rebame in your Yashiva used to call me every single Friday And I thought to myself, if he cares that much, then I will care too For his sake, I would come back to Torah Metzes The next day the Asya Shiva went to that Rabbi and he told him I met this Bachar and he told me, you called him every Friday You should know, your calls saved his life And the Rabbi tells the Asya Shiva, yes, it's true, I did call him every Friday But you should know, he never even once picked up the phone The Asya Shiva, just knowing that your father or your rabbi cares about you Just knowing that you are loved can be enough to bring a person back Or to keep them on the right path And now we know, have a wonderful day