Ask The CLO - 3.6.26

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3:03We'll talk about all of these stories coming up at the top of the hour, but right now, it's time to ask the CLO, our chief love officer, Steve Harvey. All right, this is from Yalanda, CLO in Indianapolis. Yalanda writes, my husband has an outside child that is four years old. He has a flu, and my husband spent the night in the hospital with him. I have accepted everything, but I was hurt that my husband wouldn't let me go to the hospital, was I wrong for trying to help. Well, he didn't want you at the hospital because the boy's mother was probably dead too, and he didn't want to deal with no drama. I appreciate you accepting it and trying to help and everything, and then plus, especially if a child with that, a lot of this is determining on your reason if it wasn't to go if the child was born before your marriage or during the marriage, that's that I have a lot to do

4:05it because it was born during the marriage here in Hingle, I want you down. Yeah, outside usually means during. Yeah. I want you to marry Hingle, I want you down there because he already knows it's a nice way you type this letter, but you ain't going to do it right now. You ain't going down there because the baby got the flu, I can tell you that right now. She wants to see what's going on. Yeah, because you spending the night down there the whole day on the hat, I mean at the hospital, that's what that was about. They ain't got nothing to do with that baby having a flu. Moving on to Prince in Buffalo, Prince writes, my sidepeats wants to have a threesome. I am worried that another woman cannot be discreet, but I am willing to try anything once. I'm worried, but I'm willing is it too risky to add another woman to the mix? Oh, I love it. Now, now let me, let me, let me break this up because you're leaving out, you're missing out on what he said, my side piece, my side piece, that means he has a main piece.

5:07Yeah. Yes, probably. The side piece wants to bring another woman in it. Yeah. Thought? Okay. The more people you allow in your business, the more holes in your business, holes, holes in your Elliott, H&W, damn it, stories in the, so it can get out, everybody not going be quiet. Right. Now, you willing to try something, if I were you, this is just me talking, don't do it, y'all, don't do it, because you don't got away with the side piece so far, but if you bring in some more people, it's not going to go that way. Yeah, Mr. Willing, to try anything once, so it is risky, you're saying, see a lot. All right. This is hell. Yeah. And it may not be worth it. It may not be worth it. Yeah. You don't know who that other person is.

6:07That's the extra activity. Yeah. All right. Moving on to Rachel. I see who this other person is. You need to get a picture of video something. All right. Moving on to Rachel and Alexandria, Rachel writes, I saw my high school crush and he barely recognized me. My husband was with me and he could tell that I was crushed. I joined the gym after that and my husband thinks it's because of that guy. Why is he questioning my motivation? It is because of that guy. Yeah. Because your high school crush saw you and didn't recognize you and it crushed you. But you know why? And then you wouldn't got a gym membership. Now, let's stop playing games here and don't need y'all talking about me, I'm being mean enough because I'm not. He didn't recognize you because you were unrecognizable. You're sheer size and mass through him.

7:08Okay. You was two, three times what you was back when y'all was a high school crush. Now you're just a crush. See everybody don't want that. Now you and the gym and your man saying you and the gym call to him, yeah, you are. You ain't getting the gym calls to your man. So that's what he's having an issue with us. Yeah. Yeah. I ain't been allowed to say nothing but you little weight gain because you're a star trippy. But as soon as you saw him and he didn't recognize you now you know all the gym membership. But shouldn't he be happy that now no matter what the motivation like she says, she's in the gym and working out now, putting your health, her health, her, what's wrong with y'all? Surely. She's in the gym. She's working out now. She is in the gym for another man. But she's in the gym. She really is a win as a win. Yeah. She's working out. But you ain't fire for me though.

8:09You try to get fire for something now. The point is I'm going to get fine. That's the point. Okay. Yeah. Surely. Yes. Yeah. You out with your man. And they recognize as a girl asking yeah, his crush. He walks up to her. Uh-huh. Hey, what's out of you? Who are you? Mm-hmm. I don't remember you. Yeah You look at him and you can tell he's hurt. Now listen, he get a membership down into jail. Uh-huh Yeah, and what is double-rated? I can be mad Is do you know it's double standard? I can be mad at him, but I don't want him mad at me because I decided to go to the gym to do something about my health and my loss Because your ex see you son. Yeah, yeah, it's so what No, just come on back to the house with your little chunky self. Come on I'm here trying to get fired now. How to learn how to deal. I've been working around all these issues and everything

9:14You know, no baby. I'm a show. You I left one angles and everything Steve this is from Denisha in Macon Denisha writes I had sex with a coworker five years ago. Now he's my boss and I can't stand him I have way more experience. He's very cocky and he talks to me crazy I've threatened him with our past if he doesn't stop it. Would I be wrong to expose him? I know what well see no listen to me He need to be nice. Yes, right? Yeah, for sure. He need to be nice It's all I need to tell But what is it? Yes, you would be wrong for exposing you You will be but not explain it to him. I think you should just go to him and say listen

10:15I'm gonna let by gone be by gone But you have been very very rude to me. You treat me nasty. You treat me different from other people Now listen, we had a past I'll just stand this over with but if you say anything else to me funky You're going to hate y'all What is he saying to her? He's she talks to he said she said he talks to her crazy Does he go on and sit down to you ain't about nothing? Wow They might need to do it again Yeah, see she raised her hand in the meeting and said I'm not picking you he will be exposed and more ways than one all right Thank you, C.O. Lo coming up at the top of the hour. We have some entertainment news for you right after this You're listening Imagine if your Wi-Fi was a little hot smarter and way more reliable Picture it your TV phone laptop even your fancy fridge working together to make life easier

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