Ask The CLO - 3.12.26

0:00This is an I Heart Podcast. Guaranteed Human. This Women's History Month, the podcast, Keebe Paz's Sweetie, celebrates the power of women choosing healing, purpose, and faith, even when life gets messy. Love is not a destination. You have to work on it every day. Keebe Paz's Sweetie creates space for honest conversations on self-worth, love, growth, and navigating life with grace and grit, led by women who have left, inspired, and tell the truth out loud. I have several conversations with God, and I know why it took 20 years. To hear this in more, listen to Keebe Paz's Sweetie on the I Heart Radio App, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. All right, son, time to put out this campfire. Dad, we learned about this in school. Oh, did you now? Okay, what's first? Smokey Bear said, too. First, drown it with the bucket of water, then stir it with the shovel. Wow, you sound just like him. Then he said, if it's still warm, then do it again. Where can I learn all this?

1:00It's all on smokeybear.com with other wildfire prevention tips, because only you can prevent wildfires. Brought to you by the USDA Forest Service, your state forester, and the Ed Council. Come check this. I Heart and TikTok have come together to create something new. I love it. We're the world of TikTok meets your playlist. Three words that will change your life. I Heart TikTok Radio. The biggest hits across I Heart Radio. What's trending for you on TikTok? Tonya Sound that's better than this. I Heart TikTok Radio. Plus TikTok's most influential creators all in one place. Search for I Heart TikTok Radio. Make it a preset and stay connected all day. When segregation was a law, one mysterious black club owner, Charlie Fitzgerald, had his own rules. Segregation and the day integration at night. It was like surfing in another world. Was he a businessman, a criminal, a hero? Charlie was an example of power.

2:00They had to crush him. Charlie's Place from Atlas Obscura and Visit Myrtle Beach. Listen to Charlie's Place on the I Heart Radio app. Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. On paper, the three hosts of the Nick Dickenpole show are geniuses. We can explain how AI works, data centers, but there are certain things that we don't necessarily understand. Better version of Play, Stupid Games, When, Stupid Brothers. Yes. Which, by the way, wasn't Taylor Swift who said that for the first time. I actually thought it was. I got that wrong. But hey, no one's perfect. We're pretty close, though. Listen to the Nick Dickenpole show on the I Heart Radio app. Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. It is time to ask the CLO. Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey. Al in Huntsville says, My wife and I couldn't sit beside each other on a recent flight. And I ended up talking to the white lady next to me. She's a teacher like me. As we got off the plane, she said she enjoyed talking to me.

3:02My wife got so mad. Is it because she was white? No. No. It's so many things she made. Let's start with number one. You didn't fight hard enough for y'all to sit together. Together. Number two. When did you start talking a lot? Number three. I can't remember the last time I enjoyed talking to you. And number four. What did you say? Yeah. Until this woman, that's so impressionable and then five and fifth and finally five. Oh, so you like white girl. All that's wrapped in there don't. Yes. Well that's what is asking.

4:02Oh, that's in there. You nailed it, C-A-L, she got so mad. Are you just going to put that into the light? But we're on to Shawanda in Detroit. Shawanda writes, I have two men that I'm casually dating. I got married young. And he was the only man I'd ever been with. I'm divorced and it's my first time dating and sleeping with other men. I plan to get married again, but is it cool to enjoy myself right now? You do. Well, I mean, that's what you're doing. Mm-hmm. Yeah. No way in this letter did it say, how do I stop? I'm out of control. What is this feeling that's overcome me? That's not in the letter. He's enjoying it. You dating more than one man, you sleeping with more than one man. Is it okay? And what you want us to say? Because that's what you're doing.

5:03So, continue. Enjoy yourself. That's what you're telling us. Well, I'm just going to tell you this now, young lady. Women don't do well at all when they test drive. I'm just going to tell you that. And you can ask any woman who has been out there doing test drives. They will usually tell you if they are honest. Ah, hey, really what you want to do. So you can't tell that. You can be test drove. That's not fair. Stop a stable standard, you know? Well, and it is double standards. And it's nothing we can do about them. And it's not going to change. Because you didn't got a divorce recently. It's not going to change. So, sorry. It is what it is. She says she's enjoying herself right now. Well, okay, lady, enjoy yourself. But you can ask anybody who has been in the test drive me in business, how I'd worked out for you. And if they are honest, they will tell you

6:04that ain't what you want to do. Pick a car you like and test drive it. But once you get out there and you start going through the parking lot, I'm just trying to tell you now. Hey, go get the keys that I went to. She's just casually dating too, right now. Shirley, she's saying. Shirley? I'm just saying. That's what she's saying. Ah, and the Sierra. Oh, I know you are. But we have to challenge you. Stand on what I said. She's enjoying herself. Okay, cool. She said once again, ask every woman that has ever enjoyed themselves to tell you the truth of how I worked out. All right, let's move on. Demand in Las Vegas writes, my four-year-old lost my phone at the park. My wife found the phone the same day and didn't tell me until the next day. I can see that she went through and deleted some text messages. She hasn't said a word about it. Should I confront my wife for snooping through my phone

7:06or is it best to let this slide? Let it go. Let it go. Let it go. Let it go. Yeah, just let it go. Don't say anything to wife. Yeah, don't say nothing. Brought to deleted. Innocent. So what? You ain't missing? I have three of them. You didn't miss it. You got to play this all the way out. You got to not be effective, bodies. Right, my family. Oh, thank you, baby. You found my phone, man. This is great news. Thank you, look, buddy. Hey, little buddy, for buying, finding my phone. Then you pull him off to the size of amen. Come here. He's four. Hey, come here. Four. Listen to me, I want more time. Stay with your daddy on this right here. Find some of my love, bring it to me. Don't say nothing to your mom. I don't think you just find my phone in the app. It's a 360.

8:06You can find my phone. You don't have to wait for a lot of people to tell you. You can find it. See, but if you got find my phone, that means so do somebody else had a capability to find my phone. If it's a family, if it's in the family. Well, he found it. If it's in the family. Yes, she can look inside your phone is at the park. She can help them look for it. Listen to me. That wasn't her goal, but we weren't looking for it. We need to look for it more. It's back on the floor. You can't find my phone for what I do. That's the way to that. Where's the app that found my phone first? You need to create that. You want that app. All right, last one, Steve. This is from Kimsey in Chelsea. Kimsey writes, my husband is only 38 years old

9:07and he takes pills for sex. Medical, he's fine. So I take it personally and I can't help, but like he's not a truck. I can't help but feel like he's not attracted to me anymore. What else can it be? Impose is for stamina. It's not because it's not to perform. Yeah, that's what performance is. To be able to. Stamina. Yeah. No, no, no, no. Thirty-eight, but this problem is affecting me and early and earlier they'd discovered. Why is that diet or why? Well, because of diet food, we process stuff. Chemicals, people aren't taking care of themselves. So it's becoming a problem earlier and earlier. So it's not because he's no longer attracted to her, which is her. That could be it, too. Hey, you know what, see there, see there. Hey, we're going, it's Friday.

10:09Let me go in here. Give me my 45 minutes, I'm good. I'm about 45 minutes. All right, fellow. Thank you. We'll go with that. Thank you. You will once again. I'm here for you. Coming up at the top of the hour, we will have some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening to the three party morning show. This Women's History Month, the podcast, Keep It Pause It Sweetie, celebrates the power of women choosing healing, purpose, and faith, even when life gets messy. Love, it's not a destination. You have to work on it every day. Keep It Pause It Sweetie creates space for honest conversations on self-worth, love, growth, and navigating life with grace and grit led by women who have lived, inspired, and tell the truth out loud. I have several conversations with God, and I know why it took the 20 years. To hear this in more, listen to Keep It Pause It Sweetie on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,

11:11or wherever you get your podcasts. What are you doing? What? I'm just mowing the lawn. No, it's blazing hot and dry out here. Don't you remember? Smokey Bear says. Avoid using power equipment when it's windy or dry. Where'd you learn this? Oh, it's on smokeybear.com, with many other wildfire prevention tips. Right. Thanks, honey bear. Because remember, only you can prevent wildfires. Brought to you by the USDA Forest Service, your State Forester and the Ad Council. You're welcome to check this. iHeart and TikTok have come together to create something new. I love it. Where the world of TikTok meets your playlist. Three words that will change your life. iHeart TikTok Radio. The biggest hits across iHeart Radio. What's trending for you on TikTok? Tell me a sound that's better than this. iHeart TikTok Radio. Plus TikTok's most influential creators all in one place. Search for iHeart TikTok Radio. Make it a preset and stay connected all day.

12:14When segregation was a law, one mysterious black club owner, Charlie Fitzgerald, had his own rules. Segregation in the day, integration at night. It was like sipping on another world. Was he a businessman, a criminal, a hero? Charlie was an example of power. They had to crush him. Charlie's place, from Atlas Obscura and Visit Myrtle Beach. Listen to Charlie's place on the iHeart Radio app. Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. On paper, the three hosts of the Nick Dick and Polcho are geniuses. We can explain how AI works, data centers, but there are certain things that we don't necessarily understand. Better version of Play, Stupid Games, When, Stupid Brises. Yes. Which, by the way, wasn't Taylor Swift who said that for the first time. I actually thought it was. I got that wrong. But hey, no one's perfect. We're pretty close, though. Listen to the Nick Dick and Polcho on the iHeart radio. Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.