205: Why You're Feeling Pulled Inward (And What It Means)

0:00Welcome to the Cosmic Mystic Podcast, the space for healers, coaches, and conscious leaders on a mission to elevate collective consciousness. I'm your host, Danny C. Munise, a former Catholic disciple, turned eclectic witch, guiding you through the realms of astrology, spirituality, and the quest to escape the matrix. It's time to unleash the mystic within with the transformation begins. Hey, hey, hey, my friend. Welcome back to another episode of podcast, Danny C. Munise here, and I am so excited to talk to you about this upcoming season. We are moving into Pisces season, my friend, and inciderial astrology. Pisces season begins March 14th and runs through the very early parts of April 14th. And instead of talking about just purely Pisces, you know, from the

1:07astrological perspective, I want to talk to you about what this moment right here in this cycle of the year is asking of us as leaders who are leading our own lives. Pisces, my friend, arrives at a very particular moment. First off, it's the last of the zodiac signs. And if you've been following me for a bit, right, you might have heard this. And it arrives right before spring equinox, which begins a completely new seasonal cycle. And so it's so beautiful that energetically, Pisces season is representing this season of completion. It's this space right here between winter and spring. And it's the space between what has been and the opportunity for what is about

2:16to begin. Now, I am doing a lot of shifting and a lot of this first quarter of the year. There's been a lot of internal shifting. And I feel like I've been locked away in a closet just doing the work. And there is there have been some insights for me that have come forward. And one of the major shifts that you're going to see start to take place in the next couple of weeks. And it's already started to begin. I just can't help it anymore. But the full shift will be coming out very soon. And it's so funny because it's like I'm labeling it now. And it's not anything new. It's everything I've ever done. It's everything who I've, who I am. It's what I do. And now it's just getting a label. So one of the things that this space right here requires is conscious leadership.

3:21And conscious leadership requires something most people resist. And that is the willingness to complete what is complete. To not carry it forward because we've always carried it. Not to avoid it because we don't have time to deal with it. But to let it go to release it. So today I want to talk about, you know, our four areas of life. And I want to talk about four leadership lessons that Pisces season has for us because my friend, whether you believe you are a leader or not, you are because at first and for most, we lead ourselves, my friend, each and every day we lead ourselves. There is a big difference. And there's probably going to be a whole episode about this. But there's a big difference in being self-aware and actually self-leading.

4:28And here on this podcast and in this space, a lot of the work that I internally have been allowing to come forward is we are here to lead ourselves, my friend. Nobody is coming to save us. Nobody's coming to rescue us. We are here to lead ourselves. And I know you know this because you listen to this podcast. And I am not here. I am not here for the people who are not ready to lead their lives. And if you're listening to this, I know you are already a person who's ready to lead their lives or who already leads their lives. But I'm just making that. I'm just bringing out that label now, my friend, because I am very clear that I am not at the stage of my life right now. That I am not willing, I am unwilling. The thing that I'm unwilling to do this year in particular and most likely moving forward is to, it's at the stage of where I'm at in my own awareness and my own journey, right? I'm unwilling to work with people who are not ready to lead themselves.

5:33And I'm very clear on that. And I've had a lot of situations recently where that has been very apparent to me, which I'm like, thank you. Thank you for the clarity. And let's go. So we are going to talk about the four leadership lessons of Pisces and how they apply to the four major areas of life. So health, vitality, relationships, and love, business, career, and money, purpose, and soul calling because my friend leadership is how we lead our lives. Being a leader is first and foremost how you lead yourself. And let me just say this right here, if you haven't really thought of yourself as a leader, well, maybe it's time, maybe it's time before identity upgrade or identity shift because you are, I guarantee you, my friend, already leading in some way, shape, or form. Whether you believe that or not, you are already leading in some way, shape, or form. Whether you are leading your children, whether you are leading

6:38a community, whether you are leading a business, whether you have a particular title right in a workplace that says you're a leader, which you don't need, but you know, sometimes the pay is nice when you get that title. But you don't need a title to be a leader, my friend, because there's lots of people out there that have titles that are not leaders. All right, so let's talk about leadership lesson number one. And this is the energy of Pisces. So boundaries and energetic integrity. So the vibe of Pisces is deeply compassionate, right? Pisces wants to help, it wants to support, it wants to hold space for people. And without boundaries, Pisces energy can become like emotionally overwhelmed, right? They're overgiving, they're carrying all the things, and they don't have space for themselves. And so I want you to think about this, not just from

7:43the, you know, am I a Pisces? Am I a Pisces sun? Pisces moon? Pisces rising? Do I have a lot of Pisces energy in my chart? Like I want you to think of this more from the lens of am I doing these things, right? Am I overgiving? Am I carrying more than I should or or just because I can, doesn't mean I should, right? Where might you be doing this as we as we as we start to talk about this? So the first leadership lesson of Pisces season is energetic integrity. So I want you to think about this energetic integrity. Where are you giving from love? Where are you giving from love? And where are you giving from obligation? Where are you carrying something that isn't yours to carry? Maybe there's somebody else's cross that they're bearing that was never yours

8:47to carry or isn't yours to carry. But for some reason, you're carrying it, my friend. This is Pisces. This is one of the big lessons in Pisces is how are you holding that thing? Whatever it is, my friend, right? This is energetic integrity. Like, are you truly doing it from a place of love or is it commitment? Oh, I have to because, you know, I'm committed to whatever, I'm committed to this old story. I'm committed to because the social conditioning says I have to do this, right? Are you truly doing this from a place of love or are you doing it from a different place? And it's so important to recognize where, right? Where are you doing this? Like, what is the energetics behind it? So let's look at health and vitality. Like, where are you overextending

9:49yourself? Like physically overextending yourself? Where you're saying yes to all the things because it's fire horse energy and I'm saying yes and I'm going for it. And now you're overwhelmed, you're tired, you're exhausted because you've been giving, giving, giving, right? Where might you be ignoring your body's need to rest, to relax? I hear this sometimes from my clients. They're like, yeah, I'm not listening to my body. Okay. Right? That's okay. Well, first off, I'm glad that you're realizing that your body is talking to you and I'm glad that you're realizing you're ignoring it. And why? Why? Why might you be doing that? Maybe, maybe there are some boundaries that need to maybe put in place, right? I always talk about how sometimes we create boundaries from trauma, but then they need to be re-evaluated, right? And this spicy season, especially retrograde

10:54seasons. And so we kind of got both right now with mercury being retrograde and spicy season starting is like, this is a great opportunity. This time right here, whether we're talking about spicy season or mercury retrograde or let's take the astrology out of it for a second, but this part of the year right here is a beautiful time for us to look at like, how am I using my energy? Am I getting caught up in the external things, right? The social media, the news, what people are saying about this or that, or am I focusing my energy on what I know to be true for me? Right? Pisces is such a beautiful sign to remind us to slow down, to remind us to take a rest, to remind us to, and this is the lesson, right? This is the lesson in Pisces is to not overextend itself, right? To be able to set those boundaries. So let's look at relationships. So in relationships,

11:57this can show up and you trying to fix someone, are there someone you're trying to fix? And I want to call this out right here because for a long time, I try to fix relationships. Meaning, I tried to make the person somebody they weren't. I held expectations for people that they had to be this or that and didn't allow the person. And now I will say this, this is more of an advanced practice. This is more, you know, once you've been on the healing journey and it's a little bit, it takes a little bit more awareness, I believe I would say, is to look at some of those relationships and, you know, trying to, like I stopped trying to fix my love. Oh man, I wanted to fix him so badly because I wanted him to be a certain way. I wanted him to do certain things.

13:02And that was me not accepting who he was. And if I want him to accept me who, for who I am, the good, the bad and the not so pretty, then I also have to learn to accept him for the good, the bad and the not so pretty. Now, there's a difference between accepting and tolerating, right? That's a whole other thing and that's another conversation we can have on another day. I would invite you to look at where, who are you trying to fix? Are you trying to fix someone? Meaning, do you have certain expectations of somebody that you wish they were different? Because my friend, they are who they are. They're, I mean, I've tried in all of my relationships to fix them, to help them. And they are who they are. They are who they are. Now, can people change absolutely? Can people grow absolutely on their own terms, though, my friend? And so if you are,

14:02oh, I just wish they would be different. I just wish they could just be this or they could be that, then you're trying to fix them. Stop fixing them. Allow them to be who they are. And if you're out there, because I hear you, you're like, but they don't, but they're not accepting me for who I am. That's not your journey. That's not for you. That's for them. That's not for you. You, again, you can't fix them. The other one I would say, are you carrying their stuff? Are you carrying the emotional weight for someone? Are you holding it? Oh, I'm holding it for them. Why? Why? Why? Don't hold it for them, my friend. They are here to hold it themselves. And so what what what might that look like? Let me let me call this out. What might that look like? Carrying somebody's emotional weight is like, let's say you have a child and maybe they're in

15:06their 20s and they're struggling with their relationship with their other parent, right? So maybe you know, they're struggling with the relationship with their dad, for example, or they're struggling with their relationship with another family member. And you just want to hold that for them. You want to try to protect them as much as you possibly can. And my friend, I'm going to tell you right here right now. That relationship is for them. Their relationship with their other parent, their relationship with that other family member is between them. Now can you support them? Absolutely. Can you guide them? Absolutely. But carrying their stuff is not yours. It's not yours. It's not for you to fix their relationship with so and so. It's for you to be

16:12the support. It's for you to be the sounding board, right? The guide, not for you to fix it for them. That would be carrying the emotional weight. So if you're finding yourself doing that, my friend, this is an opportunity to look at like, do I need to continue doing this? And how, what I would ask is how is this harming me? How is this hurting me? How is this hurting a relationship? Okay. Another one might be, are you saying yes? Are you saying yes in relationships when you want to say no? So are you saying yes because you feel you feel obligated to say yes to your friends? Are you saying yes because you're worried that if you say no, it's going to affect the relationship in some way. I see this both in friendships, in families, and also in like more personal, like intimate relationships. I see this in all of it where we're afraid to say no because

17:17what is the family going to think? I can't tell my mom know that I can't come and trust me. I'm saying this because I have experience in this, right? I remember telling my love like he wanted to go and he'll, he brings us up, he brings us up all the time when stuff like this happens and he'll be like, remember when we were, I'll never forget it, we were at Universal Studios in Hollywood and California and we were waiting to get on the Simpsons ride at the time. It used to be back in the future and then it shifted over to the Simpsons and it was our first time on the ride since it had shifted over and my parents were going to be coming into town and so we were just, we were talking and we're waiting in line. He was like, oh, that reminds me, I saw tickets to see and I can't remember their name right now but it was basically a pink Floyd cover band. My love loves pink Floyd and so he's like, yeah, they're, I think it's like Australian, like

18:20Floyd or something and he's been wanting to see them forever and he's like, I saw that they're coming to town, they were coming to LA and I was like, oh, awesome, like let's get tickets and he's like, yeah, he's like, I already, I already got the, the tickets, like he had bought them the day before or something and he had forgotten to tell me and I was like, oh, sweet and I was like, Wednesday, it's like I put on my calendar and so he tells me the date and I, I go to put it on my calendar and I was like, oh, shoot, we can't go and he's like, why not? And I was like, my parents are coming to town and he's like, so and in that, like from that moment right there, my friend, an argument ensued because at that time in my life and that time in our relationship, I chose my family before everything and so when he said that the event, right, it was like a

19:22Saturday night and my parents were coming in on Friday and they were leaving like Sunday, so I had plenty and they were staying with us, so it's not like I wasn't going to see them at all, I told him no and he got so mad at me and I fought and I fought and I fought like, how could you, how could you even consider this? My parents are coming to town and it wasn't like I hadn't seen my parents in years, I've probably had seen them the month before, a couple months before, so it wasn't even like I hadn't seen them in a while and I wasn't going to see them again, right? It was one of the, they probably came at that time like every other month, right? All their kids still lived in California at the time because my brother had moved back and so they came like every other month and they stood with us and so I got to see them and I remember like looking back at it, I remember seeing how hurt like at the time I was so mad at him for

20:22even considering that that was an option, right? Like that we would go and he ended up losing money because we didn't go and I like till this day feels so bad that I did that, you know? Like I was but I was so caught up in this idea that I couldn't say no to my parents, I couldn't say no, like they're coming into town, I had to host them, I had to be with them every single second because they were here, like there was no other thinking in my mind that I could go do something else and and and he he's like well wouldn't your parents want you to go and I'm like no, they would get mad at me, like legit that was my thinking my friends, so I when I say this, I'm not saying this as someone who is like you should do this, I'm saying you as from experience that I was in a place that everything like my family came before everything so much so to the point

21:26that I hurt myself, right? And I didn't get to enjoy things that I wanted to or that I had considered doing things, right? Because I couldn't say no, I felt at least that I couldn't say no, no, whether that was was true or not is not the question, I felt that and if you feel that I want you to know that that is truth to you and that is absolutely okay and I also want you to know that you can say no that there is there is there is the option to say no and that option might require some stickiness, it might be uncomfortable for some people and you do have the option, right? And you always have that choice to say no, okay? So I'm going to put this if somebody is listening to this that maybe needed to hear that, I'm planting that seed for you right now and I hope that it grows and you can find a place with that, I just I just I know what it was like and that was really hard

22:30for me, so all right, moving moving on because here's the thing my friend real one last little point on here is love without some sort of boundary, okay? Become self abandonment and when as a leader we don't want to lose ourselves, right? And you know there's you know love is love is love love is love, there's no good or bad about it, it's just love is and it's also important to protect yourself and to protect bright your energy and so I just you know just be mindful of that my friend all right, let's move into business and career, you know this is where you might be undercharging, you're over delivering, right? You're trying to pack all the things into an offer

23:32because you want it to feel valuable, right? Or maybe you're overgiving at work, you're working longer than you should be, right? And I say should meaning like maybe you're you're paid hourly and you work eight hours but you're actually working 10, right? Or you are salary because there's a lot of people that you know work salary and you know it's supposed to be 40 hours a week but it's more like 50 to 60 because you you know this project has to get done and the boss needs this and so you work longer hours, you work earlier, you work later, you work on the weekends, you right? You work on your off time because you're trying to get this done. So where might you be over giving doing more than you really are supposed to, right? And not managing your energy there. Is this something that we we can struggle with, right? Because Pisces is like lead you know lead

24:33your work from integrity, right? Being integrity but don't sacrifice yourself, right? Don't sacrifice your weekends, don't sacrifice your evenings because of you know you want to make sure that everybody's okay, like it's okay, it's okay, like you know we don't we don't want to do that. Let's look at purpose and calling your soul calling. Are you scattering your energy, right? Are you scatting your energy? Like I had somebody on the podcast recently and they were talking about they had a lot of irons in the fire and you know it was like getting spread so thin because I had all of these projects going. Now I'm rereading the book, the one the one thing and it's like that reminder of like focusing in that energy on one thing like what is the one thing and you know we're going to be doing this in secret CEO collective is you know with our spring planning session

25:33is focusing on what is the one thing for spring? Like what is the one thing that you're putting all of your energy into in spring because my friend that's 90 days of focusing your energy on one thing. Can you imagine how much that area of your life or that thing can grow and expand when you put all of your energy there and you stop scattering it around, right? Leaders have clarity in the direction that they're going which is why it is so important to make sure that you you are clear on where you're going and what you're doing. All right, let's talk about leadership lesson number two which is emotional mastery. Now Pisces is an emotional water sign. It's it's the I would say it's the adult of the of the emotional water signs right because we have cancer who is you know more of the baby right the baby and so if we look at Pisces that this means

26:42during the season emotions are going to rise they're going to more easily be felt which also means that memories are going to come up those old memories those old wounds probably even some of those old traumas things that we buried because of busyness like we're too busy we can't we don't have time to deal with this thing some of those things may be coming up and this is where leadership becomes critical because many of us do one of two things with our emotions and my friend we want to move out of this okay so number one we either suppress our emotions or we drown in them so suppressing is going to look like I don't have time to deal with this right now so I'm just going to keep moving and we reframe and reframe and reframe to keep moving forward the other side of it is staying in it is getting sucked into it and staying in the same story over and over

27:49and over and over again where you can't like seem to catch your breath conscious leadership requires emotional mastery that's the ability to allow the emotions to move through you my friend did you know that the peak of an emotional state a high emotional state is 90 seconds and this is positive or challenging so what does this mean this means that if you are having a challenging emotion like you've ventriggered by something something happens the peak of that emotional state is only 90 seconds if you allow it if you allow the emotion to move through you it'll take about 90 seconds what happens though is that we will either move through that and or get like partway through it and be like nope right like you know how that that moment I know for some

28:54for some of us it's like you start to fill the tears and you suck them back in right or you what's another way that this happens like you you you start to like feel something like maybe your heart starts racing or you feel a pit in your stomach and you're like nope nope nope nope not not right now not right now and you start thinking about something else right you start you like distract yourself into something else um my friend like 90 seconds is all it actually takes 90 seconds and then what I often tell my clients is after the 90 seconds bring in logic because often what will happen is we could get stuck like right like I said we can either suppress the emotion or get stuck in the emotion and drown in it and a lot of us don't want to drown in it so we just suppress it right we just push it down but when we allow ourselves to move through it like have that 90 seconds and then for me what helps is I bring in logic I'm like okay what are the facts

30:00not the feelings because I have a whole lot of feelings and I can have a whole lot of evaluation and judgment around the thing but what are the facts and the facts brings in that logic for me and that helps that helps me start to process right not move forward and suppress the emotion not fill the emotion but I allow myself to fill it like I know I know now I'm like it's only 90 seconds Danny and I'll allow myself to fill it fully and then I'll I'll ask myself okay what's the facts here and start moving through it all right in health and vitality this is um noticing your emotions and how that's affecting your body so like are you holding tension um do you feel tense or tight is there exhaustion um have you regulated your nervous system right are you feeling overwhelmed if you start to say like I'm feeling overwhelmed that's a clear sign that you're out of alignment and your nervous system is dysregulated right a dysregulated nervous systems means that you are

31:02away from your natural alignment your body is speaking to you my friend and as leaders we listen we stop and say okay I'm feeling overwhelmed right now so I'm going to go sit down on my chair whether that's a couch whether that's a meditation cushion whether it's your favorite chair outside on your you know porch or your balcony and taking some deep breaths and saying I am safe I am okay I am love I am light whatever it is that you need to tell yourself whatever it is that you need to hear from yourself to like calm your energy down and bring yourself back into alignment now again in relationships and love this is the emotional patterns that we keep repeating right so things like are you quickly reacting to something or do you like that fight fun or freeze right

32:05do you um meet are you like immediately freezing or are like fawning right like the freeze in that moment or you you don't participate like you'd completely withdraw uh or the opposite of that which is you overexplain you try to explain explain explain like explain your reasoning oh I'm sorry I didn't text you back because of this or I'm sorry it's been so long or I'm sorry I text you I'm sorry right like no my friend no uh clear is kind first off you probably heard me say that before I learned that in one of Bernie Brown's book books that clear is kind Pisces is inviting emotional awareness being aware of the emotional patterns that you are in and how you can choose to respond differently that's the season right here my friend in business career this might be noticing how your emotions are influencing your decisions

33:09so is there um anxiety that comes up around posting on social media is there a feeling of doubt or worth worthiness coming in right um is there a fear or scarcity around money like what's the what's your emotional state and how is that influencing your decisions to make that phone call to record that real to post that thing right as leaders we want to regulate our emotional state before we make decisions and the season right here with all of that emotional energy is the opportunity for us to say okay um if I have to make a decision if there's a decision that I need to make and now I know we make a million decisions today what I'm saying is if there's a bigger decision that you need to make about your business about your career about money about a relationship about your health then we want to make sure that

34:10we are in a regulated state when we are making that decision right not a state not in the heightened state of the emotion and not in the low vibrational state of the emotion but the regulated state the state where you come back to home where you are calm and you are clear so you can make that decision in our sole purpose and calling sometimes this emotions are going to arise from something deeper that is really trying to like get our attention right so something that you've ignored is you know a truth maybe that you've been avoiding um a path that you're meant to follow that keeps coming up this has been coming up for me and this is one of the things that I've been really working on these this first quarter of the year is a path that I known for a long time that I meant to follow but I've just avoided it just pushed it away for so long and

35:12this last year has really brought it forward for me and this first quarter of the year has really been like Danny like my guides my guardians the master teachers and loved ones are like um hello so this is the beautiful energy of Pisces bringing this to our to the surface for us so um the leadership lesson number three is intuition and inner authority so I talk a lot about inner authority and I've had people say like what do you I don't know what you mean by inner authority like what is inner authority your inner authority is what is ruling like what is drive it basically what is driving the ship like what's driving your car the the the the you right what is what is who is that inner authority and sometimes that inner authority gets clouded so I heard this analogy the other day and I was like it was a beautiful analogy where your faucet let's talk about your faucet your bathroom faucet your kitchen faucet and you know how there's like a a little like film or filter that is on the faucet that when it's clogged right you have to

36:19get the vinegar and the baking soda out to like clear it out or take the piece off and right like put it that's what I do at least I put it in some vinegar and baking soda and let it kind of like clean out and then put it back on because it'll start to get clogged right and the water won't flow as maybe as fast or as good as it used to and so it's getting blocked this is what our inner if this is what happens with our inner authority is it gets blocked or is filtered by things that we've experienced especially if we haven't processed them or and decisions that we have made about ourselves others in the world and it the work right when I talk about doing the work that's what I'm talking about is I'm talking about looking at those filters that are forcing or guiding that inner authority now a lot of people don't trust their intuition or they've been taught to ignore their intuition or they yeah they just they just don't go with their intuition right like oh

37:23I knew that but I didn't follow it right oftentimes that's because there is something that is filtering right some type of filter that is blocking you from trusting that it might have been that you you followed your intuition and it was wrong right quote unquote I'm putting this in quotations here wrong and so now you're like I can't trust my intuition right or it's like I should have known better I should I shouldn't known better not to go out with that person or I should have known better not to take that job or whatever right and and then we're like oh yeah see I can't trust my intuition it was wrong and it's not that it was wrong there was just probably a filter right so Pisces as being one of the most intuitive signs in astrology it strengthens our connection to the unseen our inner knowing our deep wisdom and intuition you want to you want to connect in with your intuition you got to slow down you got to slow down

38:27and listen and you got to hear right because oftentimes they're like but my like I hear people say clients say you know I can't hear my intuition because you know my mind is so busy and it's the thoughts are so loud and you know the intuition is so quiet and they're like and I can't hear it and it's because right the the mind is so used to being in control that the intuition is trying so hard at your soul starting so hard to speak with you or your guides are trying so hard to speak with you but because the mind you know is so strong that it wants to you know cut everybody else off and so one of the practices is to slow down to slow down and to listen right instead of reacting to the busyness of of everything right and to slowing down and listening and then understanding

39:28like what is what is what am I what is the message I need to hear right or what is what is the answer to the question that I'm seeking right and then looking at the filters maybe that are on that are filtering your inner authority that's why I do the inner authority calls to help you figure out like what's driving the ship is there a belief that's driving the ship that needs to be shifted or is there an experience right a traumatic experience that is still driving the ship even though you've worked on that a million times is there still an aspect of that that is still driving the ship all right so let's look at it in from the four areas of life so health and intuition health well yeah health and vitality and intuition is is listening to the body and so there's a practice that I have I've been doing this probably now for six years is where I will connect in with the different aspects of myself like asking my physical body like what what do you need like

40:30what do you need right now what do you need more of what do you need less of and just listening to my body and sometimes it's going to come in you know some sort of memory or flashback of some sort or I'm going to fill something in my body or like I'll get sick if I start to approach something that's that my body's like I'm done I'm done with like right now I'm really done with processed foods and I'm trying really hard to be done with them and I've noticed because I really paid attention to my body of like how my body feels after I've eaten processed foods or when I'm about to eat or think about eating processed foods and I'm like immediately my body is just like no but then you know I buy I buy oranges and I smell the orange and my body's like yes like give me that right like it's like believe I want this and so like just noticing like oh

41:30okay like I should probably eat the orange because my body's telling me or I should probably have more water nearby because my body is telling me I need to drink more water more water more water all right relationships and love um is there something that you already know about your relationship my friend there's something you already know about your relationship but you're not allowing yourself to acknowledge this right here there I think we know I knew like for a long time in my past relationship that it wasn't a good one and it wasn't what I wanted to be in and it just I just thought that forever because of all the external pressure and the beliefs that I had of like you stick it out you got to stay with it you know and um I knew though I knew and I think we always know um but because of those beliefs we stay and so is there something in the relationship

42:33good or bad right because I don't uh information is just information it's not good or bad it's just is there something that you know and maybe it's something about you right maybe it's like I know this about myself that I need to shift I'm looking at this right now um with the relationship with my mother and you know we don't have we actually really don't have a relationship right we really don't and that is not something I'm happy about there's not something I'm proud of it's something that I wish would change like I really want to change and if I want that to change I have to do something different right and so I am looking at like that and acknowledging like where do I need to shift in this what do I need to do if I do want a different relationship with her right remember your intuition often whispers long before you will see it in your reality listen my friend all right

43:35business career money is there a decision that you've been delaying right a decision you know that is aligned like a direction that you want to go a path that you want to take and it just it's scary I know this I'm in this right now it's like I know I know exactly what the path is I know where I'm headed and it feels so aligned and it feels so good and yet it feels scary as because it's like oh do I really want to do that right so I really not like all that that might bring and in my mind I'm thinking of all that it might bring and not all of it is is in my perspective at least right now it doesn't feel good right and so because it's it's unknown territory it's unknown territory and unknown territory territory can be scary so this is that opportunity to look for that my friend all right and then sole person calling what keeps returning to you what

44:37keeps returning to you what vision um have you been refusing have you been like oh no I can't do that right maybe it's too big my chat gbt the other day was like stop looking at it like this and look at it like this and I was like oh thank you chat I needed to hear that and also it was more of stop playing small right it was like this idea of like stop limiting yourself right this isn't like this isn't this isn't the path so where maybe my friend might you be pushing something away that your heart is telling you to move forward too right all right let's step into leadership lesson number four completion and release now Pisces being the final zodiac sign of all the signs this means this season is not just an emotional season not just an intuitive season but it's also a

45:39reflective season it's the moment to look back at this past cycle meaning this past year meaning this past season whatever that that is for you maybe you are in a particular season of your life right now and reflecting back on how far you come what you've been able to accomplish where you might have gotten shifted right and looking at like what from the season are you ready to release or this past cycle that you're ready to release before we step into this new one what patterns have you know come to their completion and you know they were survival patterns before but they're not thriving patterns that you don't want to take into this next cycle you know what identities have you outgrown that you need to say goodbye to or let go of right because you know right after Pisces season begins right within a week spring is here and you know spring is a new

46:41beginnings spring is the start right so if we carry winter into spring we're recreating the same thing and my friend I know you know what that is that's insanity so if you don't want to be in the insanity then you've got to recognize what's what's ready to come to an end and let it actually go like okay I'm done with being frustrated about this I'm done with this habit I'm done with this pattern of getting triggered I'm done with stress I'm done with overwhelm I'm done with overgiving I'm done with not having boundaries I'm done with being silent whatever that is right so with health and vitality what habits right what habits are you ready to end what stress patterns right what stress are you caring that you're like I'm not going to stress about this anymore why am I like well I don't need to stress about this anymore relationships and love the the old dynamics the old

47:42way that you have held this person in trying to fix them or trying to expect them to be something that they're not or even the old resentment right and stepping into forgiveness remember releasing doesn't mean and forgiveness in particular doesn't mean that you're letting somebody off the hook that they won it's none of that it's actually freeing yourself from that frequency from that energy so sometimes it's it means letting go of the version of you who was in that relationship or who participated in that experience in business current money this is you know what are ways that are not sustainable that you're like okay you know what I like me I'm looking at it and like one on one work is not sustainable I only have so many hours in the day I can only work with so many people and if I want to have a much bigger impact which is why I created sacred CEO collective is so

48:43that I could help more people so that I could have more group spaces and there could be 100 people in that room right where I can impact more people and you know that's what I've been looking at is like oh this isn't this isn't sustainable because I'm going to burn out and the impact that I want to make is becomes limited at that point right so what I did it around money or success maybe is ready to evolve right it being a leader my my friend requires letting go of outdated strategies things that no longer work so you know how long are you going to push for this one thing that's not working as a leader you know whether we're looking at as the CEO of your business you know we have to look and say is this strategy working that's why we reflect every single month and that's why we reflect every single quarter to look at in the in the bigger picture has this strategy worked and if it hasn't then it's time to let that go right if I'm looking at

49:46the podcast and the podcast is costing me time and money and it's not you know helping bring more people into my world or it's not impacting people then it's it's not like it's not doing anything it's not serving right it's it's it's it's a strategy that I maybe need to look at right so where might that be for you and then in your sole purpose and calling right this is an opportunity to look at in this next chapter in this next season like who am I who am I being in this next chapter and sometimes the greatest release is letting go of the old version of yourself the version that held all those beliefs that survived and that got you here and maybe it's I like releasing that identity of surviving and shifting into the energy energy and identity of

50:47thriving all right my friend as we bring this episode to a close I just want to remind you of the Ford leadership lessons of Pisces number one being of boundaries and being in energetic integrity number two emotional mastery mastering those emotions feeling them the 90 seconds number three leadership lesson number three is intuition and inner authority is trusting that intuition listening to the intuition and noticing the filters that are affecting your inner authority and leadership lesson number four completion and release is noticing what is ready to come to an end letting go releasing it and not taking it in to this new season my friend Pisces season invite something so beautiful and that is pause a moment of reflection before the next cycle begins the moment of

51:54bringing things to a close releasing them letting go so I leave you with these three questions that you can sit to it you can meditate on you can journal in journal on and that is what am I ready to release what emotional pattern am I ready to shift and who is the woman I am becoming in this next season who is the woman I am becoming in this next season because conscious leadership my friend is having the courage to complete what is complete and create space for what is coming next my friend these are the conversations that we are having inside the new community secrets EO collective right now this is a leadership room my friend where women learn to lead themselves through seasons of growth transition and change and if anything that I said in this episode resonates

52:56with you if you're looking for a community and a space to have more conversations like this to grow more into your leadership and to lead yourself I would love love love to welcome you inside there is a link down below to learn more I'm gonna tell you sacred CEO and conscious leadership is not going away this is the path I have been called to and I am so blessed and so excited that you are here for that journey and my friend as we bring this episode to a close remember to keep shining your unique light

54:05hey hey hey my friend if you're listening to this podcast chances are your woman who's building something meaningful maybe it's a business maybe it's your leadership maybe it's simply the life you know you're meant to live but somewhere along the way you realize something no one ever actually taught you how to lead yourself how to regulate your emotions when things get hard how to stop abandoning yourself under pressure and how to stop making decisions from your inner authority instead of fear or even overthinking that's exactly why I created sacred CEO collective my friend sacred CEO collective is open and it is a leadership room for women who are ready to stop living at the effect of their circumstances at the effect of the outer

55:10world and start leading their lives consciously inside the collective we gather for a monthly somatic breathwork leadership expansion calls weekly intention resets and short transmissions designed to help you regulate your nervous system and step into your next level of leadership my friend this isn't a course this isn't something that you buy and put on the shelf help digital shelf my friend it's a rhythm of support for women who are becoming the leader of their own life my friend if this resonates with you I would love for you to learn more and step into the room at the pieceteacher.com forward slash sacred CEO dash collective that's the pieceteacher.com forward slash sacred CEO dash collective my friend I can't wait to see you inside