134. From Burnout To Values: A Guide For Gen X

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Tired of treating boredom and busyness as “just the way it is”? Join us as we sit down with coach Shelley McIntyre, host of Burn the Map, to explore midlife reinvention. Shelly guides Gen X professionals and empty nesters in trading status shorthand for true identity, using values as the foundation for lasting change.

We identify real signals of misalignment: workplace resentment, fatigue, and the feeling that you’re not yourself. Shelley shares techniques to slow down, listen to your inner voice, and gather external feedback when self-reflection feels challenging. We discuss the importance of redefining self-identity beyond job titles, shifting the conversation from “What do you do?” to “What do you love?”

If burnout has stifled your curiosity, you don’t have to navigate it alone. Borrow courage, take beginner classes, or run small experiments to explore new paths safely. We debunk myths about midlife changes, distinguish between career pivots and life resets, and encourage reclaiming joy through the essence exercise, which gathers insights about your best self.

Ready to design a second act filled with meaning and authenticity? This conversation offers a clear roadmap to get started.

Key Takeaways:

• Recognize signs of misalignment as valuable signals.
• Slow down and hear your inner voice.
• Reframe identity beyond job titles for deeper connections.
• Execute tiny experiments to reignite curiosity.

Shelley McIntyre Bio: Shelley McIntyre is a coach for GenX professionals who want to design intentional and vibrant third acts. After a 25-year career in technology and corporate strategy, Shelley pivoted to coaching to help people get in their own way. Shelley believes that it’s never too late to reinvent yourself. It’s time to reclaim your identity and forge a new path.  

Find Shelley Online: LinkedIn, Instagram, Website

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