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Every night at bedtime, Jane would kiss her five-year-old son’s cheek, and say, “I love you so much.”
One night, her son said, “Mom, I know you love me. But are you proud of me?”
That’s a true story that Dr. Emerson Eggerich shared while teaching about his book, Love and Respect.
Hearing her son’s question, Jane realized her son was already craving respect. She changed her approach. At bedtime, started putting her hand on her son’s shoulder and saying, “I am so proud of you.” Every time she did, her son would puff his chest and smile.
Your son does need to know you love him, of course. But don’t forget about his desire to hear that you like him and are proud of the person that he is, as well.
To learn about the five critical needs of boys, visit TrailLifeUSA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.
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0:00Raising godly boys with Mark Hancock Does your son lay around playing electronic games or scrolling through social media instead of helping around the house? Unfortunately, many pre-teens and teens are conditioned to reach for an electronic device. The minute their mind starts to wander, they need guidance to redirect their efforts. Consider assigning your son's chores. Such mowing the lawn, making their beds or washing the dishes, children who complete chores are more confident, do better in school, and are more patient than those who don't contribute to the household responsibilities. Chores help children be content with delayed gratification and mature them into responsible adults. Start giving your son a few chores based on his maturity level. Praise him when he compilates his tasks and model being the responsible adult by putting your device away and working alongside him. For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Off USA or Raising godlyboys.com. Learn more at Raising godlyboys.com
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